heretplay

heretplay

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Ladies and strapon question...

July 16 2015

So, a question for the ladies who enjoy (or have thought about) pegging guys. I'm just curious as to whether the guys sexual preference plays any part in your enjoyment of the "act"? Does it matter if he's bi or straight? Is it purely the role reversal side of it? Are there any women out there who would only want to do it with a straight guy, and does that add to the enjoyment factor?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Enjoying anal as a guy has nothing whatsoever to do with being gay, bi or whatever. It's merely a physical act some enjoy and others don't. To answer your question: it makes no difference to me at all. :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    She said. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My ex hubby got me into it. Sadly he was so straight that he didnt even like watching mmf or gay porn with me, but enjoyed anal play which progressed to pegging. I dont approach it as domination or role reversal. Its just another layer of play that turns me on and this is because it turns them on. Since being single,I have had some lovely straight males that were into it(or fisting) but the reason its a bonus to have a bi (bottom or top)lover is for experiencing a total 3way with 2 guys who will be involved physically with each other as well as me.I am currently seeing a lovely bi guy from another site who is very excited and turned on that I want to see him with another guy and play 3way. Sharing a nice cock with a lover is a beautiful intimate experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    This is something I've never done, but would love to. Sexual preference (straight/bi/experimental etc.) doesn't factor in for for me... the enjoyment factor would be watching the pleasure that the guy in question gets from it.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    If the pleasure bit gets out all the guys will be willing and there would less gigs for us bi guys

  • heretplay

    heretplay

    9 years ago

    I hear what you're saying and agree wholeheartedly 😊I just happen to very much be bi myself. I'm just interested to know if there are women out there who are more.... Psychologically into pegging straight men over bi or (probably wouldn't happen) gay guys?

  • heretplay

    heretplay

    9 years ago

    Uh huh... It's definitely more fun when there's other "bodies" to play with at the same time lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm sure there's enough for everyone ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    The act itself doesn't define your sexuality. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    When I was active on here before, I wrote in my profile that I liked pegging and butt play with guys, and that attracted a fair few messages from sub guys who wanted to be "my little slut and own their arse,do what I want to them"... that kind of response. Thats sooo not my thing!! I dont connect with subby guys, and Im not dominant at all. So there is obviously big assumptions that women who have strapons are going to be dominant and butch it up.Nope

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I prefer pegging straight guys but I don't mind bi guys. I just like dominating men.

  • heretplay

    heretplay

    9 years ago

    I fear that my question may be getting misinterpreted, but strangely enough, in a roundabout sort of way, I'm also getting the answers to my question ......................... It has nothing to do with what the guys think about their sexuaility. My question has nothing to do with whether they consider themselves straight, bi, heteroflexible, Trans, gay, whatever........... But whether or not it influences any women who may find it more of a thrill to be pegging a guy who actually is, by definition, straight?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have never done a straight man with a strapon before I don't think. In general I don't go looking for straight guys at all so..............

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    9 years ago

    Pleasure, it done for pleasure, received for pleasure, I've fucked men who have never been with another man and I've fucked men who also enjoy being with another man..... It all comes down to pleasure, mine and his.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Just to be clear - there will always be a 'gig' available for you in my calendar ;) it would be a privilege and a pleasure!

  • heretplay

    heretplay

    9 years ago

    ... Do you Meeka 😆;-)

  • loveorall

    loveorall

    9 years ago

    The thought of receiving it has always excited me and it's one thing I'd like for a lady to surprise me with, just need to find a lovely lady to experience this with. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Age, race, gender, opinion,height, likes, dislikes, blah fuckin blah. When we are in bed together, the only thing that matters to me is your pleasure and my pleasure. The rest will still be there in the morning. Or afternoon.....

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    9 years ago

    So using my strap on is about pleasure, my playmates and mine. It's not part of my play with everyone but if they are into it, I don't care about their sexuality! For me it's sexy because there is an 'open-mindedness' about the play which is in huge turn on too. I always travel with toys, so it's an option if any playmate wants to try 😉 Mary xx

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Reading the majority of men's profile in here, seems most are straight. I can understand in every day life the need for discretion but if you cant be honest with yourself and others in here........ Bi? Be proud. And state it. Sorry Op, slightly off topic

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Yep. Clear it is. Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'heretplay' any women who may find it more of a thrill to be pegging a guy who actually is, by definition, straight? No. Though personally I love deflowering any guy who's an anal virgin, not matter what their orientation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Maybe they are straight, thats why they dont have bi on their profile. Enjoying a woman peg them doesnt maketh the man bi. But I remember another forum topic written by a couple and the male half said he was bi, but was happy to play straight. He found that having bi on their profile scared a lot of straight couples away, so he changed it to straigh. Thats a fair call I believe, because not every sexual experience has to be a bi play. Just mixing it up and having fun.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    I agree with you but i was making a general observation of the guys that hit me up have straight in their profile a lot of the time. If you cant be forthright on here where can you be?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I got a message today from a guy who said "I'm bi but not advertising". Unfortunately it really works against some men to be ehhh... straight up.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Not doing themselves justice. Looking for a bi. Check profile. Says straight. Next.........

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Fantasy of fucked by a woman with a strapon. TICK

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I have never done a straight man with a strapon before I don't think. surely they weren't ALL bi?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have used a strap on with straight & bi guys. I enjoy it because I see how much sexual pleasure the guys get from it, which in turn, turns me on as well. It's just another part of our play times, all good fun for all involved. I wouldn't use it on anyone who doesn't want it at all. Most straight guys are curious to try, & once they have tried it once, they want it again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Always wanted to try this with a woman or a couple but none have been interested :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I was going to make a pegging joke, butt fuck it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I find if very off putting. I prefer to be fucked by the man.