Letting go.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Hello lovely, welcome to RHP. Have you had a look in the Secret Men's Business. There is a lot of talk about this sort of thing in there apparently and maybe you will come across some useful answers. Other wise, I say go for it. You will never know unless you try.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Not the only one mate. Scary but just gunna have to take the leap one day or we'll never know Meeks your a bloody good chick keep it up.

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  AnnieWhichway

  10 years ago

  Can't say what it feels like as I sampled my own gender before the opposite. My advice, although I may be flogged on here for suggesting it. Some guys I have spoken to who were in your frame of mind sampled the wares at a gay beat, say a park where guys are known to congregate. You can sample without introductions or goodbyes. You can play with guys or get played with, whatever your fantasies are or however far you want to go. And if you suddenly find its not for you midway, you can pull up, zip up and run for the hills or in this case your car and go. Just remember safe sex if you wish to go that far. Hope that helps. Annie xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Thanks bitkinky, but to be fair. I am always going to encourage more men sucking other men's cocks. There just ain't enough of it!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  That can be a bit hard core! But KeenBean there are places such as Jack Off clubs when men go to wank together but there isn't meant to be any touching... that way you can see if you feel comfortable around cock without someone expecting you to do something. Well, I am assuming that you may be shy about it.

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  KeenBean3

  10 years ago

  Meek you are a wealth of knowledge I love it must talk to you more often!! Those clubs do sound good I may have to find one and than with enough encouragement take a cock in my mouth one day... Sooner rather than later - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Having one in my mouth for a split second is as far as I've got with a man. Im not attracted to men in the same way I am to women so has made it quite confusing but just one day said fuck it or well fuck me rather ;) mrs kink knows how to swing a strapon as if it was made for her. Meeks you and fellow lady's of the forum's comments on hear is a huge factor in making me feel comfortable with it and myself so cheers to you. Go with it mate first exp I and only I've had made me and mrs so fuking hot lets just say holey fuck. I copped it that night;)..

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  There is a couple of topics on this area in Secret Mens Business..... have read there too. Yes I have been where you are, and probably around the same age. I grew up in an era where guys were bashed for even considering MM contact, which I'm glad to see is not the case. The reality is we are sexual beings and there are no rules on what is right or wrong. As I said I would not have considered MM contact in my early 20's, but thankfully I to the plunge and experimented. Giving something a go doesn't define you as a person.... if you like it, continue with it. If you don't like it, you have ratified that curiosity and don't need to wonder any more. I very much enjoyed it and it now forms a part of my sex life and experience. I would say to you, chat to people on here and explain where you are at. Meet up with someone and when you feel comfortable set the ground rules of what you are wanting to try and what your boundaries are. The one rule is that if you decide you on't like it, you can walk away. I have had a couple of guys (of various ages) experiment with me in this way. more than one walked away the first time, which was fine with me (that was the understanding). Some contacted me again later when they were ready to take it further. The reality is, give it a go as you will always wonder. Good luck, relax and enjoy it.... either way it is going to be fun!

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  KeenBean3

  10 years ago

  Sounds like it was a good time for all involved and swing a strapon like it was made gave me all kinds of good thoughts. Meek - although have only read your comments on my first post you hve mad me feel very comfortable an good about myself an what happens from here :) Please keep up the great work spreading good feelings to all... In every way possible - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Ha! There are a surprising number of women who LOVE bi-sexual men and strapon play too. You just have to keep an eye out for us. At the end of the day you have to do what feels right for you. I have experimented a lot since hitting my 40's and things that I always thought would be a huge turn on, turned out to be okay and other things I had never even considered, turned out to be fucking fantastic. I have learned that sometimes fantasies may not always be how you expect them to be and to try everything a few times as sometimes trying new things can be a bit overwhelming the first time so you don't really appreciate it. So take things slowly and see how you go.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  been in a play scenario (four men and a woman) where there was male-male interaction going on. Didn't know it would occur in advance. Obviously the other three guys knew each other (and knew it was ok between them) and knew the woman beforehand, I only knew the woman. Not a preference for me, and was neither turned on nor turned off. Just focused on the female and the straight interactions. The other guys were obviously respectful of not knowing me, and didn't attempt to initiate this kind of contact with me. I think, OP, that if you get the opportunity, most similar guys would be the same, and will be quite respectful and not pushy, especially if you have never done it before. They would probably let you start slow, just playing or touching. I don't know, maybe it helps in your interactions with females, if you know how it feels from a female point of view?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  with a bi man and let them know you are new to the idea then you can get a sample of the man up to how comfortable you are then you can still have fun with the woman also if you find that it isn't all it is cracked up to be. Maybe you can get a couple who are keen to take you under their wing and let you have fun with them a bit regularly so you can take it slowly. Good luck :)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  In my experimental time it was suggested that I play with a bi couple. For me playing with the guy with albeit a supportive woman present was intimidating.... that is just my experience and may not be so for others or you. My first experience was with a bi guy on our own. And it was much more difficult to organise without sites like this. I did have a few experiences that weren't so good after that.... like in any form of sex, you have your good and bad. I do remember that in a couple of incidences I walked in without clear boundaries and found it wasn't going as I wanted - that was a lesson learned. So now, regardless of the type of sex MF, MM, MMF, MMMM, MFMF, MMMMF, I am clear about what I will do.... this does change and sometimes I may participate in something that I wouldn't have before, which is all good. It is about me being in charge and knowing that if I push my boundaries, it is because I am choosing to allow the to pushed. We all have the right to zip up and walk away.... remember that!! The relax and enjoy the ride (so to speak [if that is what you are wanting at the time of course])

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Mate I reckon your spot on there I have thought of sending out apologies to all the women I've been with thinking I was the god of fucking at the time. I realised I probably had no idea what it was the women actually wanted what she felt like during the experience. Wow haven't I woke up. never had complaints before but have a much deeper understanding " I think" of what it feels like to be on the receiving end of things and have realised sex is to be savoured and soaked up every second of it. Still have trouble referring to my self as bi as I live a prodomently straight lifestyle. Tradie. With some kinks;)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  My first time was with a bi couple and it was brilliant, she was supportive, he was patient and we all had a fantastic time that we still speak of, it was that good. And I went waaaaay further than I had originally imagined I would and don't regret a second.

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