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Ladies who cant cum orally

March 21 2011

Hi all, I have a question to all you women. You see, I am into only giving oral to women. I find that a few women I contact reply saying they cant orgasm from getting oral. Does anyone out there have this problem, or is it that they are blowing me off (no, not that way, lol)? In my experience, every woman I hacve done this for (and I admit I am not talking hundreds, just a select few, but would like to increase that circle a little) have always said it was one of the most mind blowing experiences they have had. So, is it possible for a woman to not be able to orgasm in this way or have they not had it done properly before, or are they politely telling me to piss off because they dont believe that I am not after something else?

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RHP User

14 years ago

Lots of factors determine whether a female will orgasm. God, I can recall a time when that was the ONLY way I could have an orgasm... I kinda miss the simplicity of those days LOL.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Believe it or not, some people find oral sex uncomfortable. They simply can't relax, don't enjoy it, consider it dirty... or whatever.. and hence can never really orgasm that way. One person I've met was like that, so I can well imagine there are many others who have the same inhibitions.HugsS

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RHP User

14 years ago

Personally I'm not particularly keen on meeting up with anyone who just wants to go down on me. Doesn't matter how good they are, BOOOORRRRIIIIINNNG. So maybe it's an excuse.Not all women can orgasm at all. So that could be genuine.Some women feel uncomfortable having men go down on them because they believe it's "dirty" and so likely can't orgasm from oral.Some women have only had guys go down on them who have either just slobbered all over the place and not done the trick, or treated their bits like a dog toy and chewed the crap out of it and not done the trick, or thought a little lick of the clit and that's it would do the trick (and it hasn't).So, yes to ALL of your questions.

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MissSarahCurious

14 years ago

Oral-only is a much enjoyed pastime of mine too, but some guys say they 'don't usually cum that way' and they seem to really believe it so much that changing their mind is a hell of a challenge and not really all that satisfying for me. I'd rather go down on someone who loves getting it as much as i love giving it. . Save it for those who appreciate it and you'll both be happy. . xx Sarah

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RHP User

14 years ago

ironically, even with dating girls for 10 years. and it`s not about technique.and then one day, something changed. and now i can. sometimes it`s still difficult, but i`ve gone from actively stopping ppl from going down there because it would turn into a `well i bet *i* can make you cum` competition, to loving it. i know guys who haven`t been able to cum from oral, and i`ve made them (shameless self promotion lol) - but i wasn`t trying to make them cum, if that makes sense.Everyone`s bodies are different. I personally wouldn`t meet up with someone who was only after oral tho.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I am with those who love giving it as much as i love doing it....i love it when a lover is enjoying my tongue building her juices to bursting point..no rush just pleasure..i couldnt be with a lover who didnt want it..its like fish without the chips !

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RHP User

14 years ago

Sometimes it takes two experts to get the job done.... you know... one with his ballsack in their mouth and the other swallowing him up all the way down so that the two cocksuckers can kiss one another. :p Oh man that feels great!HugsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Oops... wrong thread... lmfao.HugsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Sounds like a real knee trembler Stalky. Now how many men can say they have experienced that? Well a few arses I know. xxMeeks

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RHP User

14 years ago

I had never had an oral orgasm. Then I got a message from a guy who said one of his fantasies was to meet a girl for the first time and without any talking or interaction, just go down on her. So I thought about it and said.. I think I can help you with that fantasy. So we arranged for him to come over and for him to knock on my front door and I'd open the door, turn around and lead him to the bedroom, no speaking, no interaction. We stood next to the bed kissing, getting a lil hot, I could feel his cock getting hard in his jeans, and then he took off my clothes, sat me on the edge of the bed, I leaned back a ltitle and he went down on me and after a fair while of pure pleasure, I came. It was amazing. He stayed fully clothed throughout and when he had finished I was having a post cum laugh (out of amazement I think) and we had a little chat lying there on the bed and then he left! And I've been able to cum orally ever since. Even now 4 years later, it still gives me a buzz to cum orally, not only for the pleasure but because there was a time I thought I would never be able to do it. So I am very thankful to that guy and very thankful for the experience. xxS

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RHP User

14 years ago

So what did you do with the Pizza..That is a hot story,Soubi...

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RHP User

14 years ago

I love going down on a partner but it can be just for foreplay, to make sure she comes or just for pure fun. Don't put too much emphasis on whether she comes or not and just enjoy it for what it is...great fun. There are times I can't cum for all kinds of reasons and it's the same for women. Sometimes the intense stimulation can just be too much and you need to stop and mix it up.I think we all overthink things sometimes, when we should be just going wild and fucking each other with wild abandon - on the bed, floor, shower, top of a cliff with the ocean crashing in the background - you get the idea

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RHP User

14 years ago

Well i find it all depends on how the man licks me and where he does it. I have had men lick me for ages, and I have never had one orgasm. I have also had men who lick me for a short time and I have several multiple orgasms one after the other. It amazes me that some men can make me scream, while others do nothing at all for me. This is why I stress so much, to lick the woman the way SHE likes to be licked, and not the way you THINK she likes or the way YOU like. Remember, its not about you, it's about her at that time. I mean when I do it to men, I like to do it the way they like, so I also like men to give it back to me the way I like. So in answer to your question, I say yes, it is possible for a woman not to be able to orgasm with oral, and the reason being, is that the man is not getting the right spots. I remember one man was doing nothing for me, and I told him a bit higher, but he never did. I kept saying it over & over.. a bit higher. Then he got all shitty with me and said really loud " I AM DOING THAT"... and I said really loud, "NO YOU ARE NOT, OTHERWISE I WOULDN'T BE TELLING YOU TO GO HIGHER". Needless to say the whole thing was ruined, and we both quit it all there, and I never saw him again. He just couldnt listen, or he couldnt get over his pride that he wasn't doing it the right way for ME. I had one man who was such a fantastic licker, he licked me for 3 hours straight... and he told me he stopped counting my orgasms after 30. He has me literally screaming so hard, I had to put a pillow over my head haha. And yet... another man can't even give me one. Go figure!

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