Lists..... Short hot and friends

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I dont really use the lists in any functionary way.I have a brief friends list from people I know from here and elsewhere, it won't tell you much.If you are on my hotlist then you ARE hot,I am reactionary, I live in the moment.Im on three hotlists from people I have never contacted and who have ignored mine, wtf ?Big lists of people from all over the country says to me socialites, short local lists say serious about being here. Broadly speaking of course.

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  Mr_Invisible

  12 years ago

  I'm sure I am on more block lists than any otherPeople seem to block without a word so I never know whyGuess making a pleasant intoduction (that usually goes unanswered) doesn't work around hereAs for hot and friends... Friends are for people I've met and retain friendships with... only met 1 lady from here and we have lost touch so that list is emptyHot list is for people I like to see what they are up too... even if we have not metAlot of friends to me means popular... and probably not keen to increase their circle (the ones I have tried to contact anyway)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  i use hot lists for the men i think are hot (but havnt talked to, as i must of used it when i first joined rhp and didnt understand half of what i know now)now i only have 1 HOT person, but hes not available atm. so sad, too bad. i figure he can stay there until hes single again. haha.friends, are for who i have met. or a girl i dont know, but i sent her here from oasis. SHORT?? no idea.i just read my messages to know who im talking to and want to meet.i am on 5 hot lists, and 2 short lists. WTF, how do you know what people are doing from the hot list?

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  twowithnolimits

  12 years ago

  Hotlist... those who we would meet given the chance...Shortlist .... those we think we would work REALLY well with and pursue with more vigourFriends are generally those we have metIt can be used in many ways e.g. So when we are in the mood say it is easy to see who is online at the same time...Or when we are interestate the short list lets us quickly find th elocals we wanted to meet when we happened to be in town..What would be helpful is longer retention of messages too..

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