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Ladies......your thoughts?
October 02 2016
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
and ensure that you tell her everything that you have got planned for her. And get her approval before arranging anything. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
and ensure that you tell her everything that you have got planned for her. And get her approval before arranging anything. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know that if I was getting a "special service" I would want to be prepared for it. Waxed, shaved, tweezed, perfumed and all wrapped up in pretty litte bow. Not knowing what kind of function she is going to, she might already have her sexy on of course. I would like to know in advance, but I don't know her so hard to say L4Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wouldn't be thrilled with such a surprise . I think its important to tell her - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Sounds more like to me, this suprise of more for you not her. 😏 If she does not like or is not attracted to the masseuse, and you want them to take things further "sepecial service", without her permisson, you are going to be in deep shit! I'm sure theres other ways and things you could do..example: YOU do a suprise vist and be her massuse. 😎 Ms Foxy
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Livingandloving2
8 years ago
I'm thinking you and your wife have this as part of your play? Whilst Mr LAL and I have this kind of situation in our dirty talk tool bag-!actually having this happen without me 1. Knowing beforehand 2. Being comfortable with the person performing the service Frankly..... I'd feel violated. Just my honest opinion on how I would respond to this situation I hope it turns out well for you both Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Last thing you want is to get in the crap when your trying to do a cool thing for her , Cos she isn't prepared, physically or mentally ,I know Mrs b would kick my nuts up into there inner sanctum, With a surprise like that , Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Yes indeed. We were thinking the same . - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
8 years ago
I would like to be informed of the "surprises" because I am too rationale to be surprised! However, without knowing what your Mrs is like personality wise, and the nature of your relationship, I cannot say that your Mrs wouldn't like to be surprised :) Have you ever surprised her in a similar manner before? Perhaps give her this surprise in the same form you used to give her? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your wife could think that the masseuse is overstepping the line if he gets fresh or it would drive her wild. Very hot and sexy idea... love it 💕 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
A masseuse who does "special"services and to be recorded, is not a massuse in my eyes. Professional massuse does not cross that line, especially when theres an exchange of $$ to take that step further. Also I'm thinking, if she does not approve of this suprise (without her choice), imagine the embarressing position the OP, the woman and masseuse have all been put in. One big backfire! LOL! Not a position I would like to be placed in. No thank you. IF she does approve and happy with this suprise, happy endings for everyone all round! 😘 Ms Foxy
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Missb4u
8 years ago
You know her better than we do so it really your call. I love the idea of my man planning something like this but not sure if it in reality because of the fickleness of attraction. How well will you know the guy that your sending in? Would it be someone you have met from this site perhaps? Or are you going to the local adds to find a random? I personally am not a fan of massage but would be interested in a more erotic form.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not an expert but I am thinking that perhaps if you have to ask a forum then perhaps it's not a good idea...yet. I would say suss her out a bit more about the idea so that you know whether or not she would like it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We can really only give you our own opinions. For me, the idea of wanting to be prepared as suggested by MissB would be relevent. :-) For you, it depends on your relationship and what Mrs Naughty might prefer. Have fun whatever you both end up getting up to. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
That was Looking4quality I meant, not MissB. Peachy x
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We agree with your 2nd comment. We also would not like such a surprise . In fact we would be pissed off if someone (either of us or a 3rd party) arranged something like this, for us, without first telling us. It's like the guy who registers a "couple" profile on here and or then takes his wife/partner to a swingers club, without first asking her..... And yes, those masseuse that offer extras are not professional in our eyes. We are however sure, that the OP will now be inundated with messages, from all the budding masseuse on here.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I personally cannot stand surprises of any sort, so I'm on team "tell her your plans". Is the massage person you are thinking of male or female? Me personally, I would freak if a male masseuse started to get more touchy feely with me, but if it was a woman.... that would make me melt. I suppose you have questioned the places that offer "happy ending" massage/body slide for men, women, couples, all offered by the girls of course. (Fun to go as a couple 😉)But I would tell her
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Katkat
8 years ago
I love being surprised! May be tell her you have a surprise waiting for her in the hotel & give her hints 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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naughty2469
8 years ago
Thank you to everyone for taking the time to read and reply to my post I have appreciated all of the replies and various opinions. It did make the grade originally apparently (according to RHP management) until I complained about all our messages constantly being blocked on here. There seems to be a double standard if you are a guest member or paid member , and/or a female on here who posts things within the forum....has anyone else had the same issues? Glad it got approved in the end following the complaint, even though it is not listed within the intended main area of this group.Anyway Back to the post at hand..... I have always planned to let Mrs know of the surprise in the way of a massage and the it was going to be a hot and steamy full body nude massage with either a lady or male masseuse . I was just in two minds to tell her or not about the "full service aspect of it or wait until the moment? If and when that she decides that she will like to take the service further will totally depend on her and how she feels int he moment of course. Both I and the masseur will express that it will be ok for her to proceed with more, if she so wishes too in the moment. Some background info for those who have asked the question. No I do not know the masseur, however have been in contact with the chosen person and spoken on a number of occasions. He is use to this kind of service and more than happy to accommodate. In saying that, I would like to say just how hard it is to find genuine, attractive, clean and well "proportioned" masseuses in the designated city. Plenty of ladies to choose from, yet not so many quality men offering the same service. Yes, you do need to look at more full service type people for this kind of thing..... Still welcoming everyone's thoughts and no this is not a green light for guys to contact us to offer services.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well I'd love that surprise if massage guy is hot as then she will love it who wouldn't
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Mr_MrsAraps
8 years ago
It seems more geared to your fantasy instead of hers especially with the filming/streaming so you can watch. I am not saying that it's not a valid fantasy of you watching her but I would be defiantly talking about it prior to the trip as springing it on her will most likely not end the way you want it to. - Posted from rhpmobile
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naughty2469
8 years ago
So ladies, If you were aware that the nude full body massage was going to happen with some notice, the masseur was hot and touching you in place that was making you horny and received a green light from your partner to take it as far as you you wanted, how would you react?
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