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Ladies, just how many sites do you need?
July 12 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's definitely a confidence booster, let's face it , we all love a compliment or 200 lol... Just on the one site for us... It's overwhelming and a part time job maintaining it sometimes... We were on another outdoor site for interest and curiosity, but when I tried to direct the traffic here, I was axed!!! TIMBER!!!!!!..... TG:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't need any. Not on any other nor am I here for any of the usual reasons(s).
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RHP User
10 years ago
RHP keeps me busy enough not on any other sites .... I'm on Facebook to keep in touch with family and friends but the funny thing is I get tagged in photos with friends and I get hit on by friends of friends funny that !! So maybe it's the way the of connecting for some people . I enjoy being on RHP too much I'm just a free sprit no hang ups xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm currently on two sites - this one and another adult dating site (I'm not on the other site nearly as much as I am on here). I do have a profile on a 'vanilla' site that I opened a few weeks ago, stating I was only looking for casual dating, but I got bored with it after about an hour, haven't logged onto it for a couple of weeks, and will probably just delete the profile. Anyway, I can give you a couple of reasons from my perspective: 1) Spreading the net wider / increasing your 'market range' (so to speak). Yeah obviously a lot of people are on the same sites, but some are only on the one so being on more than one site increases your visibility to a wider range of people. You are as aware as anyone of what the quality of messages is like on here, and it's not much if any different on other sites, even the vanilla ones. So for every 10 to 15 offers you get, there might be one person who ticks your boxes and that you might actually want to meet. So, being on multiple sites increases your chances of finding those suitable people. 2) Related to #1 in a way. Women like myself who live in regional and rural areas with smaller populations are generally not inundated with messages like the women in the big cities can be. Yeah we may get a lot when we first join up, but that quickly dies down. I receive about 5 to 10 messages a week on here, depending on what profile pic I have up and what I've said on the forums ;-) Smaller populations means smaller numbers of potential suitable people, so once again having multiple profiles is a way to increase the chances of coming across people you click with (it's still very difficult though, I haven't met up with anyone for ages).
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RHP User
10 years ago
I joined a couple of other sites before I knew about RHP. Once I joined here I tried to cancel my memberships with the others. Apparently they still have my profile up. I never use them, so Im not really worried I use RHP as I only want something casual at the moment, it suits me fine. I must say that the attention you get on dating sites does wonders for a bruised confidence, but you have to remember the reality. Walking down the High Street you wont get hordes of guys asking you out! Enjoy it for what it is
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RHP User
10 years ago
I must say I'm somewhat miffed at your assumption we're all doing it to make ourselves feel better, one way or another. I'm on two sites, mainly for the same reasons. I think I average 50-60 messages a week between the two, though on the other site about 90% are of the "hey" variety (compared to 5% here), so they don't really count. I joined the vanilla site again about two months ago, as I wasn't finding what I was after here. I'm yet to meet someone there, however. I'm hoping to find a man I like and who likes me. That seems like a good reason to cast my net a bit wider to me. Power trip over the males? Hardly. There's no such thing as "RHP Hot" on the vanilla sites, so any woman joining them to have their ego stroked won't get very far, I think. My 2cts.
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Don't get miffed at Annie, how many men on any dating site would like 50-60 messages a week?
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RHP User
10 years ago
The laws of averages are the same here as anywhere... I'm of a firm belief most female members here are here for a ego boost more so than getting down and dirty... These days I wait til I get contacted or do the old fashion meeting the conventional way... Face to face...
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RHP User
10 years ago
As many as it takes to find some quality among the quantity. Isn't that obvious?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Annie, I am sure there are lots of nice guys here but too many let their little head do the talking. Therefore it isn't very often you actually find someone you really click with. So lots offers... Who cares when most of the time you feel like any hole will do. Sorry but that doesn't make me feel special at all.
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I must say I'm somewhat miffed at your assumption we're all doing it to make ourselves feel better, one way or another. I'm on two sites, mainly for the same reasons. I think I average 50-60 messages a week between the two, though on the other site about 90% are of the "hey" variety (compared to 5% here), so they don't really count. I joined the vanilla site again about two months ago, as I wasn't finding what I was after here. I'm yet to meet someone there, however. I'm hoping to find a man I like and who likes me. That seems like a good reason to cast my net a bit wider to me. Power trip over the males? Hardly. There's no such thing as "RHP Hot" on the vanilla sites, so any woman joining them to have their ego stroked won't get very far, I think. My 2cts. I feel your frustration. Not sure about your 50-60 messages a week though. Me, only have had about 5 in 6-months (and most from couples which I am not looking for). I can understand though it is hard to find the perfect man
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
I dont fit into any of your assumptions. Is it to tickle the ego..... No, I rarely receive more than a message a week. (less on vanilla sites) Is it a way to repair damaged self esteem from previous bad relations......no damaged self esteem here!Is it a power trip over the males?......not into power domination. Also not into toy boys or one night stands. I thought what I am seeking would be quite simple to find. A man who is in touch with his sensual side, adores making love, physically capable of maintaining an erection for penetration, who really really likes me and chooses to spend time with me in everyday life. Seems it is not that simple. On rhp I attract young ones wanting me to be an experience for them. Men who are condom intolerant. Men 10 years older than there profile who just want to talk dirty...all talk no action. Men from interstate who just want to wank off on camera while I watch. The very rare nice man who , ultimately, dont have the balls to say they like me and want to sample others. I came here as on so called Vanilla dating sites I attract,Men who want me to make sandwiches for them to take to lawn bowls (nothing against lawn bowls, take me instead of the goddam sandwhiches) Men who just want to fuck with the emphasis on themself. My experience...not a lot of difference between vanilla sites and rhp.
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
it comes across as a little bitter. It wasnt meant to be, I am not a bitter woman. Just answering your question Annie. Basically, if you want a pair of shoes, cant find them in the first shoe shop, do you stop looking for what you want? Or do you find other shoe shops?
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Annie, I am sure there are lots of nice guys here but too many let their little head do the talking. Therefore it isn't very often you actually find someone you really click with. So lots offers... Who cares when most of the time you feel like any hole will do. Sorry but that doesn't make me feel special at all. How many times do you actually search for a combatable match, as apposed to just waiting for 50-60 guys a week who are obviously attracted to you to contact you, and for you to review and discard at your will. (My point is that if you actually searched on men that met your criteria, you may find more men more suitable, as apposed to all of the hot blooded men attracted to your beauty and interested in one thing). The deck is therefore stacked if you are just looking at the hundreds of men messaging you, generally for one reason. Try doing a search to find out how may are actually suitable !
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RHP User
10 years ago
I actually loved your post. Ii's funny cos it's true!
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Insomnian
10 years ago
Just my 2 cents worthI think most people are on more then one site, simply for variety if nothing else. Male or Female I think it really makes no difference... except for the numbers game. What you might find on this site, you won't find on another, and vice versa. Far as how many messages one gets, I think that's more to how prevalent you are on any site. For example, myself, when I was always in the chat rooms on here, or continually remarking on posts in the forums, I'd get messages and views galore. People get to know you, and your '' net '' gets spread via people that talk among their ''clicks''. As I said at the start, just my 2 cents worth, interesting topic Annie, will be following it with interest on others views.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've enjoyed various aspects of this site... mostly it has been meets and heading to swingers clubs. Actually, meeting anyone on here has been very hit and miss. I'm guessing with 50-60 messages a week, there is about 1-2 hits in there... which keeps you warm at night and feeling good about yourself. For some guys, 5 messages a week would be great... and when it comes to sex, well I'm thinking desire and fantasy is Magic Mike XXL... and reality well... "yay, a woman actually talked to me" :p This is one thing I find about dating sites is that they are filled with many types but two generally stand out for me. Those people that are generally very busy and don't seem to get outside their social circles. And those that don't get out at all. Either way, the old fashioned meet and get to know is kinda dead here. My guess is that 90% of the introductions are guys who have the guts to hide behind the anonymity and subsequently safety of the Internet ... not one to ask a lady out in person. And hey, I admit I'm not the best at this either. But with the sample pool on the Internet, it really is small odds... let alone trying to find someone with similar interests. I always say get out and follow your interests and you will likely find similar minded people because they will have similar interests. It runs on my favourite saying "soulmates inevitably find each other because they hide in the same places". I just find I want more in the bed than just us two on occasions... and well where else should one hide than a swingers site... (looking at it just as sex site really does lose the fact of the lifestyle some choose). It's not about sex... more freedom and respect for an individual's taste :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't like the online dating thing. I detest the emailing so in 5 years I have only met around 3-4 guys for one on one meetings. I am not going to go into my reasons why, but personally I am Really only here for the forums. Having on my profile that I am looking for a boyfriend or that I looking for more ensures I don't get many emails. Almost none.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well, at first I was getting all the emails but it is too overwhelming I am sure lots of nice guys with not much to distinguish between them. For me it was always just hard work. If I wanted sex or a hookup I would just go to a swingers club.. Which I don't.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Do they all have SWB ? Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
10 years ago
Do they all have SWB ? Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
and that resulted in 2 relationships, one short and the other 8 years. They didn't last because the men were not open minded enough for me and I felt stiffled. I was casting the net as wide as possible without the results I wanted. It wasn't ego boosting at all as many of the men in the age range I was looking were living out their fantasies by chasing much younger women. So quite the opposite, it was confidence destroying. After closing those accounts I heard about RHP via someone I met through an online chat site and it is the only site I'm on now. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I tried the 'vanilla' sites and the guys on there are all big talk no action. I was actually asked this question Annie by someone the other day as he said once he met me he was surprised I was on here, seems I'm a 'nice' woman haha, which I am don't get me wrong. But my answer to him was that at least I know what I'm getting from this site, the other sites they are all pretending to be someone they aren't and I have found the men I have met are more open about what they want. I don't want to sleep with everyone, but I love sex so I will find quality that I enjoy going back too 'often' :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Because a good man is so very hard to find. I do wonder at times how the human race has managed to survive this long, or have I found my self in the hell of a million dicks. I fear all the men worth pursuing have long been taken. Should I have been more selective when younger? What is wrong with humanity that we find it so hard to find a man of quality.
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RHP User
10 years ago
one after the other after the other....not just for research; but because I got bored with seemingly no progression in interactions. Interest for progression in my view is within the replies not the reply itself....which I've not seen. Sure that's not the site but me.....be it I'm just not what is being sought after or I don't have the CV of credentials of 2 personal referees....not an issue; but it was my motivator to seek out a much broader exposure net. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Where is Annie? This looks like a male's post. Careful you may wrestled, tied up and your stockings, crotchless panties and short skirt slipped back on. Also a lil bewildered. xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'HennaJay' This looks like a male's post. I noticed this too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
.... so the straw poll sensis is that women on here are getting 10 - 200 responses a week ... profile pic and location contingent LD ;) ... lets make a few assumptions to look at the numbers ....and lets say over 10 weeks madame X recieves ... 10 x 50 av/wk. = 500 prospectives in a 10 week period. .... lets say that 50% messages received, are sent when they (men) are totally hammered .. or sex crazed to the point of incoherence. ... leaves 250 ... lets say of the remaining 50%, 30% do not meet the profile criteria ... age, height, length of member, marital status, location, appearance, elevated bogan quotient etc ..... leaves 50 .... lets say that 50% of the remaining respondents .... you just didn't like .... leaves 25 suitable in a 10 week period Gentlemen ...... anyone here like to be petitioned by 25 women qualified by the above criteria per 10 weeks ? ..you wish ! Ladies ... the reality is that for most men ( yeah Theseus, put away the gods body) will not receive 25 unsolicited approaches, let alone 25 qualified candidates ... total ... in the next 10 weeks in total ... and applying that same factor .... now deemed to be 5% ..... possibly one woman may emerge out of the ether ... (there is an additional quarter of a woman .. but that could be messy .... or very short ) .... Gentlemen ..... Q. when was the last time that you received an unsolicited approach form a woman ? ....but one is all one needs ?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'HennaJay' Where is Annie? This looks like a male's post. Careful you may wrestled, tied up and your stockings, crotchless panties and short skirt slipped back on. Also a lil bewildered. xx Yeah, busted. I had some internal dialogue with my male half and got coerced into posting this. lol.I was also interested that if I posted it where RHP would put it. Into Guys ask or Girls ask? Played safe and into hot topics. There were several reasons for raising the issue. I for one have enough trouble keeping up with the one site let alone several depending on what piccys I have up. And I was spurred on by one of our forumites posting about her vanilla dates of recent times and the difference she found between the meets with men from here and there.I suppose the line is blurred by the difference between this site and the vanilla ones in the way of expectations of that first meet for say coffee or meal. Which is confusing me in that if you are prepared to tackle the up front males in here who are interested in sex and maybe a relatlionship, why would you go down the gentle approach with the reverse attitude with the sex thing on their mind but tucked behind the relationship quest. But of course is it like that?Not having been on any other site, is the vanilla sites just a pleasant shop front for the same thing which I see a few posts in here addressing that.I know of one women through a friend, who is on at least 6 vanilla sites, not RHP, who has at least 2-3 different men every week and has been doing that for 18 months. Surely she will self combust shortly??
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I must say I'm somewhat miffed at your assumption we're all doing it to make ourselves feel better, one way or another. I'm on two sites, mainly for the same reasons. I think I average 50-60 messages a week between the two, though on the other site about 90% are of the "hey" variety (compared to 5% here), so they don't really count. I joined the vanilla site again about two months ago, as I wasn't finding what I was after here. I'm yet to meet someone there, however. I'm hoping to find a man I like and who likes me. That seems like a good reason to cast my net a bit wider to me. Power trip over the males? Hardly. There's no such thing as "RHP Hot" on the vanilla sites, so any woman joining them to have their ego stroked won't get very far, I think. My 2cts. Not saying you are all doing the multi site thing for that reason but i'm certain that will be at least part of the reason for some. And not judging or shaming, good luck to those who are.Nothing wrong for example, a woman who has come out of a stifling relationship and suddenly finds herself the centre of attention of hundreds of men on this site or any other. Why not tickle the ego and lift the self esteem? But it would be problematic for some to go down that path of multiple sites and be inundated with so many messages that surely would muddle the mind with so much choice. And with so many messages etc, surely it would be easy to miss the diamonds in the pile of glass. More sites, the bigger the pile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's all of those points: Power trip ( few other options out there for that ) Repairing damaged ego Vanity Opening up the field because ( as you men would know) the more options the better for looking after number one Btw: I'm not on any other sites because the only real option is to meet doing something you love ( other than sex) - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Annie, I am sure there are lots of nice guys here but too many let their little head do the talking. Therefore it isn't very often you actually find someone you really click with. So lots offers... Who cares when most of the time you feel like any hole will do. Sorry but that doesn't make me feel special at all. Isn't is a case that almost every guy will think with the little head? Would it not be just a matter of being disguised on the other sites? Men are men after all. Just hidden behind the guise of a few dinners........
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' it comes across as a little bitter. It wasnt meant to be, I am not a bitter woman. Just answering your question Annie. Basically, if you want a pair of shoes, cant find them in the first shoe shop, do you stop looking for what you want? Or do you find other shoe shops? Thanks for your previous post, enlightening. And also very true.Surprised by only 1 message or so a week?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Do they all have SWB ? Mado Mado Tara xx What is this thing SWB that you speak.........................?
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madotara69
10 years ago
Secret Women's Business
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway'Surprised by only 1 message or so a week? I think that most guys are under the false impression that every woman on here is inundated with hundreds of messages a week. That may be true for some women (particularly when they first join up), but certainly not all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think a lot of men act differently online then how they would act if they met me face to face for the first time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have had someone quite recently assume that I was too busy to talk to him because I was obviously doing a few guys a night!!! Really?? Is that really what guys in here think? It wasn't the case by any stretch of the imagination. My messages are few and far between, but that's fine as I'm now finding they are quality thought out messages which is fantastic, change of wording in my profile has worked well ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ulysses42' leaves 25 suitable in a 10 week period No. I haven't been in contact with 25 suitable men in the entire 3 years I've been on RHP
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RHP User
10 years ago
One is all you need? Hmmm like your wife you mean? :p
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madotara69
10 years ago
I was looking about on the www. at dating sites, just to see if they welcome swinging, we are not looking for relationships, so to speak, FWB sure.Anyhow I joined one site, grey ghost handle "Fooservagger", some bullshit as a profile description and have received hundreds of messages from women, just have to join to message them back. Bahahahahhahaha
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madotara69
10 years ago
join financially as too the latter.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Just $50 to tickle your own male ego. Free here for the..........nah, not going there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am currently looking at Sugar Daddy dating and strapondates. I have heard Cougar Root is no good. :P
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madotara69
10 years ago
I think I was born with ego, then just grew off it. I stretched it to almost 7 inches once.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The main reason women are on multiple dating sites is because it's really hard to find someone that ticks all the basic prerequisites? Are 'decent' men really that hard to find!? lol
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
sometimes not even one message a week. Lets face it, once you click over the big 50 , you dont come up in any of the searches....(unless its the young boys looking for a cougar and I think you know that is not what I am seeking). Dont mind the lack of messages though, as I am seeking quality, not quantity. I have also been told that I am too nice to be on a site like this. What is that about ??Nice people dont love sex? Its a pretty good insight to the way some men think.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Plenty of decent men, just not very many who meet my requirements and I theirs.
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ppiffle3934
10 years ago
What Ruby said.. couldn't have said it better myself really! lolI've been on a couple of "vanilla" sites, one the men who "want to meet me" are mostly 10 plus years older than me and really.. they look closer to the age of my father (80)! The other is the one Meander has now been asked to play moderator for her brilliant spot the fake skills. If I get one more email from an overseas man who calls me dear I think I'll scream! I've reported a few, honestly they are a dead give away. The latest one had a pic of Prince Andrew as his profile pic lol I'm on RHP and one other similar site, where I met my last FWB of 6 yrs. I certainly don't get anywhere near 20 emails a week, must be that magical past 50 age thing.
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Kattss
10 years ago
I don't get many messages at all. I find that if I am not not on here often or registered on datefinder I would get no messages at all. I have registered for a number of other sites, with great disappointment. I certainly don't pay to join other sites that's for sure. Regular dating sites are an epic let down. Don't even get me started about the ones that make you do a lengthy multiple choice survey as part of your profile!! However, I do find quality after all that effort..I Have had some fun times and made some friends ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes I see men from this site on other, more vanilla, sites. And how very different their profiles are on the different sites. lol.
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cleopatrababe
10 years ago
So so true all of it .. I think ur honest upfront good on you ..i to get over sll the bullshit ..married men ..young men wanting the ecperience and men who simply lie to you .. Im looking for that connection not a one night stand its rare ..maybe im just getting over it all - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' it comes across as a little bitter. It wasnt meant to be, I am not a bitter woman. Just answering your question Annie. Basically, if you want a pair of shoes, cant find them in the first shoe shop, do you stop looking for what you want? Or do you find other shoe shops? Very well said!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I am currently looking at Sugar Daddy dating and strapondates. I have heard Cougar Root is no good. :P forget Sugar Daddy & Cougar Root..........those sites are a waste of time and Cougar Root doesn't have many members anyway.You're better of on rhp.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meowcolm_X' The main reason women are on multiple dating sites is because it's really hard to find someone that ticks all the basic prerequisites? Are 'decent' men really that hard to find!? lol Are 'decent' men really that hard to find?Absofuckinglutely!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me its a numbers game, you could say. Most guys are only interested in me until they see my photos. Then its usually all over. So I am on two sites, otherwise I would get pretty much zero action.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You Ladies , women, wives are not alone in your online experience , to find a quality man that ticks all the boxes . It is exactly the same finding a quality woman that ticks all the boxes , and of course when you do its gotta be mutual, or its gunna be mute . - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Picked up a bit of the 50+ and your over the hill comments. Have to disagree. The men folk, and the women off course, are visual creatures. The profile pic will be the biggest lead to attraction of initial interest. At the moment i am not looking so my current leg pics get little interest both in profile hits and therefore messages. Also due to the listing of groups as my seeking. So im getting less than 20 hits a week or 100 per month. If i change the pic to a lingerie shot of which i have one or two, lol, hits will go between 1500 to 2000 per month with a message conversion of 20 per week. Age of men will cover the whole range from low 20's to 60's. Its marketing. You can advertise to hit your target audience and i dont accept that if you want more response that you cant achieve it. Not guaranteeing the quality but we all agree its a numbers game. Same narketing across several sites will inundate or....yawn.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sure, I can word my profile so I get high volume of messages, put really raunchy photos up to increase the hits. I can show I am online all the time and make lots of saucy comments on the forum and be active in the chat rooms. I know someone a who used to get 15,000 views a month with this strategy. But all you get are more wanna root messages and blokes who can't wait to "come on those big fat titties" As you can see from the responses to your questions... A lot of us have changed our profiles to ensure this doesn't happen. It's isn't what we are looking for. To my mind if I want lots of random roots why would I bother finding one online? It's not the best use of my time. Just go to a sex club and get all you need - sex on tap.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ya forgot about "dat ass" too 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
From 15000 views would translate to 1500 messages?And if the odds are 1 suitable message/guy out of every 1000, or 0.01% then the person with 15000 hits would have 150 leads per month or nearly 40 per week. As we know, its the same types on any site, therefore numbers. Is that over expectation? 1 out of 1000? If it was less then maybe a "little fussy".
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Sex club? Maybe some want a connection...... Searching for that special FWB?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are you serious!!! If you would like to be my personal PA and go through all the messages for me that would be great. Say if you pass on max of 10 a month. In all honesty I would rather be celibate than have to do that. I don't think you realise what a chore it is. Again. Why would I do that!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will tap that little ass of yours. You will be squirting like a fountain and multi orgasming in no time. Try me you won't be disappointed. Signed Faithfully yours The arse whisperer.
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RHP User
10 years ago
From 15,000 I bet 5 are looking for FWB. So isn't easy to market to what you want. Only have people who are interested in the same thing responding and go on a few sites? Just being on RHP and dealing with all the drivel... It's why lots of women regularly go nuts on here.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
the title of the thread. How many sites do you need? I think the same. More sites, more of the same dribble. Why duplicate the same shit.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And there you have it. The reason I gave up within the first few weeks. Just not for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Plenty of decent men, just not very many who meet my requirements and I theirs. You are in the minority of women in terms of your 'requirements'. For the women seeking a man who is honest, decent looking, tall, etc - I find it hard to understand. That pretty much describes most of the men I am friends with. Personally, I usually only have to meet 2 or 3 people to meet someone that I can see something special in. Then again, maybe that's a very bad thing and abnormal. In which case it's a good thing I am more concerned with my ranking on hearthstone then getting into a relationship. *slirp*
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meowcolm_X' Quoting 'Meander' Plenty of decent men, just not very many who meet my requirements and I theirs. You are in the minority of women in terms of your 'requirements'. A tall and single non-smoker roughly between 30 and 45 in Sydney with good grammar, who is kind, honest and compassionate, and who wouldn't vote for Tony Abbott. Oh, and who loves animals. Too much?
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RHP User
10 years ago
yeah yeah.......you keep promising; but the delivery is letting you down 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meowcolm_X' Quoting 'Meander' Plenty of decent men, just not very many who meet my requirements and I theirs. You are in the minority of women in terms of your 'requirements'. For the women seeking a man who is honest, decent looking, tall, etc - I find it hard to understand. That pretty much describes most of the men I am friends with. For example, age. You're in your mid 20s, and at that age you have a much larger pool of single people of both genders to pick from. You really start to notice the difference once you hit your late 20s / early 30s, as most people pair up and have kids etc.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' You really start to notice the difference once you hit your late 20s / early 30s, as most people pair up and have kids etc. And then you get to my age, where over 50% of those people are single again.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Three years back, joining this site, all new and an online concept that is and was spectacular. So join up start looking at profiles, tit's arse, fucking, cock shots'n pussy, wander into the chat rooms, people fucking, masturbating, blow jobs and squirting, chit chat in a continuous stream of sexual flirting, horny invitations from horny folk wanting a fuck (women too) Stumble onto the forums and on topic is fun friendly sex banter (like a party) Is it really men are not decent in here, or something else perhaps? Wanna fuck? Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Because when I have free time I enjoy banter in the chat rooms. Sometimes the rooms here are dead, but active on another site (depending on the time of day). It has nothing to do with the number of messages or ego, it's like going to different bars to find interesting people to chat to and engage with.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was on this site and a vanilla site at one point. I cancelled the vanilla account after a few months for reasons I've gone into previously. And now I'm not even using this site to look for anything. Like Meeka, I found wading through the messages just too much of a chore. And not because I was inundated, more just the quality of message that put me off. Plus the occasional backlash from saying 'thanks, but no thanks'. Also, from my experience, I think the odds of meeting a decent man online that I'm also physically attracted to are pretty negligible. I've met a lot of 'decent' men here who are really awesome, but it's very rarely that I feel the sexual chemistry too :/. Probably just way too picky/fussy but I'm OK with that. And before I get jumped on and called shallow wrt physical attraction being important, let me make it clear that for me it's got very little to do with looks or body type. it's about the whole package - personality, values, sense of humour etc. as well as looks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just joined this site, was on another where it was not so hard to strike up a conversation though a little harder to start meeting (I'm not everyone's cup of tea...over 50, not single, etc). I am surprised how many people are on 'adult' sites who would really just rather find 'the one', because let's face it, it is exhausting being available to chat to everybody...and especially as a guy having to do the chasing.
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inspirit
10 years ago
I am on here and usually one other site (Usually a "Vanilla") You're question is why? My answer is because I like too pick up the occasional root. Some months I may pick up several times and others none at all. It all depends on my mood and how busy life is at the time. In essence though, I like the choice of being able to pick up a Vanilla root so I can fuck him to death (by taking) or pick up a non Vanilla root so I can be fucked to death (by giving). It is certainly not about my ego, my confidence, to "repair" me, nor about power tripping. It is simply about my desires. Some times I may NOT get neither of the above, BUT at the end of the day it is about the EXPERIENCE.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am on another site before RHP, must say RHP seems the best but still with the other one. In adelaide things seem slow and quiet ,so 2 sites work a bit better as i havent found too many ladies on both sites . when you go thru every ones profile and they stipulate one preference or another witch doesn't qualify you you move on and then you start running out of options, so a second site helps out that way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' yeah yeah.......you keep promising; but the delivery is letting you down 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile Remind her about the penis enlargement, it's got to help
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' You really start to notice the difference once you hit your late 20s / early 30s, as most people pair up and have kids etc. And then you get to my age, where over 50% of those people are single again. And then you get somewhere between your age and mine a percentage of those ( i know of three)have a new addition to the blended family with the arrival of bouncing baby
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fair enough lol - I thought u had a thing or two that were less common on your list. Sorry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe you should consider how many of those proposed 100's of offers are actually quality offers? Just because there are more men than women on these site's .. the percentage of men you might actually be attracted to is far less. I have noticed many men from this site also site surfing... variety is the spice of life 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Basically, if you want a pair of shoes, cant find them in the first shoe shop, do you stop looking for what you want?" Merely want to find the Yin for my Yang... she must be there somewhere... Simmply the "perfect" fit. Hellllloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Lets face it, once you click over the big 50 , you dont come up in any of the searches.... Dont mind the lack of messages though, as I am seeking quality, not quantity. I often have 50 as the younger cut off in my searches, sometimes I go down to 45. There are a surprisingly large number of women on various sites looking for someone. I might add that there also a large number of VERY attractive women looking for someone, so maybe the mature girls are having to compete with one another. Competing for what, I have no idea, but guessing that the male female ratios are pretty much the same across all age groups.These days I'm really just window shopping as I have a special friend I find it hard to get together with.Incidentally I've seen a couple of profiles elsewhere which also belong to RHP women. One in particular is listed as AWOL in the Hotel California thread, she's very popular with her friends list numbering several hundred!
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
I am a realist. I think that unless a man is close to my age....many of them are seeking someone younger, therefore over 50's are not in many folks searches.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mstr_Full' "Basically, if you want a pair of shoes, cant find them in the first shoe shop, do you stop looking for what you want?" Merely want to find the Yin for my Yang... she must be there somewhere... Simmply the "perfect" fit. Hellllloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo But if you want a specialized service, you refine your search to shops that specialize in what you want. For instance, the shoe shop scenario.Size 12 stilettos are specialized. So I shop at the one shop I know I can get them.I want specialized sex mates, I shop at the one shop I know I don't go without. RHP. Expecting a commision cheque soon.........RHP?
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Have you noticed the situation where there are a lot of men, women and couples who are strangely 45. Like to see the stats of the qty of people here who are 45, or even 49. Kudos to you Jack for stating 61 whereas you might be tempted to go 59 to slip into that bracket for searches. Funny when I look at some of these 45 persons, they look 5-15 years older. Must have had hard lives.Oh I certainly wouldn't say these people might be stretching it a bit..........heavens forbid!
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
I am a realist. I think that unless a man is close to my age....many of them are seeking someone younger, therefore over 50's are not in many folks searches.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Have you noticed the situation where there are a lot of men, women and couples who are strangely 45. Like to see the stats of the qty of people here who are 45, or even 49. Kudos to you Jack for stating 61 whereas you might be tempted to go 59 to slip into that bracket for searches. Funny when I look at some of these 45 persons, they look 5-15 years older. Must have had hard lives.Oh I certainly wouldn't say these people might be stretching it a bit..........heavens forbid! Sometimes I'm just too honest for my own good...I'm not a good bullshitter but I can spot them a mile off.Anyway RHP is not much good as hook up site for me, it's more about the forums.I did meet one "45" year old but she said I was too old for her, I hope the bitch knows who she is
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RHP User
9 years ago
Busted, I dont use my real age!! Actually my reasoning is to stay above the 99 age which is the max in age search options. So under the radar, or off the rickter scale. Im not looking on here, so I rarely get views,let alone messages.But Im also on other sites that cater more to what I was searching for.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well she was honest with you, and it was a casual meet. No need to call a woman a bitch for not being what she was looking for.😳
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jack_Denials'I did meet one "45" year old but she said I was too old for her, I hope the bitch knows who she is You know the saying "Line in the sand..." Well we say we are in a sandpit in here.And there is a line in it.... And I'm afraid you just crossed it........... Good luck, they are coming........
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
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Missb4u
9 years ago
As many as I want because it's my choice. And what I am looking for changed and I can't seem to find it here.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' Well she was honest with you, and it was a casual meet. No need to call a woman a bitch for not being what she was looking for.😳 Nice spin...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Now that I am over 50 I really appreciate the shift towards more honest communication about needs and sex but the rate of interest in my profile certainly drops off. I tell myself it is about quality..but who knows I might just be kidding myself. Anyway, I least I get to have some interesting chats if nothing else.
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