Liars

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  Eiliethiya

  8 years ago

  Specifically states that I'm not interested in talking to or meeting attached or married men. I had 2 start conversations last week before coming clean (1 married, 1 attached )...after I asked a few times because it didn't say in their profiles their relationship status. One thought he would be the one to change my mind..because he's different to all the others (I don't see how...attached IS attached), the second got short with me because if it's ok with him, and ok with his wife...what is my problem?!? I don't think anywhere in either of these guys thoughts MY wants or feelings came into consideration at all. Fortunately having been single now for 4yrs (and despite 2 in one week!), this isn't a common thing to happen to me. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Have not experienced this and I never want to. I find it extremely rude and frankly it disgusts me. Just a lack of thought and courtesy that could lead to terrible consequences for me and for the stupid woman lying. I had a friend when I was here last who had a woman basically kick her door down and give her a thrashing because her arse of a husband lied about his status.I understand that it must be hard for some in relationships but the truth will work for you no matter what. Sorry you had to deal with that yourself

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  inspirit

  8 years ago

  Theyre insecure fuckwits. I had one a few years back now. Posted about it then. I went on a few dates with him and found out of all places on FB. He was unaware tho. Soooo I met up with him one last time at an exclusive high end restaurant and he'd booked the most beautiful penthouse in town. I had a very lovely dinner and the most beautiful champers. Then I let him know I knew about his marital status, thanked him for dinner and mentioned I hope he enjoys his penthouse with a view. Stupid idiot. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'Eiliethiya' Specifically states that I'm not interested in talking to or meeting attached or married men. I had 2 start conversations last week before coming clean (1 married, 1 attached )...after I asked a few times because it didn't say in their profiles their relationship status. One thought he would be the one to change my mind..because he's different to all the others (I don't see how...attached IS attached), the second got short with me because if it's ok with him, and ok with his wife...what is my problem?!? I don't think anywhere in either of these guys thoughts MY wants or feelings came into consideration at all. Fortunately having been single now for 4yrs (and despite 2 in one week!), this isn't a common thing to happen to me. - Posted from rhpmobile My profile also states I'm not interested in meeting attached men. I won't give people the benefit of the doubt anymore. It's just not worth it. Too much potential for troubles and dramas.And if the attached people don't get it and "attack" others just because it's ok with them but it's not ok with you, then they are being self centred and as you say, not taking your thoughts, wants or feelings into consideration at all.

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  We have come across so many, pretending to be single, when they are married . Then others posing as couples when it just happens to be a male. We are now pretty much mistrustful of everyone. It's clear, to us (based on our experience) , that they simply tell you what they think you want to hear, so as to get a quick root. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'inspirit' I went on a few dates with him and found out of all places on FB. He was unaware tho. It's absolutely amazing to me how stupid some people are with Facebook. People seem to have no idea of FB's algorhytms - if you give me your phone number or call/text me, FB will match that number up with it's matching profile and put you in my "People You May Know" feed very quickly. I've busted a couple of guys like this as the dummies usually have a photo of themselves, wives and kids in their public photos.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Best policy. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  tall60

  8 years ago

  My profile says quite clear that I'm atttached...I get few kisses, and don't expect many, however of those that do contact me, you'd be surprised at how many fail to read or notice my clearly stated status.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  do not care..I PREFER married/attached women because they have less of a tendency to want me full time.In mining camps and mining towns, IF I found a girl who wants a longer term relationship, I make it VERY clear it is a "Camp-ONLY" situation and when I leave, I leave alone..This does not always go to plan, as.. some women, like some men, think they are the ONE who can make a difference in my life, AND my singularity.The glorious thing is, there are women who run the same race, and ONLY want a camp hubby.No interaction, calls, texts or messages of ANY KIND outside of camp.They may or may not be married, or in a relationship, but they certainly make sure they are ONLY there for the short time.I LIKE that. mmmm.. in "Out-of-camp" situations.. I don't care if there is a chance of a hubby coming looking for me.BUT, I guess one day, one will call my bluff, and I will probably regret growing older and slowing down Until then..... .... "I'm OK"

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  As the great philosopher David Lee Roth once said - "I don't need so much to remember...that's how it is when you tell the truth".

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  But on my profile I have clearly stated no kids. Not judging but it is my choice and guys message me saying they have read my profile, like the effort and how clear it is so then I chat with them and after a few chats they let slip about their kids and I'm going wtf?? But then they think they will be the exception, no I won't make any exceptions and it makes me annoyed that they think they can make that decision for me. No they can't it's my choice then I get blamed and questioned why not. Ok rant over haha thanks :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Sorry 😬 for posting same thing 3x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  People have differing priorities that change depending on their immediate situation. I don't think this should, in any way, be used as an excuse for cheating. But it's a way of understanding that some people are governed by their emotions / hormones to a higher degree than others. As such, they are more likely to make mistakes, feel guilt and remorse, and suffer a range of consequences when things don't turn out well for them. I'm married to a loving and caring wife. She's perfect for me in every way except one.. due to medical issues, we can't have sex nearly as often as I want / need. Still, I've never cheated on her, and never would. I have my standards, which include not sleeping with someone who's hoping to cheat on their partner. In the past, I've declined sex because the person had a partner.. and agreed to sex when the partner gave his ok. Similarly, I'm ok with my wife being with another man (or woman).. however she's not interested. She also (currently) doesn't like the idea of me being with another woman.. so I don't. In an ironic twist, she'd be happy for me to be with a man.. which I'm not interested in. I do find it sad that other people aren't as comfortable with honesty and sexuality to overcome these relationship issues. But we are who we are... We can't govern other people's behaviour, only our own. We each have to make our own choices on where our 'lines' are drawn.

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