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Lies, Lies, Lies
August 27 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
You will not get in between a married guy and his wife. Most just are here because of a whole range of reasons, most you will never even find out they are married.People lie here and in real life, they always did, its just you never caught them at it.sex and lies are like a hand and a gloveIf men told the truth on here, they would never get laid.Same for some of the women as well. I dont blame people for telling lies. Women and me do it re their age, and lets face it, its a way to get a person and that person enjoys them and is no the wiser unless they took off twenty years.I like married guys, I like the to be honest with me but that is their choice.as I am not dating them, not meeting them socially then I have no problemI think its the lies that are the kicker for most people, we all hope people are honest with us , but thats never the case all of the time.good luck and I hope it works out for you honey, maybe just talk to him and find out what is going on with him.
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
Hubby and I had a good laugh after I cooled off a little bit:"Married woman looking for a bit on the side, found a great bit....but got pissed off because the bit was also married" Life goes on...as Hubby said "Go fuck him stupid and have a great time" If anything goes wrong.....you know he has a wife and he doesn't know that you know!
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chevtrek
11 years ago
be it cheating or some other and yes it sucks
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' You will not get in between a married guy and his wife. Most just are here because of a whole range of reasons, most you will never even find out they are married.People lie here and in real life, they always did, its just you never caught them at it.sex and lies are like a hand and a gloveIf men told the truth on here, they would never get laid.Same for some of the women as well. I dont blame people for telling lies. Women and me do it re their age, and lets face it, its a way to get a person and that person enjoys them and is no the wiser unless they took off twenty years.I like married guys, I like the to be honest with me but that is their choice.as I am not dating them, not meeting them socially then I have no problemI think its the lies that are the kicker for most people, we all hope people are honest with us , but thats never the case all of the time.good luck and I hope it works out for you honey, maybe just talk to him and find out what is going on with him. OP by your own admission if he had been truthful you would have ignored him. He lied and as it turns out you found out .. and fucked him anyway .. where's the downside ?Moral of the story ... Lie about being married despite the chorus of protest to the contrary if you want to get anywhere with those doing singing.
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
I haven't fucked him...yet.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeh a lot of dodgy people. And a lot of exceptional people. I wouldn't be too disappointed. If his sex life is boring enough to risk causing serious damage to his wife and families lives - than what makes you think he will have the skill set to please you. For me it is the lowest of lows when someone lies about something like that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Fantasyplus' Hubby and I had a good laugh after I cooled off a little bit:"Married woman looking for a bit on the side, found a great bit....but got pissed off because the bit was also married" Life goes on...as Hubby said "Go fuck him stupid and have a great time" If anything goes wrong.....you know he has a wife and he doesn't know that you know! I dont have anything to say
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes' Quoting 'Fantasyplus' Hubby and I had a good laugh after I cooled off a little bit: "Married woman looking for a bit on the side, found a great bit....but got pissed off because the bit was also married" Life goes on...as Hubby said "Go fuck him stupid and have a great time" If anything goes wrong.....you know he has a wife and he doesn't know that you know! Irony/Hypocracy I dont have anything to say
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inspirit
11 years ago
noooooooo not here... You serious!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well lets face it your either a lier or not? A lier habitual lier lies not only to you but most of all to themselves they are dangerous and you can get sucked into there bullshit and web of lies but it does not take all that long depending on the quality and experience of the lier to work em out !! Things don't make sense!!? Wich is fucked for the genuine party because after being lied to and tricked cant help but be cautious!!! If your not a lier well don't lie because we have all told lies in the past learnt from our mistakes even a white lie a little lie still a lie,!! I prefer depending?? May just not tell the whole truth is all. ?? Try this ask ??? What do you think when I tell you"I would rather hurt you with the truth! Than tell you a lie" basic lier detector quote. ::))- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well why would a married woman have any issue with hooking up with a married man...she said it herself in that statement Mrs Peachy.Whether he lied seems so irrelevant..shes a swinger whats the dif.
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
It's the fact that he lied about it that has me pissed off...yes its true if I had known he was married I wouldn't have even looked at him. My husband knows I am after a bit extra, he is hardly home due to work and I have needs he understands that. The problem with hooking up with a married man is: his wife has no idea he is on here, she finds out about play date and I'm then "The Other Woman" who ruined a marriage....this place is a city but it is only small..... If he is stupid enough for me to find out he is married, it's only a matter of time before his wife finds out about his extra marital activities.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think we're on different pages. I thought you were thinking more along the lines of what IndefatigableMe's post said to me... that with Fantasyplus's second post, the whole thread becomes an irony.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are married and he is married ? so whats the problem ? you pissed off becouse he is married ? i so dont get it ...i understand if you are single and says, looking for someone who are unattached then thats fair , and fair enough i see valid reason to be mad at this person but in this case , NAH !! i am totally confused...did i miss something ?!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Girls lie to. Shit just watch our political representative's on tv you know they are lying because their lips are moving. It is a bit of an irony OP that you are a married woman looking to play outside your marriage,even be it with hubbies approval, but get a bit upset because you found out your new sex toy is married. Yep bit low he failed to mention this first off but after all isn't just about the sex? I met a lady a few years ago in a pub in Perth she told me she was separated we spent the night together, then I found out she was infact married and not from Perth. Sex was fantastic so guess it made up for the lie.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We where once married 2 each other we got divorced but have now started living life as a couple again... So we are not married yet we play but very few take us serious when that is told... Single is just taht and married or in relationship is simply that... Unless he has her go ahead don't go there....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seems honesty is not the go here:( seems more licks if we talk crap and that's really sad as we just wanted honest fun n friendship with the LiEs
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RHP User
11 years ago
Married? Anyway, his profile and a lot of other profiles on here are designed to appeal to the masses. Yes, I'm sure there are a lot of liars on RHP, but why would you believe what you read and not ask the question?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPearl' I think we're on different pages. I thought you were thinking more along the lines of what IndefatigableMe's post said to me... that with Fantasyplus's second post, the whole thread becomes an irony. My post was clearly directed at the OP ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are dead set against being the "other woman" and furious that he lied to you about it (that I understand). But you're going to "fuck him stupid" (and therefore be "the other woman") and keep the knowledge of his marital status to yourself should the need for blackmail arise?? Am I reading that right????? Msfun
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'funtwo4fun' You are dead set against being the "other woman" and furious that he lied to you about it (that I understand). But you're going to "fuck him stupid" (and therefore be "the other woman") and keep the knowledge of his marital status to yourself should the need for blackmail arise?? Am I reading that right????? Msfun You said it Girlfriend!!Well said.FOXY
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
Quoting 'funtwo4fun' You are dead set against being the "other woman" and furious that he lied to you about it (that I understand). But you're going to "fuck him stupid" (and therefore be "the other woman") and keep the knowledge of his marital status to yourself should the need for blackmail arise?? Am I reading that right????? Msfun I was completely up in the air...I want to have fun with him, he is a great guy...but I just cant put myself in that position. I have had "The Other Woman" in a relationship and it's not pleasant. So as much as I would love to fuck him stupid, I cancelled the play date and told him why. He didn't deny that he lied about being married and as of an hour ago we have gone our separate ways :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes'Well why would a married woman have any issue with hooking up with a married man...she said it herself in that statement Mrs Peachy.Whether he lied seems so irrelevant..shes a swinger whats the dif. I feel your pain OP. You have stated you are married (being honest) and to be lied to like that, is not on. Even though this site is all about "lies" and "secrecy", there are still some standards to be maintained. I, myself, know about being lied to and the hurt it caused. I began a couples profile on this site, as my play mate (and this was stated in our profile) wanted to meet other couples for fun. As he had never experienced this before, I agreed. I paid for a membership and we contacted some very nice couples. However, he began secretly communicating with a young, single woman. No problem there....it was the deception which proved too much. When I found out, I confronted him and he apologised for being secretive and deleting her messages. Fine. Then he started it again and changed the password to shut me out. OK...he's a single guy, no problem there. Just didn't like being used like that. So, OP I do understand you have ethics. Stand your ground?
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RHP User
11 years ago
How refreshing... So good to see someone say it exactly as it is. Far too many people waste time trying to separate the chaff from the hay.. Tuscan, looking at people as people first without wanting to disect makes alot of sense. If a married person ( male or female ) offers themselves for play' why get your knickers in a knot ? It's play, not a rerun for a marriage proposal.. ? We all have the same basic instincts when you boil it all down..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lady T......now I know my big mistake, not enough lying, no wonder I am not getting laid much! Rofl :)OP I can understand why you're angry and pissed off, I have found that as well as a bit of sadness is my reaction if I find out someone has lied like that.And none of us should have to double check each little detail on someone's profile, but that seems to be the way it goes sometimes.
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
In the last week I have had a coffee meet with a guy who's profile stated: Tall, Athletic & Outdoorsy....He was shorter than me (I'm 5'8'), The Michelin Man was more toned and athletic and as for Outdoorsy....my white iPhone has a better tan! Apparently he was experienced (maybe with his left hand) I'm pretty damn sure he was a virgin...either that or he had never sat next to a woman with a mini skirt on before! Then I find out my single play mate is married.....As I stated in my first post, we have been doing this for nearly 10 years and only now discovering so many liars. We have met some pretty amazing couples and singles in those 10 years and not one of them have lied to us...why are they all coming out of the wood work now???
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'IndefatigableMe' Quoting 'MrsPeachyPearl' I think we're on different pages. I thought you were thinking more along the lines of what IndefatigableMe's post said to me... that with Fantasyplus's second post, the whole thread becomes an irony. My post was clearly directed at the OP ? I know your post wasn't aimed at me, sorry for the confusion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm glad to hear you've made that final decision... . Me n he once had to make that decision on the spot after a man told us of his attachment after we'd arrived for play! Talk about awkward. We still left...
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casanovastudd
11 years ago
...marriage is a lot like an orange. First you have the skin... then the sweet, sweet innards.."
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RHP User
11 years ago
his personal life as is yours in no one elses business, frankly it really doesnt matter, he/she may have a good reason they may not, who cares really, the hubby has got it in one, if ya wanna fuck him fuck him if not move on plenty of other fish in the sea
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' Quoting 'funtwo4fun' You are dead set against being the "other woman" and furious that he lied to you about it (that I understand). But you're going to "fuck him stupid" (and therefore be "the other woman") and keep the knowledge of his marital status to yourself should the need for blackmail arise?? Am I reading that right????? Msfun You said it Girlfriend!!Well said.FOXY
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inspirit
11 years ago
I am cumming too Perth :)
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I am cumming too Perth :) don't think I am being rude, because I am. I am still running to Perth to see Lady T, Tara is close behind, and you's won't know when we are cumming, until we get there. he heMado, Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its only because you caught him out.....anyone could be lying and they do about all sorts of things.I usued to have such high morals, I think I still do. I remember once being offered a lovely weekend by a friend but after a little catch up chat I questioned him about if he was still seeing someone and he said yes shes away......well at the time I thought oh no Im not doing that.I took it too personally...it wasnt my business I wasnt initiating anything or doing the sneaking. Since then I realised what matters is me....if someone else is cheating thats their business. I may not agree but I am not luring them or seeking them out (I still dont play with married men but thats just incase of feelings developing).I am not sure if I have been desensitised a little. If it bothers you dont do it, I am sure he might of thought it shouldnt matter either.When it comes to me and my ethics I am way too honest.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
If if it is all such a pain don't go there
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