M44
Ladies please, what am I doing wrong????
October 06 2012
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cougar4fun
12 years ago
I can't see anything wrong with your profile. The only explanation I can offer is that there are bugger all females on here looking for what you have to offer.....being limited time due to family commitments as well as a lot of females not being interested in married men for one reason or another. I personally don't care about relationship status, but from reading forums, I think I am the exception and not the norm.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your wife seems like a very smart lady because your chance of getting a root is zero!! Good on her. As for guys sleeping with three different girls a week... I say bullshit! I am sure you think I am too harsh but this topic has been done to death. Look at all the married men topics & cheating topics that have been raised in the past then you will understand.
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RHP User
12 years ago
ok, interesting, well I spose thank you for your honesty. I don't really have time to read forum notes for hours, do you see something wrong with my profile in general?? Also, why "Good on her"? My wife said I could use a prostitue before I came up with this idea, but thats just not my style.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Create a very enticing business card listing all your skills,cock size ,ability to make all squirt at the touch of a finger,etc with your profile name and the name of all the sites you currently haunt .Then discretely hand them out to all the women in the supermarket who are ogling your fine bod. In theory you haven't broken your wife's rule ,just bent it a tiny bit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hang on a minute, did you just say I have a fine bod?? I'm taking that compliment and running with it cause by the looks of things its all I'm gunna get off this site lol. I like your idea though, the supermarket shagger. Micksecrets81 Cock size: just as big as the next guys Ability to make you squirt: if you have a very full bladder and I sit on your stomach, lol Thanks for your response, love it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi, thanks for checking me. I'v just been checking the forums, and it doesent look too good. The thing that cuts me though is I work with blokes that cheat reguarly. I can't bring myself to cheat, its just selfish, disrespectfu, and plain rude, but only recently having permission, and I can't even get a hit. thats just life I spose. I get to hear the stories though. Thanks for your help, oh and nice pic
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
Ok, so you have asked for assistance and when it is suggested to you, you disregard it ??????.You dont have the time to read a few other posts that tackle your question head on?Or are you too lazy?.Whatever the reason, reading those posst is your ticket to success silly.That is where you find allllllll the women who love to copulate with married men..Nifty word copulate isnt it..Now , just giving you the heads up here, so far you have come across as lazy, willing to believe hearsay from your matesand intend to use the women here as you may a prostitute but dont want to pay for it.Not exactly an inticing picture is it..Just try to remember this is an adult site and at least afford the sexually liberated females here the same courtesy you would like to see your wife, your sister, your mother, your aunt....deserve.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Funningly enough OP , we arent here just for you.....interestingly , we are here for "Whats in it for us"....and with a married guy with a shite attitute..you havent got much to offer Im afraid and honey your competition is like 1-10 ratio...think about that.... You have to be exceptional to survive on this site or any other like minded site......are you ? So take your money and off you go...because writing a forum and bitching about your lack of success, shows smacks of who you truly are.........give me a funny, witty, intelligent (and yes single) guy any day over whining princesses...
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I have to agree with meeka100
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RHP User
12 years ago
I should have elobarated in the first place, so I will do so now. Its not lazziness about the posts, its that I have spent hours looking for matches and I know my wife would not be happy with me spending too much time on here. She would start to think that this site it taking over my life or that I would be neglecting my number one priority. I have read some though and Im starting to get the drift. Married = fat chance not penis yes I love the word copulate, sounds more mature minded that fuck or screw, nifty. As for the mates, they had, shall I say, photo graphic evidence, basards. And for the prostitute comment, what I ment was that my wife was willing to let me use one but I would rather be with a woman that actually wants to sleep with me. I want to be with a sexually confident woman. I don't just want to be pleasured, I want to pleasure. Its exciting when I know that a woman is enjoying me. The other reason I mentioned it is cause the other chickbabe was making out like my wife planned this out on purpose to fail. That was my polite way of saying, well i don't agree. I'm sorry if I came accross as a jerk off who treats women on this site like free prostitues. thanks for taking the time to comment. some times us youngens need a good learning.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Judging by your response there must be a lot of shitty guys on here, and I'v just been thrown in with them. I'm trying to impress the ladies here, EPIC FAIL! Sorry I offended you, don't think I will ever use the' P' word on here again. I did't think that I was coming accross with a shit attitude, just wanting some help from the fairer sex. Assuming you are refering to the super market comment. I was simply tring to compair getting more attention in an enviroment not designed for hooking up to a web site designed specificly for it. I figured I must be doing something really wrong.I was not trying to say the women on here are up tight or not giving me what I want. So on behalf of the Male species, I would like to appologise for our insulting comments, weather unintentional or otherwise.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka - Harsh ;)Cougar - Fair :)Freya - Funny :) lolRuby - Wise :{<)Velvet - Tough :0Mick, Chocolate_cock, has a similar forum thread. Not sure there is much to help you there though. However, he does have 9 friends - i note you don't have any....thought...try asking him - maybe some friends would help your cause. :)Other than that - if you live rural and distance is an issue - can you move to a bigger city - how flexible is your wife?Great read, by the way. :)2b :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can be found shopping at Bluewater Square...Woolies that is
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe change the "Married and Looking" tag - doesnt ring too great :)
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Gonesurfing
12 years ago
Mate perserverance is the answer, I've had similar because of FIFO work and live interstate. I do whatever I want when I want long live the Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with your profile apart from being upfront and honest. Now ladies there is a history lesson here, just because you are the majority that does'nt make you automatically correct. Mike sometimes asking for advice here you will be throwing yourself to the wolves...... If I were you I would get the missus to do the recruiting for you..... Women love a confident bastard, stick to your guns......patience young grasshopper. Cheers Alpha Pete
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RHP User
12 years ago
I actually DO have one of these.. It is simple.. just says "G'day, you have been met by (me)" It has my phone number and email on it.. I ASSUME most people can do "Lookups" on email addresses, so, they can.. (IF they are interested) check me out on a couple of social sites Success rate... maybe 5% - but the INTEREST is raised before I hand the card out anyway.. so, it is only a contact method IF the curiosity is a little lasting :) Now, I have been on RHP for a quite a few years now.. Success rate considerably less then 5% But, as I have said before.... If I was here purely for sex, I would not STAY!! I would go to hotels etc, and let the vodka mixers do all the hard work for me on the girls *smiles* Some interesting comments here though :) caveman - alcohol is your friend!!!
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
You may be lucky and just receive a friendly slap for that comment, or she may just rip you a new one !It sounds like you are now taking a few suggestions on board, one thing in your favour, you are upfront about your marital status, Kudos to you for that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But the reality is that you are married (even though wife has given blessing - you reprpesent to many complications and time management issues) and accordingly will struggle to find someone that will meet your criteria... however like Ruby said, at least your honest..a rarity on here........so I wish you all the best.........may you find what you are looking for , but yes you will have to be patient. Quoting 'Pirate_Pete' I do whatever I want when I want ...long live the Alpha male Im sorry you obviously a little confused...and delusional ....believing the term Alpha equates to that statement... Women love a confident bastard Do they ??????????????? hows that working out for you ??????????? There is confidence and then there is ........???
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
Your profile name includes the word secret. That's like using the word discreet too many times, it smacks of cheating. Many women won't look any further than that when it comes to an Attached man's profile to find out whether you have permission or not. Also are you really 5'4"?
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RHP User
12 years ago
This may not sound entirely helpful at first but! If you are looking for a semi permanent lover and your wife approves, I have no issue with it really. But finding a lover rather than a casual playmate will take time. Think of it this way...if you send 100 messages to women that genuinely interest you and get no reply and then quit the site, what if the 101st person was the perfect respondent for you and your wife approved of her? You never know what the future holds, a quote I love by Tad Williams....."He who thinks he knows the ending of things when he is only beginning them is either extremely wise or extremely foolish; no matter which is true, he is certainly an unhappy man, for he has put a knife in the heart of wonder". Enjoy the journey, never give up searching for your dreams.
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Gypsy_Girl
12 years ago
I just tried to send you a "flirt" and got a pop up advising that my relationship status is not what your looking for. I think your chances of finding someone attached to meet with you on a regular basis is probably slim, you may need to consider a single like me who would be happy with some ongoing action without the risk of a relationship developing. Just a thought XO
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Pirate_Pete' Mate perserverance is the answer, I've had similar because of FIFO work and live interstate. I do whatever I want when I want long live the Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with your profile apart from being upfront and honest. Now ladies there is a history lesson here, just because you are the majority that does'nt make you automatically correct. Mike sometimes asking for advice here you will be throwing yourself to the wolves...... If I were you I would get the missus to do the recruiting for you..... Women love a confident bastard, stick to your guns......patience young grasshopper. Cheers Alpha Pete I do not mind a married man at all. What I have found is there is a power imbalance on the forums Some, that talk the talk do not walk the walk so you could be chasing a skirt that has not been lifted since 1952 , but you would think they fucked like bandits all day long. Forums and reality are poles apart. Just go hunting through the profiles and stick at it. Put up more pictures of yourself including a face picture in your private gallery. Men get shot down all the time as the weapon of choice is smart typing with no follow through in the real world. Go find the women that like to fuck and not just fuck you over in the forums or any online only stuff. After all they could just be men pretending to be women. Yes Virgina there are fakes on here and you may get all bent out of shape cause some cyber goddess said mean things to ya. Sorry ladies if I seem harsh, but guys are getting smacked in the head all the time because they are honest. We need to be honest ourselves , if were not up for a fuck then just do like some women do and say I am only hear for the forums. There are a tone of posts blasting the shit out of married men, it only encourages married men to NOT tell the truth. Now I am off to clean out the cobwebs and sand out of my cunt. Ok so I have a cold, and am a grumpy old bitch today..bahhh humbug!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi all, Thanks for all the feedback, im going to attempt to respond to all of you but if I miss any one, Im not snobbing you, just soo many post, ok here goes. 2Baloons: yea I checked out Mrchockococko, like looking into a mirror, also I could just lie but that is not a good way to start any form of relationship. Any way, I think women are a little bit cluier than us lads, and will find out anyway. Just rather be honest, don't have to make lies to cover the lies that way, much easier. Freya13: If that is where you shop, then there is a very good chance you have already meet me. I used to work in Bluewater square, but no more clues on that one, too many people know me there, trying to be dicreet here. Pirate_Pete: thanks mate, funny what you say about my wife, I showed her msVelvetblue's first post and she was like "What the fuck did you post!!" I kind of feel a little childish asking my wife for help. Reminds me too much of how my mother used to try and hook me up with a NICE girl, so embarrising, and Mum, I can buy my own underwear, thanks! Cavey50: Hey mate, Ill have to think about that one. Ruby: Thanks, I'd prefer the friendy slap please ;) MsVelvetBlue: I think Im more impressed than you that I was able to change your opinion of me a little. Thanks MissSarahCurious: Ah yes the name, Its a personal joke with my wife, but also, all this lady business is very discreet. I have agreed to my wife that Im not even going to do the Shag'n'brag. No friend or family know about it. You have a very valid point though. But how does a man prove that he has permission?? I could just say talk to my wife on the phone, you could say she could just be a friend that I flipped a $50 too. Same if I let a woman meet her, and I'm not exactrly going to let some one peruse through my wedding photos as proof, so how shal an honest bloke prove his honesty? Oh dear, yes I'm really 5'4, if I'm ever to make love to a tall woman I will bring a step ladder, I'm resorceful like that.:) Justforfunisall: Something to ponder, cheers Outbackgirl: Point taken, ta. Tuscanred: thanks for backing me up :)
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Mr_DarkChocolate
12 years ago
probably shouldn't be throwing stones from a glass house but u asked for helpi started my thread because i was concerned that my personality wasn't being shown through my profile, even with a slightly shoddy profile i've had what i'd call a pretty good success rate though this site considering how greatly men over populate these kinds of sites than the women in my opinion if ur wife is okay with it why don't u have her join & be on this site as a couple ? that way women wont just simply dismiss u as a suzzbag ((which they probably see 10 of a day)) because "married with kids" is usually a straight up turn off to anything that's been sparked at all by seeing ur profile pic or whatever else is in ur profile this site or any other site like it is basically a man market where women can pick & choose whichever one they want, plain & simple at the slightest "no, no" & their gone with the wind.
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RHP User
12 years ago
propinquity is a funny thing,it can indeed bite you on the bum....but don't worry I never shag anyone under 5ft 4.5...the exception of course would be Peter Dinklage.....mmmm loved the Game of Thrones....so, Mick you are safe.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Come to Melbourne hehe Id be happy to show you the sites lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
It invariably takes a little time to meet and hook up with someone you're compatible with -(get some action). So you are going to have to spend some time, just be patient :)Your profile is honest, and you've humbly taken quite a beating from some of the respectable ladies here ...(it's been a great read:) ... But you know what- be yourself. FLIRT- BE CHARMING- SEXY - make a woman want to hook up and be your lover! I had a married guy recently contact me, and oh my was he charming, gorgeous, sexy, witty, funny and pecks and blue eyes to die for .... I so so so wanted to play with him, but his wife didn't know so I kindly and reluctantly refused (took me a couple of days) ... He left me with the ... "well you know where I am" kinda thing - just in case I fold. Oh dear I Loved it! .... my little has that down loaded somewhere.Just be your natural sexy self!! plus a little patience - simple Cassandra xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Micksecret81 Thanks for your Topic;) I read your Profile 1,Hun and it seems fine except for your Biline tweek it a little "Married Guy looking with wife's consent." that way Women can see it right off ... 2 In your Interests Bikes tells us nothing,Yyou need to broaden that area so we can relate a little more with you..Same with about you, add more than your mates think you look good, you're shedding weight. What you tell us is all we have to go on, what you're like as a Person a Prospective Playmate..So more info will certainly help.. 3.No Pic is making your success rate less because as you can understand Women relate to guys they can see look into your eyes connect with you ..Maybe you can add you'll supply a Pic if asked..So Interested Women can view you ..Good Luck! Lu :).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why it is you're not satisfied at home that is driving this desire to have an outside playmate??
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RHP User
12 years ago
The thing that straight away gets me is the "married & looking" tag. Perhaps something along the lines of looking for a lover, or something like that? You are open in your marital status in your details, and blurb so putting it as your tag line seems a bit ott to me, and well as you're no doubt finding turns off some women immediately.That you won't post a photo of your face could well be an issue as well. Take advantage of the Private Gallery feature, that way it's not on show to the general public, but quickly available if a woman asks, but doesn't want to divulge phone numbers or email addresses. For me, no face pic easily available is an instant no go. I know that a lot of women (and probably men) will think it's ridiculous, but I also think for a guy it's important to accurately list the size of his penis. So many will say that it doesn't matter, and you might even think it doesn't matter, or that you've never had any complaints so it can't be that important. But for me, and probably a couple of other women haha, it's an important filtering option.Other than that, your profile looks fine. Just take on board the comments from everyone, and update if you want to.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for all the posts. So I missed out by half an inch hey Freya?! If I do go to Melbourne, I'll definatley drop you a line cutie. Cassandra, that must have been frustrating. Sexually and otherwise. To not be able to allow the sexual energy and flirtation to continue. But I think also the chase if half the fun!! Dragonfly: I will chang my pics, add some more and add a face pic in private, thanks for the tip. Hardfucking, sorry, Hardtrucking: I'm satisfied at home, I love my wife very much and our sex life is satisfying. This is giving me the chance to do something that I never did when I was younger, I never fucked around, I wanted to hold off thinking it would be more special or something. Now I have a different opinion, its just sex. Its just flirtation. Its allowing what most people have to turn off within them selves to flow. Bbwforyou: Im definatly putting on a face pic, and i might as well put on a willie update. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
This psot is ever changing I was amazed at first with his mates and their confirmed 3 chick a week fuck fest (yet to hear from those guys as they havent added to this forum) The OPs definate conundrum of not finding the free ride . As a husband I doubt you will be shelling out for hotels and dinners on your new lover as well you have commitments elsewhere. but this last post at taking back your lost youth........I am taking a deep breath you are trying to fuck around because you didnt when you were younger? So you think you will have SEX SEX SEX and feel nothing not a tingle?..... what if?? .........your wife has no fears???I know of one guy who had permission to plaY AROUND and in the end it led to the downfall of his marraige.I know of another couple who met whilst playing with partners permission to only fall in love and end up together, there are so many stories like that on here.Yes you can have sex without falling for someone but are you playing with fire? If your wife and your sex life is good it could probably be better. Just being on this site reading the forums, learning is inspiring and shows how much people can discover with their partners.There are woman that will play with married men but it wont happen overnight so its you who needs to be patient in finding the unicorn.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're no better than your cheating mates. You more than likely are trying to keep up with the mates and don't have permission from your wife. This indicates your "secrets" in your profile is true to its word, but it should be prefixed with mouse as you're far from the man you claim to be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hardtrucking: Intersting post. I would have not though a man would have taken that line of thought. Is there any particualr reason you are being rude and insulting to me??? My wife wants me to ask you is it only ok for me to do this if our sex life was bad?? She does not understand your motive either! If it was my little joke with your name I though you might find it amusing, and I'm sorry if I up set you. I also don't feel I need to answer to your challange of manhood or justify my actions but I will just for other readers. Firstly, If I diden't have permission from my wife I would be doing things heaps differnetly than now. I would have joined ashley maddison instead? Its a sight specificly for cheaters.I purposly avoided that sight because I dont want to be a guy that fucks other mens wifes unbeknown to them. I slept with an ex once that told me she had left her boyfriend, and realised she was still seeing him. I felt sick in the stomach after that and I didn't want to even look at him in the eye, I felt like an arshole, and I never want to feel that way again!!! Secondly I would not mention I have permission from my wife or even mention her, I would say something like single guy, sick of the club seen, want to find a real woman, or something to that affect. As I mentioned earlier the Secrets is a personal joke between my wife and I and also as a sign of the discreetness that I require and offer another. I would buy a second mobile phone with a prepaid sim and leave it at work. (fuck phone) I could go on and on mate. Also, if I though that my marital status was a problem, I would just close this account, open another with different pics, and start again with a different approach. No body on this sight has seen my face yet!! Another point mate, you think you know what kind of man I'm from a few posts??? I think one of two things is going on here. Either your a lady who wants to attack married men, pretending to be a man your self. Or you just dont like me for some reason. Maybe you feel I have something that you don't?? When Velvetblue had a go at me, I could understand why. Your not making any sence to me. Hope we can be at peace man.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok, lets just explore my manhood for a second....ok all done, yep definitely no challenge, you have none. But allow me to explain why. There are some very unique discrepancies within your words, and I'm very suprised Meeka, and Msvelvet haven't picked up on them thus far. They are two very switched on ladies, and whom I might add, I hold in very high regard. Nonetheless they haven't so I will draw these discrepancies out for you. 1). Your original post states you've "Heard of other blokes who go onto these sites and are "Fucking 3 chicks a week", (yes these blokes are honest, most of the time)." Yup, you've heard about them, you haven't spoken to them have you? 2). You're "looking for is a sorta semi permant lover, or something of the sort." yet, in a reply you talk about making up for lost time as you never got the chance to fuck around?? Please enlighten us, as if you're looking for a semi permanent lover, then this suggests that you're NOT looking to make up for the lost chances, so which is it exactly?? 3). You claim that your wife has "stipulated that I'm only allowed to find a lover on sites and not in clubs or circles of friends." this also suggests that you wish to be not known in your local area, why is that exactly?? I put it to you again, your wife clearly has no idea you're even on here, and if you were out canoodling in the local area then word will get back to her, otherwise where's the issue? It also gives YOU control to be able to feed the women on here a load of bullshit that they themselves aren't privvy to be able to double check the facts. Once again why is that so?? I suggest yet AGAIN, your wife clearly has no idea you're here. 4). In your previous rebuttal, or attempted rebuttal you now wish to supply a 2nd phone, with a 2nd sim card?? Please explain again, why is this necessary if your wife is in fact informed?? I suggest again, your wife has NO IDEA. Do I need to go any further?? I should surely hope not, as I wouldn't want to sound like a moaning woman pretending to be a man. Besides my laptop needs charging and the iPhone just isn't as good at this as the trusty old HP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you have dug a big hole here Mick,you seem to be a little confused if not somewhat disengenuous.Firstly you say you want to find a regular lover,then it's all about not having a rootfest when you were young and now you want one. I also doubt, if your wife has given you permission, that any single woman would want her input. Hardtrucking Mick and I live in a small town,a bit like Shep by the sea,he can't show his face here,he cant even have a coffee locally with a woman,his only hope is to travel either to Brisvegas or the Sunshine Coast.His chances are probably zero to none....but ya never know.x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun :) Nice of you to take my advice and go with it ..I just noticed you mentioned having a Fuck phone as yiou call it ahhh! at work .It's always good to not only have a seperate phone preferably repaid so the acct doesn't go to your Home but add a seperate credit/Debit card and don't Play around in your suburb or those close by .. The reason for this is Your Wife seems in agreement with what you're doing.However you're not actively doing it with a Lover right now it's easy to go with the flow for your Wife .. I'm curious as to why you both arten't still Swinging as a couple or was th at your thing she went along with it to please you.. Personally if it was My situation I agreed I 'd still prefer to keep that part of your activities seperate from My Life . Hence the reason for obtaining a 2nd Phone,visa card and looking further away to enjoy your Lover.. She's not hurt if she hears things from others who have seen you with another.few People would know you 100ks up the road... I'm not sure why she wants you to just have 1 Lover?Or is that your preference, because it's so much easier to be emotionally involved when sharing sex with 1 reg;Person, especially on the Womans part than if you had say 2or 3 reg; Lovers. Good Luck! for all Concerned Cheers Lu :).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why not go on as a couple? Get a sexy third for some play and treat your wife to a bit while your at it.You have a wife and kids. Id be pretty happy with that personally. Thats a life achievement in itself and you should be able to spice it up in less time than than it will take you to find a lover.Sure you have permission from your wife but deep down I bet she is hating the idea and you will destroy the marriage and make her feel worthless. Just another set of kids with divorced parents. Now we know where the divorce stats comes from.Bit of constructive criticism never hurt anyone.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well that holds some merit...I can tick that one off at least.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi, This is micksecrets81's wife here (whether you believe that or not), I feel I should clarify some things. I most defenately know he is here, I have been sitting next to him most of the nights he has been on here. I want him to be discreet as Freya said because this is a small area and although I am ok with him sleeping with another woman I don't really want family or friends to come back to me or to find out he is fucking a school mum or something. If other poeple find out it may effect my family and kids and they are our number 1 priority. Surely that is understandable. You seriously can't see the problem with been seen out with another woman when you are married? It has nothing to do with me but with everyone else who feel they can put their 2 cents into our marrage. Now clearly either Mick has problems with articulating his words or you have problems with comprehension as he does not have nor will he ever get a fuck phone and was only using that as a point that if he was fucking behind my back that is what he would do. Maybe you need to read back... Do you really think if he was fucking around behind my back that he would even say he was married? Seriously who would do that? No, I don't want him to go clubing, that would take to much away from me, I see that as a social event, going out for drinks, seeing if he can hook up with someone, swapping phone numbers etc, trying to find a woman that just wants sex...it is too long winded. I would much rather he meets someone online who is also upfront just looking for sex and take it from there. If he is going to go socialising and buying drinks for a woman, then I will be that woman. I am also interested in messing around with another guy. We have discussed swinging and 3somes so that is definately on the books, but for now I am happy for him alone to have some fun. I am very satisfied with our sex lives but to be honest we were young when we got together and I was still a virgin so I am interested in having sex with other people, I want to experience what it feels like. I don't see what satisfaction has to do with it? Being satisfied doesn't take away from the curiosity and the fantasies. I am very secure in who I am (it has taken we awhile as I had a fucked upbringing) and I am also feel secure in our relashionship. I am an awsome wife and he knows that and wouldn't do anything to fuck it up. He lamented once, as I did, that we didn't have more experiences before we commited to each other, I went away and thought it over and came back to him with this proposition. I gave him some guidelines that I felt comfortable with. Why is that so hard to except?
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is getting a bit silly, I can't possible answer all these question by typing. Freya, would you like to go get a coffee this weekend, my shout??? If Freya agrees you can all send her your questions and what not. I'll even bring my wife If I can get baby sitting. Freya can drill me and report back if that satisfies you all??? This site is supposed to be fun, this is not fun. So lets make it fun, come and have a drink with me honey, What do you say???
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Mr_DarkChocolate
12 years ago
the bottom line is this is the **interweb** where everything anybody says is the stark truth & no one ever lies about anything, where people can't make thing's up on the fly & say whatever they please* sarcasm* i for one like to be as honest forthcoming as i can be but u gotta take thing's on face value & make ur own choices ohh & just for the record i'm no fan of hardtrucking but i'm on his side with this one the discrepancies & contradictions are rife through this post, i still wondering why micksecrets81 & his missus didn't just start a couples page with the faces obscured ='s all problem's solved with that being said micksecrets81 doesn't really owe anybody here an explanation but at the same time there's no need for a pissing contest, u asked for people's opinion's there's no need to get defensive just because a couple asked a few question's u didnt like just forget it & move on
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RHP User
12 years ago
well how I could I turn down such a charming invitation....just one thing ,there will definitely be NO drilling.... oh goody my in box will be full.!!!Freya Underthecovers Agent
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Hun :) Thanks for taking the time to come forward and say a few words and share your views. I really appreciate it .I think you're awesome, a very unselfish Woman who loves her Husband and he certainly does you .It's in your vibes you're both giving out :) I can understand marrying young does sometimes come that later in Life you feel you atleast need to know what it's like.The fact you have a Strong Relationship and are equal Partners in this Plus the fact you want to explore too will only bring a certain edge in a Positive way to your Marriage.. I picked up on that Fuck phone thing and figured if he's going that far then it's best for you and your Family if he adds the card and not Play in his immediate Hometown..or nearby ..for the reasons you stated.I'm glad he's not I must admit getting the phone and won't need the card and you should be the Woman he wines Dines and beds he!he! Freya may have mentioned that too I'm not sure.. Good Luck! on your Journey of new Experiences both of you ..Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly mr_chocolatecock (that name still cracks me up by the way), you're all good in my book never had an issue despite contrary belief. Mrs Mick. It's very easy to distinguish the two personalities (and articulations)with your post(although IT would be easy to get a friend to write a response for validation purposes), but that's hardly the issue. The issue here, is that when confronted by a SINGLES profile saying "I'm married, and want a bit on the side" then, well, one always will question why not use a COUPLES profile?? (Mr_Chocolatecock) has suggested a COUPLES profile with the faces blacked out or similarly no pics but referencing pics that are available on request?? You are after all dealing with women that HAVE been lied to in the past from guys on here, a simple browse through previous posts of this nature will explain sufficiently. The points made in your reply carry a lot of merit in fact, however, I don't think it's unreasonable to question the inaccuracies that made your other half smell of "cheating dog" to use that term loosely. I'm not one to sugar coat responses (as Mr_Chocolatecock found out as well)with regards to the nature of this topic, as its a flogged out horse. Questions that ask "why don't I get flirts?? Why don't girls respond?? What's wrong with me??" Are just neurotic, self advertising with the distinct flavour of insecurity. Much like my "in your face arrogance" with my replies. Some people laugh at it, others get offended. The point is, rhp like all other sites are what they are. You will get judged by some, and invited for sex by others. It surely doesn't mean I/we don't ACCEPT your situation or your motives for doing so.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Pirate_Pete' Mate perserverance is the answer, I've had similar because of FIFO work and live interstate. I do whatever I want when I want long live the Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with your profile apart from being upfront and honest. Now ladies there is a history lesson here, just because you are the majority that does'nt make you automatically correct. Mike sometimes asking for advice here you will be throwing yourself to the wolves...... If I were you I would get the missus to do the recruiting for you..... Women love a confident bastard, stick to your guns......patience young grasshopper. Cheers Alpha Pete Love it Pirate Pete!! Made me chuckle
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had coffee with Mr.and Mrs.Micksecrets,they are a gorgeous genuine couple and she is very supportive of his desire to explore his sexuality further....so no more mocking from mex R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cool Hun Good for you for accepting their invitation and that it went extremely well.Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Congrats to both of you:) That was a very smart move inviting 1 to meet you I'm so very glad it all went off so well. I wish you Good luck! both ot you and I hope each in turn finds a Lover you can enjoy to the fullest.. Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm in QLD in January.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you have received lots of good advice on here Mick (and your wife)...some advice you have taken on board and some not. I believe that your profile name needs a change...to be honest, no one gives a rat's **** that your nick is some sort of cute nickname you have with your wife...but a girl who sees it probably isn't going to give your profile much of a look...some suggestions?...ok, well, you could try "shortmikeBIGdick"..."luckymike"...I don't know, but maybe you get my drift, you need to give the girls something that appeals to them...also, in your byline, you could jazz it up, no real ideas, but your wife seems very eloquent so get her to jazz it up...Also, another suggestion (an excellent one) is to close this profile and take up a couple's profile...just because you are a couple doesn't mean that your wife has to participate...And lastly, I think you might be dreaming if you think you are going to find someone (quickly) to hook up with on a semi-permanent basis...in my experience, a girl who likes fucking you, will have some sort of an attachment to you...a nice friendship...these girls are hard to find...so you should be prepared for some ( a lot, who knows) one-offs and lastly...I seriously think you are playing, not with fire, but with great big firecrackers...and i only hope that you (or your wife) do not get seriously hurt...Cheers Ricky
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jsk6767' Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' Firstly mr_chocolatecock (that name still cracks me up by the way), you're all good in my book never had an issue despite contrary belief. Mrs Mick. It's very easy to distinguish the two personalities (and articulations)with your post(although IT would be easy to get a friend to write a response for validation purposes), but that's hardly the issue. The issue here, is that when confronted by a SINGLES profile saying "I'm married, and want a bit on the side" then, well, one always will question why not use a COUPLES profile?? (Mr_Chocolatecock) has suggested a COUPLES profile with the faces blacked out or similarly no pics but referencing pics that are available on request?? You are after all dealing with women that HAVE been lied to in the past from guys on here, a simple browse through previous posts of this nature will explain sufficiently. The points made in your reply carry a lot of merit in fact, however, I don't think it's unreasonable to question the inaccuracies that made your other half smell of "cheating dog" to use that term loosely. I'm not one to sugar coat responses (as Mr_Chocolatecock found out as well)with regards to the nature of this topic, as its a flogged out horse. Questions that ask "why don't I get flirts?? Why don't girls respond?? What's wrong with me??" Are just neurotic, self advertising with the distinct flavour of insecurity. Much like my "in your face arrogance" with my replies. Some people laugh at it, others get offended. The point is, rhp like all other sites are what they are. You will get judged by some, and invited for sex by others. It surely doesn't mean I/we don't ACCEPT your situation or your motives for doing so. have already talked with mike privately,you know how i feel mate,as for you hardtrucking just fcuk off will you,you serial pest
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
If you go as a couple you can buy your wife the drinks and play too.If you were to see any of the school mums there you'd have as much dirt on them as they do on you.Also, Hardtruckin... I'm verified single and I don't fuck around in my local area for almost the same reason as Mr & Mrs Secrets. I have kids, don't want to be the subject of school mum gossip if word got around that I do what I do. It's fair enough if someone asked me to my face I could explain what being an ethical slut meant to me, but when it's all behind your back people tend to jump to all kinds of conclusions, like it seems you have here.And when starting out, many of us want to get out and get into everyone but the idea of just one semi-reg to do all our experimenting with it feels a bit 'safer' (and let's face it, numbers-wise it's easier to find one person than dozens. Plus if you're not racking up the numbers you can take the time to make sure they're genuinely non-committal, and genuinely don't need to be committed to a mental institution. Then you have to relax enough to feel comfortable getting naked with someone new so you can do the dirty things you might not want do with someone you want to share the cutesy-connected loveydovey stuff with. It takes time to feel confident enough in your ability to pick the right people in order to have a long string of one-nighters with. If you don't ease into it, who knows how many potential landmine ladies who can bring your world down around your ears if they were the type of people who feel the need to fuck with others lives for their own satisfaction? I might not be hitting on the exact reasons for Mr & Mrs Secrets here but I remember when I first started out, and I can sympathise. It can feel like you have a lot to lose until you get good at choosing partners and learn to trust your gut. It takes time to hit your stride at first.xx Sarah
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
If you're contacting girls with a couple's profile saying you're a single man playing alone, there are a whole lotta people who still won't believe the Mrs is all for it (or even exists) as it's a common single-man trick to make a fake couples profile to "legitimize" himself.I'd say keep the profile you have now, and ask Freya ever so nicely to write you a validation.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Pirate_Pete' Mate perserverance is the answer, I've had similar because of FIFO work and live interstate. I do whatever I want when I want long live the Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with your profile apart from being upfront and honest. Now ladies there is a history lesson here, just because you are the majority that does'nt make you automatically correct. Mike sometimes asking for advice here you will be throwing yourself to the wolves...... If I were you I would get the missus to do the recruiting for you..... Women love a confident bastard, stick to your guns......patience young grasshopper. Cheers Alpha Pete I do not mind a married man at all. What I have found is there is a power imbalance on the forums Some, that talk the talk do not walk the walk so you could be chasing a skirt that has not been lifted since 1952 , but you would think they fucked like bandits all day long. Forums and reality are poles apart. Just go hunting through the profiles and stick at it. Put up more pictures of yourself including a face picture in your private gallery. Men get shot down all the time as the weapon of choice is smart typing with no follow through in the real world. Go find the women that like to fuck and not just fuck you over in the forums or any online only stuff. After all they could just be men pretending to be women. Yes Virgina there are fakes on here and you may get all bent out of shape cause some cyber goddess said mean things to ya. Sorry ladies if I seem harsh, but guys are getting smacked in the head all the time because they are honest. We need to be honest ourselves , if were not up for a fuck then just do like some women do and say I am only hear for the forums. There are a tone of posts blasting the shit out of married men, it only encourages married men to NOT tell the truth. Now I am off to clean out the cobwebs and sand out of my cunt. Ok so I have a cold, and am a grumpy old bitch today..bahhh humbug! Did you swallow truth serum instead of cough mixture ?Well if thats a grumpy post you should write more with that attitude, loved it !
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kandylips
12 years ago
I say go to an event your bound to get lucky with as many women, couples, men....make you connections at a swingers party.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for your post. Your pretty much right on with my reasoning. Its nice to know I'm not the only one that thinks along thoes lines. I could ask Freya, but I think its a bit much too ask of someone who knows me so little. After all we only met her for a quick cuppa. She didn't exactly get the tape measure out or anything, just a lovely chat, and some worldly advice. (this is a whole different world too me). The funny thing is, for some reason, I'm starting to have second thoughts about the whole thing. A lot of people have given me advice and I thank you all again. There are pitfalls I previously did not consider that I definately want to avoid. I'm just going to take a big step back and take it all in, then decide wether I'm going to dive head first (or tounge first), or not. Kandylips: Some one actually sugested that but I think it's a little too deep end of the pool for me yet, but in saying that, I would love to watch one! Cheers Micksecrets
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shit, step into my shoes, i basically live most of my life at work (in a mining camp) in the middle of nowhere, males out number the girls by about 100 to 1 and the chances of finding one to play are VERY slim. So meeting a lady on this site who is happy to catch up with you on the odd occasion when you are on leave and happen to be in or near where they live , just dose not seem to happen.
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RHP User
12 years ago
soooo where is this place exactly
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Micksecrets81' ok, interesting, well I spose thank you for your honesty. I don't really have time to read forum notes for hours, do you see something wrong with my profile in general?? Also, why "Good on her"? My wife said I could use a prostitue before I came up with this idea, but thats just not my style. Your wife said that you can use a prostitute.....women say things sometimes that they don't really mean...yes extraordinary but true. She could just be saying that in spite and not really wish yo to do so.Also, a picture of just your motorbike isn't going to cut it. I don't go for married men, because I just don't want any potential grief......pictures which don't show you just mean you're hiding...its not hot to me.You got married to your wife for a reason....is there any potential for you to both try and work things out.....maybe some counselling etc.....you obviously enjoyed the sex at some stage...and please don't give me the woe me..I don't get any anymore. Theres ways that you can help yourself to help her and her help you back
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I love you :)
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blond_gypsy
12 years ago
...I've seen you post a little, you seem like a good guy. I get some reasonable interest so perhaps I can help you out. From what I can see from your profile I'd say:- Motorbike profile pic? Get rid of it. You'll get more straight men than women from that. I think a lot of women would find it kind of tacky to be honest.- No face pic or interesting photos. A bike shot and a body shot? Women want to see a personality, not some abs and your mode of transport. If you're not comfortable with a public face shot then at least have some pictures of you doing things that make you seem an approachable and interesting.- Profile content. There's nothing really there. I've found a lot of women respond more to a well-written profile than anything else.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dunno blond, a guy on a bike can be kinda sexy :p it says "I'm a bad boy" lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
bumped this thread from last October.If you read Mick's profile it will tell you he is mainly here for the forums. I have met Mick and his wife they are great people.
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RHP User
12 years ago
FourHands - My wife is, we we'll just say 'unimpressed' with your comments :( I know your just trying to be helpful. We have had our problems in the past but that is not the main reason that I'm on here. My wife also suggested that you come over here and fuck me in front of her to see that she is serious. I have recently stated in my profile that I'm only interested in being a forum user. The reasons are numerious. So since posting this thread I have changed my profile pic to something non-sexual in nature and really cut back on the info department. Thank you for your helpful suggestions but please remember most people don't like being painted with the wrong brush. Thanks Littlemisschuckles - THAT'S MY PRINCESS, GO GET YOUR OWN!!! (spoken in my best Shrek accent) lol Blond_gypsie - Hi mate. I appreciate the feed back. I would just like to say that It's nice to be seen for who I'm am on here, a good guy, so thanks. I know I have been recently been having a bit or a winge but honesly I have 'taken my self off the market' so to speak. Hence the bike pic and boring profile. All the same I appriciate the feed back man so thanks. Perth88 - So you think I'm a 'bad boy' hey? I think I like that. It sounds better that 'fucking crazy hoon'. (my neighbour and mate's words). Come to Brisbane and I'll take you for a ride. ;) Freya - Thanks again. :) Secrets
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Perth88' I dunno blond, a guy on a bike can be kinda sexy :p it says "I'm a bad boy" lol. LOL If a a guy picked me up on a motorbike...I'm thinking..not good for parking - spacious yeah - privacy nah!!
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