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Ladies, how do you cum???
December 04 2008
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Mr_MrsJones
16 years ago
This is a topic that we have been exploring recently ourselves. Lady until very recently only climaxed whle stimulating herslf during sex. we have been working on ways to change this with some success but would be interested in tips and hints from anyone out there. Interestingly lady often 'feels' other people when they come as in has a sensation similar to theirs but does not climax herself. I think a lot is to do with the state of mind and being turned on enough beforehand. love to hear any tips
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good question! I heard (a long time ago) that only 43% of women "usually" have an orgasm but it's more commonly a clitoral one... the vaginal is not very common :-( Only 13% "always" orgasm and 11% NEVER do !!! OMG For me a vaginal orgasm is almost non-existent (lol). When I have managed to achieve one it's been a combination of position, my mood (and what part of my cycle I'm up to), how attentive the guy is and a lot of it is mind over matter. Dirty talk helps me!! Squirting has happened to me only 3 times ... not sure how that happened LOL I'm interested in reading the responses. Good luck and I hope you all cum this weekend :-) MissDee
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RHP User
16 years ago
Vaginal orgasms are all abt hitting that G spot. If you could bend and shove a cock like you could a vibe, it would hit the spot every time mmmmmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
Clitoral orgasms are NOT "artificial"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I do believe Need_it_bad was meaning the method (using a vibrator) being artifical, surely not the orgasm. The only artificial orgasms are the faked ones... hehehehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss D. From my experience with squirters hitting on the G spot can trigger a squirt. That is after turning her on slow and sure building up to it. Its almost like torture taking her not quite up to it then down tehn up and so on. Once full arousal is achieved it doesnt take much to go over the edge with each squirt larger and wetter finishing off with one massive squirt and cum though that gets lost and washed away with squirt or Nectar of Amrita which is what Tantra teaches. I can sit Venus on the edge and over for ages until she has such a violent shudder usually ending with one of us off the bed. The G spot and clit together should be concentrated on with the occasional deep thrust of the toy/s. And fingers, thumbs and tongue...mmmnnnnn Mars orgasm Posted by: MissDemeanour Date: Dec 05, 2008 Good question! I heard (a long time ago) that only 43% of women "usually" have an orgasm but it's more commonly a clitoral one... the vaginal is not very common :-( Only 13% "always" orgasm and 11% NEVER do !!! OMG For me a vaginal orgasm is almost non-existent (lol). When I have managed to achieve one it's been a combination of position, my mood (and what part of my cycle I'm up to), how attentive the guy is and a lot of it is mind over matter. Dirty talk helps me!! Squirting has happened to me only 3 times ... not sure how that happened LOL I'm interested in reading the responses. Good luck and I hope you all cum this weekend :-) MissDee
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RHP User
16 years ago
Unlike most women, clitoral orgasms are virutally impossible for me, and vaginal orgasms are abundant. So the best way to make me cum is just to fuck hard, lol! Oral is almost a waste of time. Anal orgasms are awesome, but the best ones are anal & vaginal together... Mmmmm...... :) I think its one of the best arguments for masturbation that you *learn* how to orgasm. When I think back to ten years ago, I was very different then in my needs and my responses. Now, with an experienced and experimental partner guiding me, I have learned a lot more control... so I can either delay my orgasm and "save up" for a really big one... OR I can just cum on the spot without even any lead-up at all except my own imagination and muscle contractions. I have been told that when I cum my muscles vibrate intensely and very noticably - I don't think I've ever needed to be asked if I've had an orgasm or not, you can't miss it. Sometimes I scream loud and don't really notice I'm doing it at the time, other times I suck my breath in and couldn't make a sound if I wanted to. I sometimes squirt, but not a lot unless someone "makes" me with a deliberate technique. nadi xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
anal sex gets me screaming the house down....experienced being licked to orgasm recently for the first time, and also experienced vaginal orgasm too....but what makes it truly minority were the three internal orgasms i had while driving home after meeting someone for coffee, drove me wild, never did i ever think it was possible. Still working on the squirting thing, so in training, thanks to the "sexual goddess" website
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am different every time. Mr and I have been together 17 yrs and just the other day he said after I had cum "that was different never seen you cum like that before." I think it may be because we try different positions and styles of sex all the time. Sometimes it will be 98 - 100% foreplay and others 2-20% foreplay. We buy new toys and both take notice of what others are doing to learn new stuff all the time. Sometimes when I cum it is hot hard and loud and like Nadi other times I cant utter a sound. A few times when I have cum it seems we have hit a nerve or something because the roof of my mouth will go numb and my thighs and legs will have pins and needles. I taught myself to squirt about 12 months ago and that took some mastering but now I can when I want and not if I dont, I got Mr right in the face the other day lol. Sometimes it takes 5 mins to make me cum and other times I get frustrated because it takes so bloody long. As for vaginal orgasms I have only had a couple and they were outstanding and something I wish to recreate sometime. The secret I think to all my fantastic orgasms over the years is that Mr always makes me cum first so that I am never left unsatisfied. Oh the wonderful world of sex and orgasms makes me very moist just thinking of it. Mrs xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I read it that she couldn't get a guy to get her to orgasm without the use of a vibrator... and then goes on to say she recently found she can orgasm vaginally, orally etc. Just sounded like she was having clit stimulation orgasms up til that point...? Dunno.
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RHP User
16 years ago
" But i'd like to ask.....how do you cum??? Do you squirt?? What do you or your partners have to do to get you screaming the house down???? '' Rarely will I cum without penetration AND clitoral stimulation, and thats "usually" when taken from behind so he has his hands relatively free to play.. absolute house screaming joy :) If he's at the right angle there can be a squirt too. A guy who genuinely loves to please is damn gorgeous!
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RHP User
16 years ago
By myself...vibe every time. With a man...2 fingers deep & fast gets me off most times, & I squirt sometimes but I hate it....or a hard fuck from behind usually works but not all the time, but I love it anyway.
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RHP User
16 years ago
how do you squirt? well... through stimulation of the g spot babe, the g spot has to be trained into releasing the fluid that builds up internally, so most women when they are not used to gspot stimulation will feel as though they need to urinate, and so they feel uncomfortable and so stop g spot stimulation. girls you need to keep going! when you start to feel the sensation of the need to wee this is normal for gspot arousal so you know youre onto it. the gspot needs to be 'engorged' shall we say, to build up the fluid so stimulation needs to happen over a period of arousal, i usually like to alternate with gentle g spot and clitoral stimulation first then as i approach a high state of arousal i like to move onto harder gspot stimulation. the vagina is a pretty resiliant part of the body and can cope with quite a firm stimulation so don't be afraid to put a bit of effort into it. To aid g spot stimulation try placing the other hand above the pubic bone and press firmly down from the top of the pubic bone to push the gspot forward, again you can press quite firmly into the lower abdomen when you do this, this works well when you have a partner with a straight penis who may have trouble hitting the gspot during intercourse... Above all, women need to be relaxed and open to the idea of ejaculation. it is a beautiful and wonderous thing to behold and to be able to do, and can only happen when you have a partner who undersatnds this and cherishes the experience. contrary to some trains of thought, it is not weeing, the fluid is not urine it is bodliy ejaculate and completely normal and sexy. don't worry if it doesnt shoot across the room porno style, the amount of ejaculate depends completly on the hydration of the woman, how well trained the g spot is and of course. some women shoot, some dribble, just like guys. if it doesn't happen the first time, don't worry, keep trying and keep it relaxed, and sexy and the squirting world is your oyster!!!
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