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Lets see a show of hands......
June 19 2018
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Funtimes31RHP
7 years ago
Hi, One would probably relate the desire to be choked whilst being fucked as tantamount to being raped. Is that a fantasy of yours but where no one gets hurt?
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Anyone who tries that with me (Mrs D) will get booted out the door in an instant. Too many copy cats who, having seen it in cheap American porn movies , think that most women enjoy that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
It’s not up our alley. Ms HNP has it done to her without warning once and hated it. It’s one thing to hold a woman by the neck, but it’s another thing entirely to choke a woman. Everyone has their own desires which is fine if you want it, but it’s definitely not for us 👎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Not my thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am not into choke play but do prefer some slight gentle over power play doggy style and a firm grip of the hips as I thrust ,the grab as I run my hands through a ladies hair and just pull slightly aswell .When this is down right you feel a woman's pussy firm and grab you .THats what I like
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Supernova
7 years ago
In a society where 'rape culture' has become a huge epidemic, and respect for women and their rights is paramount to their safety, I personally find it mind-boggling that there are women out there who send out the message that "choking and abusing me during sex is ok" All this talk about 'toxic masculinity" and "rape culture" etc and then you see a post like this from a WOMAN?!? Wtf?! Please don't get mad at me btw - I'm just genuinely perplexed and I think I've made a mature and valid point of view. Kind regards all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
QUOTE DynamicCouple36 Couple Man 47yrs Woman 39yrs South Yarra No thanks Anyone who tries that with me (Mrs D) will get booted out the door in an instant. Too many copy cats who, having seen it in cheap American porn movies , think that most women enjoy that. - Posted from rhpmobile .... PLUS 1 on that dynamic cpl 👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
There was someone on here who had an unfortunate encounter of that kind and ended up at the hospital with his lady. He mentioned it in the forums a couple of years ago. Its a No from me
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
But it needs to be discussed and discussed. If trust has not been built, there needs to be a 3rd person supervising as with a lot of BDSM acts. Even it is a hand on the throat, discuss and discuss. But it is a valid link.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wouldn't say it's *abnormal* per se - I've known (not been with, but known) a few women who seem to be into it. I would say it's a sexual quirk some people have. Myself, I couldn't do it. The idea feels wrong to me and I think I'd probably feel terrible about it. But I acknowledge I'm vanilla as hell apparently.
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
And have ever liked, is choking the chicken.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Hotstepper85' In a society where 'rape culture' has become a huge epidemic, and respect for women and their rights is paramount to their safety, I personally find it mind-boggling that there are women out there who send out the message that "choking and abusing me during sex is ok" All this talk about 'toxic masculinity" and "rape culture" etc and then you see a post like this from a WOMAN?!? Wtf?! Please don't get mad at me btw - I'm just genuinely perplexed and I think I've made a mature and valid point of view. Kind regards all. - Posted from rhpmobile but I also get that its the OPs kink and I respect that, whatever works for them and who am I to judge ?, but like you, it genuinely perplexes me I had it done to me once and I panicked and it all went wrong so now I'm paranoid and hyper sensitive if a hand accidentally goes there. It did frighten me. Too many watching porn thinking this is what women want or need But live and let live No OP its not for me and even if it was my thing, I wouldn't trust anyone to do it to me, literally flirting with death
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NewVicCpl
7 years ago
Is that everyone has a thing they like and others may not agree with it or be into it, doesn't make you abnormal at all, just makes you you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Not something *i* want to do But if it floats her kinky little boat, I may indulge her.... and have with two women But it wasn’t real choking, more like dominant holding - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lots of people like being spanked. It does nothing for me except be a turn-off. Similarly, I see a lot of stuff about using ice during play to get a hot/cold sensation. You know what ice does to me? Makes me cold and instantly switches off desire. My point? We all like different stuff, and as the saying goes, your kink is not my kink but your kink is OK. Breath play though? I think people associate that with pain and violence - but being tied up and whipped isn't? I don't understand why there is so much vehemence for one activity but not the other (why did 50 Shades sell so many copies?). - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
although maybe what you are relating to is not actually choked, the choke hold is very much different than being choked by the crushing of the windpipe. The choke hold is around the throat, however pressure applied to the neck either side of the windpipe and slowing the blood circulation down, building blood pressure up and when releasing the hold, a rush of blood brings on a euphoric sensation, especially enjoyed if it is done on the cusp of orgasm, it should not feel painful, nor as to the feelings of threat cutting someones breath away scary. Something worth a mention, if you don't mind OP Mado Mado Tara xx
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Hawt1
7 years ago
I can clench my neck muscles and achieve the same thing.. doesn't bring euphoria though.. like pins and needles in the brain, ears ringing and followed by a god awful headache. I am not keen to inflict this on or be involved with this practice either OP. No from me.
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RHP User
7 years ago
For me and like another has said, I have had it done to me without warning and /or prior discussion which turned me off the idea even more. That said, I also have a friend that absolutely loves that kind of play. So no OP, having a kink that you enjoy is not abnormal in the slightest, maybe unique or rare might be a better term as it is not as popular. I agree with Annie, if anyone has kinks they wish to explore, either giving or receiving, discuss and establish trust and then enjoy yourselves!! Mrs E x
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Yes....to some people you will be... No....to some people it’s just how play goes and those who don’t are weird... My opinion ... I could care less if you consent to it, and enjoy the play....I’ve known people that I’ve spoken to in the past where they enjoyed passing out at climax and when they’ve come back they’re still cumming... However.... I know right?? There’s always “a but” But.... I think there’s a certain level of desensitising to a level of violence with this play that I’m not entirely comfortable with.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Nudge nudge wink wink :)
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madotara69
7 years ago
Quoting 'Hawt1' I can clench my neck muscles and achieve the same thing.. doesn't bring euphoria though.. like pins and needles in the brain, ears ringing and followed by a god awful headache. I am not keen to inflict this on or be involved with this practice either OP. No from me. How do you call it the same thing if no euphoria, pins and needles in your brain and yer ears ring and you get a headache by clenching your neck muscles lol Funny bugger, we are sitting here trying to imagine the face you'd be pulling with your neck all clenched and the awful headache you bring upon yourself and no wonder you would not be so keen to inflict or involve anyone, however you have inflicted and involved us and no headache, saw jaw muscles you've had us in stitches attempting to re enact the practice, just can't quite pull it off the way you did, can't help thinking you experimented ad-lib with a real time experience which prompted you to post, with a big No from me OP. luv it
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would have to say it's in my top favourite 3. Mood and partner dependant of course. I like the use of my windpipe. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
7 years ago
And for one of my men, it was a struggle initially because it’s not how he was raised or how men should treat women (God bless his cotton socks) BUT it’s a huge turn on for me - happening simultaneously as we fuck, and I’m a one thrust orgasm type of lady. We discussed it before and after, he constantly checks if I’m ok, and I am. I love all that rough play :) I would only do it with a man I explicitly trust beyond any measure and I’d knee someone in the nuts if they tried that shit without knowing from me explicitly that it was ok FOR THEM to do that to me ... it’s such a trust thing. OP ... here’s the thing, do you and your partner like it? Anything you do where there is explicit consent does not need any validation from anyone else. Mary x
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megz85g
7 years ago
To choking - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes from me - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Look I would love to have some fun with you. But in the other hand would make a pass at these choke business. I guess is just not for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
7 years ago
Well as a young person growing up I did all sorts of experimentation learning what my body could do.. pulling funny faces, attempting to move one muscle on my head at a time ( you know like wiggle one ear or flare only one nostril, making my scalp move without touching it or ears). The neck clench is like hold your breath, lean your head back slightly, clench the neck and chest muscles at the same time... should see the veins in your neck swell massively and a restriction of blood/air into the cranial area and head go beetroot red (entirely hands and friend assist free). Jim Carrey when he made his debut.. I'm like oh yeah, I was already doing that, so ner! Whilst I have not actually pulled this one out whilst in coutis.. it did not take a big leap of imagination to think it similar. Most other choking I am familiar with was at the hands of several bullies in my teen years. I did see it mentioned earlier so had not sought to bring it up twice, choking the chook is about as close as I want to get. Ever pleased to amuse and sorry for afflicting any one with myself lol (But you asked to see what it looked like and for your saw jaw, I would say probably take the night off from your prospective oral activities (sorry about that)) Hawt
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madotara69
7 years ago
Still can't pull off that swagger you have Hawt, and you know what they say about beataroot..you can't I think it comes down to horny factored into the occasion, and I'll tell you why I think so, for starters Tara's me best mate and anything we do together with sex is exploring pleasure and for example when Tara is fizzing at the bung, she realllly likes her nipples squeezed, like really squeezed and I wouldn't dare squeeze another woman's nipples the same unless she called the shots, then yeah sure, she likes it. With the choke hold, which there seems to be a thing happening here, which smack bang puts us into a bag with degrading type behaviour, even matched up with rape and abusive carry on, shamed for enjoying something that's tainted by some folks opinion based on porn, asides role play rape fantasy is one of the most women have expressed tickles their fancy, some women the fantasy can't be played out as it is too abusive, actually it's been said women have much kinkier fantasies than men and I believe that fair. We use the choke hold during sex and it is absolutely used in part with enjoyment, the timing is something that intimacy and we are sharing it very much together, as Tara knows where she is at with the orgasm she's working up to, never the same, we use the hold then, it's not rough, it's quite gentle actually, it's just applying pressure, if it hurts or even uncomfortable, something is not right and would back off re adjust the hold, my hands were to rough and not much I could do one time, so we stopped and luck be had, a toy she likes a lot had us in a good place and not like awww faaaaark that's fucked now, fuck off Mado, fuck up a perfectly good orgasm, no sir, it's not the all and everything, just one of many ways we enjoy ourselves, when we have used the choke hold and it takes a bit of hit and miss to begin with as timing leaves a narrow window for release at the very moment Tara begins her orgasm, time on tap and there is not a soul in this world who would look at her and have it said she was degraded, on the verge of rape, or fear nor panic. When we use the choke hold, it's specifically to enhance Tara's moment, which is a wonderful experience and if guys are out trendsetting and degrading women, hurting them or scaring them, then they are playing the fool is all, which doesn't represent the meanings, in that liberating does. And what do they say ? If you don't have a big cock, better be good with your hands. I've enjoyed this conversation Hawt, thanks.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
was out one night. and someone put his hands around the neck of mrs b. i know her feelings on such things and why , i told him to stop imediantly ,but the idiot tried to make a point of i was only doing this blah blah blah , and put his hands there again ,dude was lucky we were in a public place. and i don’t believe in violence fights violence ,but i really don’t think he realised how close he came to going home. a very very very sorry man ,it’s a very niche kink and that’s ok ,but make sure who your doing with is into it and don’t assume cos they ticked breathe play on here they actually know what that is , in a recent thread it was proven obvious ,how many including ourselves had no idea ,jesus i thought it was blowing gently on nipples ,😳lmao mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wow.. some intriguing points of view here. Not that there's anything wrong with any of them.. each to their own. We practice breath play.. it has to be done with complete control by the choker and the chokee.. I wouldn't partake in that with another party unless their is complete trust and boundaries/safe motions are put in place prior. Rope suspension can also go horribly wrong too.. there's some great but morbid articles on that.. It's not about abuse or rape culture in these instances.. the act can enhance the experience.. remember it's what the other party requests.. and it's not limited to just women FYI.. Clear and defined rules by discussion prior. That is imperative - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
6 years ago
You have made me rethink my stance.. maybe I won't shut the door on this. But yes it will definitely be a well thought out and thoughouly discussed activity, probably with consent in writing. Was having a stupid macho moment with a mate once.. he is built like a brick shit house. We were discussing the taking down of big bastards in fights. We were into sparing and martial arts. I said choke em out is safest and fastest way (for myself).. he's like couldn't do it to me.. I said I could.. he said go on then.. so I got him to sit in a chair and raise his hand, wrapped my arms around him from behind then rotated my wrist so my bicep put pressure on his artery.. 20 seconds later his hand fell on the table and I released him. He came too laughing haha told you you couldn't.. I said, where's you're hand... Silence. I know what we did was stupid, but the point is it can happen all too quickly and easily go too far. I hope people are being really carefull. Geez, I dunno if I should post this. Ah well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I've wanted to be taken from behind and have my hair pulled. The problem is I have a short Ellen/Pink style do. So I went and bought myself a sexy long brunette wig, tied it in a low ponytail for easy gripping and assumed the position. Of course that didn't work well and we ended up in fits of laughter and me with a new murkin.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have been with numerous women who find it amazing and enjoy it but there is certain levels of pressure that each like, from I understand the pressure and the euphoria associated with it made them cum extremely hard. Most recently a lady I met liked it softly enough to cut off some air and made her instantly and other like it so hard she made me release jsmust before she passed out.. There are other I have been with where it is a definate no no. There is a massive amount of trust involved - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Shaz likes the idea of it but Scot isn't keen on doing it to her. He's done it but just a firm grip not a squeeze as such. The idea of her not breathing is not a turn on for him. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I had a f buddy a while back who loved it. It was a bit weird to begin with because i didnt really know what to do how firm to squeeze, how long to hold for ( she liked it really firm and to hold it untill she would signal which was when you could see her start to fade) but after a few goes at it i learned how she liked it and after that it was great! She would really get off on it and have exreme orgasms. And i also ended up getting off on it too. It was a bit of a power and control thing for me. But with saying this i still would never try it on a woman unless she has explicitly asked for it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I love a firm grip around my throat. Not to the point of choking, but just the restricted feeling with pressure is a sure turn on for me. Especially doggy style getting grabbed by the throat from behind.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Definitely not abnormal but not my thing.
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