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Lifes Boundaries...
March 10 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
contacted by a man who had a humiliation fantasy.He sent me a whole scripted scenario.It actually made me feel quite sad ,even though I do understand that for some people it is their thing and would fulfil a need that they have. So no,I just could not do that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A boundary I want to push further: I'd quite like to explore being tied up more. A boundary I would never cross: Someone elses.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looks like I need to explore apostrophes a bit more too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
that I recently pushed a huge boundary for me.I still can't quite believe I did it and am still doing it,but in the doing I discovered so much pleasure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can only agree with Ms_Devious that i would never cross someone else's boundaries & find that the perfect response to this question.Freya..Any new pleasurable discovery is surely one to enjoy & keep enjoying sexy lady. Mr fun
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luvsilver
12 years ago
When we first joined RHP we thought the idea of playing between ourselves with another couple in the same room doing the same thing would be fun but that would be as far as we would take things. Cue forward to our first actual meeting and we soon discovered that we wanted to go further than our original boundry. We have pushed further again and had no issues but in general we are pretty tame. Our boundry we will not cross is someone being hurt,either in mind or body. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
12 years ago
It amazes me that some people can not bring themselves to be tied up. They can't loose that control. It's interesting. I can't wait to give mine up.... Tie me up and tease me mercilessly. Mmm pussy twinge! This one time, at band camp, this sexy minx handcuffed me to the wall and spanked my arse with a paddle. Okay some of my yelling and groaning may have been to entertain the crowd. But when she was slamming me against the wall ..... That was so HOT!!! :P
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I wouldn't cross someone else's boundaries without permission.. A boundary I crossed was joining RHP Mrs cheeky
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am constantly encouraging people to push their boundaries and to be more adventurous and not just in the bedroom. I think some times I may get a little impatient because I just don't understand what the big deal is a lot of the time. I have to always remind myself that people are different and everyone has different levels of comfort.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No way would I ever cross that one. Oh and humiliation. I would not accept it for myself nor would I humiliate another. Meeka Being tied up is not about relinquishing control...it is all about trust.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think I would jump out of plane and I wouldn't do most illegal things... Mostly. :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
hmmmm.... yet to really find mine but strangely enough 1 on 1 sex is still a challenge I'm working on ...Boundaries I'd never cross? Anything involving anything illegal, blood and poop. ICK. (so far)...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Disagree to a point. A friends of mine who are a couple are still talking about tying each other up after two years together. Neither can bring themselves to do it. Interesting I will suggest to her that they don't trust each other. She will flip! Lol I have let people I hardly know tie me up. Okay probably not smart... But what? I trust to easily??
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suppose you are right.. They obviously don't trust themselves to really let go I think as well. Boy am I going to have fun bringing that concept up to her next time we meet. Hehe
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmm... Boundaries... have been walking alone for the last 6 months and have yet to come across one for myself. "Will try anything once" is a motto I strive for as long as it harms no one else and is legal Have seen a few boundaries around others lives and wouldn't want to cross them... some are sad, some shallow and some I just can't work out but they are their boundaries and should be respected as such. As a side question, for those who have met their boundaries have you ever had someone move them for you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think crossing other peoples boundaries, well I would never do that and would never want anyone to do that to myself. As a couple I found we pushed our boundaries by getting seperate profiles as we both have different needs and wants. Yet in saying that if boundaries were coming close to being crossed that would be when all would cease. Yet in life I find I need to push my boundaries as I can occasionally be a shy person and need to push myself to strive forward.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I didn't think I'd enjoy pushing someone's boundaries, until I did. That was my surprise boundary buster! Boundary being a perceived constraint (eg, I'm sure I wouldn't like to be watched) rather than an actual dislike (I hated being watched). My own boundaries... ...I'm looking for someone to introduce me to them.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' that I recently pushed a huge boundary for me.I still can't quite believe I did it and am still doing it,but in the doing I discovered so much pleasure. Good for you Freya
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RHP User
12 years ago
What I would push - public and group play What I will never budge on - wee and poo
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I suppose you are right.. They obviously don't trust themselves to really let go I think as well. Boy am I going to have fun bringing that concept up to her next time we meet. Hehe Remember that great heels and PVC are a bitch to run in ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is one ill never cross. All others are open. When someone confides in me their more darker thoughts I'm open to sharing them. Trust me there are a lot of people out there that have these thoughts but never verbolise them.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the same for me.
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inspirit
12 years ago
are there to be pushed. I love it, though I am an hedonist. The sheer pleasure of overcoming boundaries and the erotic pleasures you receive are second to none. It's not for every one though it is for me. Meeka..... being tied up is awesome and relinquishing control... It is all about trust and having the right partner who totally understands the erotic side of it as you do! I have found the only kind of man who understands this has to be dominant where by they seek pleasure in pleasing a woman. It is not about them it is about you and they fully understand this as this is their pleasure........Accept it you will be amazed at the gift they give.......Selflessness
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cremecaramel
12 years ago
There's only one we definitely won't cross: no- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
They come from two sources, what we are told is right and wrong (as in our laws) and what we choose to believe is right and wrong. These are both influenced by who, when and where you are. Many of the things many of us do, in the privacy of our bedrooms, would have had us hung a couple of centuries ago. Even today, we would be flogged or shot in some countries for our harmless indulgences. Basically, if there is no law against it, the choice is yours to make. In some instances, even our laws are ignored. How many here smoke pot and campaign to have it legalised? How many here have infringed on the laws against public nudity (or should I say, how many haven't...)? How many park in a loading zone? How many come to a comlpete, three second stop at a stop sign? How many ignore the speed limit on a deserted country road? Is there anyone among us who has never done something that they thought they would never do? Boundaries are meant to be pushed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
we dont do anything that makes either of us uncomfortable, or takes us places we've been before, and wish to avoid.....so theres a list of 'do's' and 'donts'....we dont do drugs, pain, filth, other peoples partners, or anything that humiliates, demeans or threatens anyone, as we see anything thats less than 'fun' as undesirable. we like to laugh, and to smile....and that means open, happy consensual play, with people who are more like us than otherwise....simliar builds, similar attitudes, preferences and desires.... like attracts like in our eyes..
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