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Learning the art of S&M

January 10 2017

I am looking to learn the art of S&M and was after someone to give me guidance, point in the direction of organisations etc that may be able to assist.

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RHP User

8 years ago

It's a bit like Facebook and there are different groups you can join depending in your interests - Posted from rhpmobile

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Lovinit28andKC72

8 years ago

Agree with the above comment, FET is your best bet. More information than you'll know what to do with. Good luck

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RHP User

8 years ago

Sadism is when you cut someone....and enjoy it.... Masochism is when you let them cut you back!! And enjoy it..... *waits* - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

If you are just curious, yes join fetlife and look at the pretty pictures. If you are serious, go to some events and local meet&greet social events advertised on fetlife.the community are generally a social bunch who are welcomming to new people who are genuinely interested in becoming involved. * yes Stirry, thats one type of S&M

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RHP User

8 years ago

...try on Google and have a look at Shibari and Kinbaku. These are more delicate arts but would suggest that you not try to run before you walk. Best.... Midnight

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RHP User

8 years ago

Rope is more the bondage & disipline. S&M is the pain/pleasure side. Cutting/scratching, impact,breath play, verbally demeaning, role play. So Mr Uncertainty, what things playing in your mind are getting you mentally aroused and curious?

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Missb4u

8 years ago

As said above go fetlife but do make sure you attend events and get to know people. I spent 3 years on the fringes just looking at the pretty pictures and watching the videos. I'm not much into the S and M side I'm more bondage and D/s. Rope is a special love but also some device bondage

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Lovinit28andKC72

8 years ago

As everyone has said, fetlife.com is a great platform to get information as it's a social media site exactly like Facebook but for kinksters. There's also a group in Brisbane called Brisbane Leather Pride http://www.brisbaneleatherpride.com/ They are a group initially set up to help educate people in the different arts and forms of Kink by holding different types of workshops along with the normal fundraisers and social events, they also have a Facebook page. This is everything you'll find in the various groups on fetlife.com as well. We're a wonderful community of people on a whole, supportive and very helpful. KC72

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RHP User

8 years ago

Last time I was on fetlife it was an absolute shit show, people having arguments and trash talking other users.

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RHP User

8 years ago

The way some people talk, you'd be excused for thinking it only happened here :p

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'aperfect_circle' Last time I was on fetlife it was an absolute shit show, people having arguments and trash talking other users.I'd say it is marvelous like that, but on Fet you can't even say "good morning" without someone timezone-privilege checking you; complaining that your capitalisation choice was cis-gender normative and you should've included trigger warnings for those sensitive to both good, and morning before you sent them into a shame spiral you insensitive clod ;) On here you can say it, it's just deleted by night time :p

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RHP User

8 years ago

Laughed my coffee out my nose! - Posted from rhpmobile

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