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  DynamicCouple36

  6 years ago

  is that you be completely honest with what’s on your profile, and not change it for the sake of increasing your chances on here. For example, you are a smoker. That may put many off your profile. Changing it to non smoker(when in fact you are a smoker ) would be unacceptable . The same applies to “safe sex” - so many make those changes. Really not acceptable in our opinion . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  sweetnsensual

  6 years ago

  Put a smiling pic up that would help Yes being a smoker means we wouldn’t message you but that’s who you are

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  GenXXXLad

  6 years ago

  So here's an interesting conundrum for you @Sweetnsensual - would you classify someone who vapes as a smoker or not ? I was a smoker for 20+ years, then about 3 years ago got into vaping. Doing both for about the first 18 months, but for the LAST 18 months I have vaped exclusively and literally cannot stand to suck on a cigarette anymore even when (rarely) run out of vape juice / battery and am craving nicotine till I get home. I put myself as a 'non smoker' on my profile as that's what I consider myself to be now. I don't smell like cigarettes nor do my clothes, I won't vape in front of you if you don't smoke / vape, and what I put in my body on my time (booze, bacon, and nicotine e-juice) is my business. Would YOU classify me as a 'smoker' or non? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Bazingal

  6 years ago

  but I don't understand this topic constantly being raised. You are who you are and create your profile according. Why ask strangers to influence how you portray yourself to others?

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  DynamicCouple36

  6 years ago

  Well done for quitting smoking . We think it’s a disgusting and selfish habit. :) Keep it up . You will reap the health rewards for years to come . See it as an investment in your health. :) Is vaping smoking? We have not come into contact with anyone who vapes and so can’t really comment . Although there was a forum post on vaping , that attracted many nasty comments from the usual bunch of trolls. Indeed. What you put in your body is your business. With that we agree . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  GenXXXLad

  6 years ago

  @Bazingal - with all due respect, I think you have *no* idea what it's like being a guy on a site like this, and very few (if any) women do. Just like men can't really imagine women's 'lived experience' in various other life areas, same goes for women and 'solo' guys experience here. You are the 'sellers' in the 'dating market', and have been for a long, long time. You may have an *inkling* but you can't *really* fathom what it's like for us guys. While some of us are secure and comfortable enough in ourselves not to need any feedback on our profiles, many won't be. Those are the ones who look for feedback, hoping for some guidance, not realising there's very little they can do to account for personal taste or to improve the generally dire situation they face as a 'solo' male here or anywhere else. All you can do is be yourself, but it takes many men a long time to realise that... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  blondes6365

  6 years ago

  Just be who your are

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  mango69er

  6 years ago

  Bit rich dynamic duo. Telling people to be completly honest on there profiles. When you have said you lie about your names and location. Understand why. But still - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  6 years ago

  Do you honestly expect anyone, to post their real names, phone numbers and addresses in here? Seriously ??? There are many weirdos and psychos on here. We have personally been stalked as have others that we know. We have also read many posts of others being stalked. Of guys on here arriving at peoples place of work. Of guys getting hold of the females mobile number and trying to them get her to meet with them, without her husbands knowledge. We also have very VERY unusual names / surnames, not to mention young children. It would therefore be naive and very foolish to give out our personal details on a site like this. But just to clarify . Our profiles are certainly accurate when it comes to our habits, physical appearance, preferences and other fields. And we have been verified by admin. Not giving our our real names, phone numbers, residential address, to unknown entities in here, does not make us fakes nor liars. It makes us cautious. Those that we have met via RHP, and got to know very well (and have become good friends with) know our real names and other contact details. But then we trust them and have dined many times at their places of residence. In fact spending next weekend with a couple we met through here 4 years ago. PS. We were offering advise, not “telling”. There is a difference you know. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  OkeyDoke45

  6 years ago

  Although there was a forum post on vaping , that attracted many nasty comments from the usual bunch of trolls. Indeed. What you put in your body is your business. With that we agree . - Posted from rhpmobile Well, the trolls may not pop out if you stopped making judgmental comments. You have made your opinions plain about smokers/vapers - you refuse to associate, and that is fine. But then, that being the case smokers and vapers are not a problem for you, they don't impact on you one jot - yet you make judgmental comments about them.

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  OkeyDoke45

  6 years ago

  Quoting 'mango69er' Bit rich dynamic duo. Telling people to be completly honest on there profiles. When you have said you lie about your names and location. Understand why. But still - Posted from rhpmobile There's a goose and there's a gander. Or, to choose a more obvious metaphor, a pot and a kettle.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I agree with what GenXXX is saying.And every "average" new male member here will make this realisation, too. And by "average", I'm talking about appearance, of course. But, it's how we deal with it and move on, that defines us.It almost sounds like some spirit-building trial by fire to be a single man here..

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  sweetnsensual

  6 years ago

  Genxxx doesn’t matter what I class you as does it? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Hey guys, Thanks for the advice. Will action that today. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  NightToRemember

  6 years ago

  Being a tick box on someone else’s fuckit list doesn’t do it for us. We’d rather what works in the moment. As has already been said there is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’. Be true to yourself. - Posted from rhpmobile

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