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Ladies; which strap-ons allow you to perform at your best:) Boys! Shape, size?? Help me out

June 07 2014

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Working my way through my 'fuck-it' list and feeling the need to purchase some extra equipment to fulfill some fantasies. I have never used a strap-on and would appreciate some feedback regarding brands and types Have done some reading of course, which got the juices flowing, and it seems the more you pay the better you get as with most things. Looks like bread and beans again kids!!! Are they hard to master? Obviously different types better. And what about our pleasure? Are the ones with insertables best for us? Oh, and boys, help me out re: size and shape you find most pleasurable. Again, I imagine this is a personal thing but a basic kit would be my goal. Would love to surprise my FB by wearing one to meet him, he can choose his weapon via a shopping trip next time, after all he is my willing guinea pig 😜

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I bought a beginners strapon to start off with. The attachments are smallish which is better until you get the hang of it. I still get teased about my little prick to this day! So I upgraded. lol. If I were you I would buy a cheaper one to start off with. A material harness rather than a leather one, as they can get pretty expensive.... and it is a lot of money to pay for something you are not sure you will like. The attachments you can buy separately. My beginners harness which I still use today is the Pipedream beginners harness. Or something like it anyway.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But it's SOOO BIIIIG, seriously, he paid around $150 for the lifelike skin / silicon, good construction and straps...... I think I'll pass it on to Meeks to scare a few boys with..... Nobody would laugh, even if it is pink. We've even nicknamed it "the pink light saber"

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    11 years ago

    Never gone down to this path before so watching and following this posting with interest. I really haven't come across men who are into this. some are very sensitive and scared to have a finger get any closer to their bum.... Lol.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks, didn't want to waste money on something I may not like Oh that's good to know. So you can change the attachments ? Have you used the harness less one that you insert. Just thinking about control during thrusting :P Ooh Bigmamma : so have you used it ? Women with strap-ons are so sexy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I must attract them haha .......... Another dimension always good ....with the right person of course. Wouldn't do this with a one off , tempting though, could be funny if I had bigmammas !

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I always prefer to go for quality, even if you have you pay abit more - its worth it. I bouggt and recommend Doc Johnson's vac-u-lock system. There are different harnesses, and attachmenrs depending in your and your partner's preferences. Mine has a leather harness with optional attachments for the wearer. I also have a beautiful realistic cock attachment. I have used my strap-on with 1 brave man lol who absolutely loved it!! So did I!!! It was an awesome experience. I felt so sexy and powerful and enjoyed pleasuring my him in this way - he really got off on it which was very exciting for me :) Unfortunately I havent been able to convince my current partner to let my strap-on anywhere near him lol... Would probably recomend a smaller, non-realistic dong attachment for starters, lots of lube of course and plenty of 'warm -up' play to get him in the mood - and don't neglect his penis!! Next on my 'bucket list' is using my strap-on with another woman - as well as another woman using one on me! Mmmmmmm....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    has a vibrating plate that the dildo screws onto, it's great because it get's us both off, however, it only came with one dildo which is on the small side and and can't be interchanged with another and have the vibrating plate work. My favourite is a chest harness with rings that hold the dildo in place, it came with different size rings so you can interchange dildo's. It's a lot of fun, he can ride close to your face or reverse cowboy and play with you whilst he's merrily screwing his arse

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I read about this type, I like the idea of it being interchangeable ... For maximum use Smaller one for the boys, larger one for the ladies. That's something I'd love too. Always been a fantasy to use one on a woman and of course be the recipient too. Mmmmmm Lots to think about. I like that idea too Rockminx, more options with a chest harness. I think it's the role reversal that turns me on though initially. That pelvis thrusting action and perhaps (just a little bit ) the shift of power :) . Again, it depends on the man . Not something I'd want to do with everyone

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quality matters, choose a harness that fits you well and then let him choose the cock size. fetish sex shops like eagle leather will allow you to try the harness on for size before buying. we spent hours oline looking for the perfect size and look. start small and work your way up.... and up.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I couldn't have a man pounding his arse on my chest!! Wouldn't that hurt?!?!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes he does need to be careful not to crush, the boys have to be able to squat! But I haven't found it to be too big an issue and totally worth it

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Gives new meaning Hahahahaha . Can't stop laughing Can sense your horror Meeka, I kinda thought the same, pain!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love a woman who will take me with a strapon....I agree on doc Johnson's vac u lock, they are great, my fave attachment is the 8" cock, mmmm. Love to give the pinksaber a try too!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for the input Goldenbiguy Surely you started out smaller ?? What about shape ? Obviously an individual thing , just wondered about the bent ones for prostrate massage Any ideas ?

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  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'LooLoo88' Thanks for the input Goldenbiguy Surely you started out smaller ?? What about shape ? Obviously an individual thing , just wondered about the bent ones for prostrate massage Any ideas ? Particularly if they're bulbous at the tip. For beginners I'd recommend long, smooth and fairly thin. Long because you can actually see where you're going when you're inserting, and smooth so you can get a good motion going. I love my fabric harness which is very similar to the Tantus "Bend over Beginner" kit because it has nylon straps I just pull to tighten, no buckles to fuck with. It has interchangeable 'o' rings so I can put any dildo or vibe with a base or balls in it so I have a bunch of options. Also, it's washable. I get lube freakin' everywhere it seems. xx Sarah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks Sarah Appreciate the advice I'm a strap-on virgin 😁 xxx

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