Ladies, would you date a bi guy?

January 29 2021

Hi girls, I have always been sexually into men and women, but had it in my head that for relationships it wasn't as fluid (or at least not as easy to find someone open to that). I've mostly been part of the gay scene for the past 8-9 years since I was 21 and came out, so a lot more experience with men, but the past 6-12 month I'm finding myself more interested in girls.... not just for the bedroom side of things but even the romance/dating side of things. I'm starting to see myself with a girl long term. So I guess my question is, if a guy messaged you on here, or you met a guy out who was bisexual, would that be ok with you moving forward? I'm trying to work out if its going to be possible for me to date women again after so long haha. Thanks in advance for any help/advice/time taken to answer :)

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  • Phoenix_Rising

    Phoenix_Rising

    4 years ago

    That’s really interesting... I don’t think I’d have a problem with falling for someone who’d mainly been with men, I’m sure many would be attracted to you BECAUSE of it, not in spite of it but of course there will always be those who are totally weirded out and don’t want anything to do with someone who’s adventurous in anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I’m totally ok with dating or being with a bi guy. In fact it’s more attractive to me than cis het dudes. My uncle is gay and I grew up amongst gay men and couples and my dearest and longest friend is gay (that’s not why we’re friends obviously) and I find I get on much better with gay men and that would extend to bi men as well.

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    4 years ago

    Would l 🥰😍😘🥳😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I wouldn't do it again. I did when I was younger but what I found was that males in that scene are a bit free and easy with who they have sex with. Add alcohol and it was a free for all. Maybe it was just him and the people he associated with but it tainted it for me.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    My answer: YES! Ms Foxy

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    4 years ago

    I think particularly on a site like this you will find more women into bi men. Consider yourself a rare species! The only difference I think is in the approach you take.

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    4 years ago

    MrsElectric here - Before I met Mr Dreamer who is straight I'd been married to bi guy who hadn't ever been with a guy (part of why we broke up was so he could explore) and my other big relationship was with a bi guy who had a lots of sex with me. So that's a yes from me from past history. I think I'm probably pansexual with love so maybe panamorous? For sex though I am kinda drawn to straight guys, not that you can tell a guy's sexuality without asking, and it's so backwards to think guys sexuality is linked to what they do - so I don't mean to sound un-pc as I explain my thinking - but I guess I mean hot tradie, rugby player type stuff. These days when bringing a 3rd in they're pretty much ways straight, it's not what my Mr is looking for so it's not on our checklist. I'm one of those ladies who likes all the attention, the guys getting it on would take that focus away lol.

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    It’s a definite yes from me . My husband told me on the first night he met me he wanted to explore his bi sexuality more . I met him in an ordinary country pub whilst I was on holiday . I’m mentioning that as we weren’t at an event or party . Like everything for a successful relationship it’s about finding like a minded soul ( or souls ). We have had 15 amazing , blissful , fun and exciting years . Wishing you the same good fortune . Ax

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    Yes, have done and would again. I had a 2 year relationship with a bi man. Again, sexual orientation means nothing to me if I really like someone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    No I wouldn’t date a bi guy. But that’s just me

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    Two of Mrs Spicy’s ex boyfriends are in same sex relationships and I’m bi, so a yes here! The thing about this place is we tend to gravitate to those that have similar interests and that makes it easier to find likeminded pervs 😬 As a side note, it wasn’t something we talked about until we’d been married for ten years. I’m rather envious of those that had the communication skills early in a relationship to bring it up straight away. Like a few others, pan probably covers it, it’s more about the person than the sexuality. Good luck! 😘

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    4 years ago

    Yes. Absolutely. Thumbs up. Zero problems here.

  • Firefly4735

    Firefly4735

    4 years ago

    I would, and I would love it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love guy on guy and any guy that is comfortable sexually with everyone

  • sugarsugar11

    sugarsugar11

    4 years ago

    I would have no problem dating a bisexual guy, I would honestly even let him bring another male into our relationship so he could get the best of both worlds.

  • jessica__rabbit

    jessica__rabbit

    4 years ago

    Yes. Where are they??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Absolutely, definitely an added bonus for me in a man 🤩🤩

  • youngnudist86

    youngnudist86

    4 years ago

    Hard to find ladies/cpls interested, but at the same time I’m sure they all get bombarded. Hence why I’m just looking to hang out. Ended up with more dudes liking and messaging.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    It's a yes!! If the girl you are with is comfortable, then don't overthink 😉 Give it a try

  • allaboutu6

    allaboutu6

    4 years ago

    This is a topic I have never really thought about until lately. As a couple ,we get a lot of bi guys contact us.Even though I stipulate for them not t contact us THEY STILL Do. 2 men together isn't sexy, its repulsive in my eyes. But hey whatever floats yr boat. I think these guys want their cake and eat it too.If its all so sexy and nice and not wrong, then why isn't it spoken about in public and accepted in main stream society??? Just a burning question I have...

  • TravellingOz

    TravellingOz

    4 years ago

    Had a lady friend while I lived in Darwin who somehow could find every bi guy out there. We had quite a lot of fun together over the course of a few months. I have also been with others that are very much into it also.

  • DeeEmB_61

    DeeEmB_61

    4 years ago

    Find a bi girl. I know many "straight" men who are bi. But only usually play with a guy in a mmf. Hard to come out. Hard to met a guy they trust etc etc. Bi makes sex more interesting. I like bi guys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes, yes, yez

  • cumsback

    cumsback

    4 years ago

    Definately

  • vault1972

    vault1972

    4 years ago

    Hell yes