Little white lies

January 20 2020

Hey y'all, would really appreciate the perspective of some experienced RHPers on this please. I'm new to the site and starting to connect with some really great people... but I'm noticing inconsistencies between their profiles and info revealed during chats. Little things like ages not being as advertised (but not wildly out of line with real life), star signs not corresponding to birthdates... etc. What do we think? Problematic?? Or par for the course? Thanks everyone, in anticipation! x

Comments

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    5 years ago

    Welcome to RHP - the fun side! Height, weight, age of photos, photos not of themselves, both people of a couple being into it. The little white lies are endless unfortunately. We host social meet and greet events in Melbourne to get people meeting face to face. We hope to see you around sometime xx

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    5 years ago

    Always trust that nagging little voice in your head that is telling you something doesn't add up..... and that holds true in this asylum, or in the world beyond My personal view is that if someone is driven to lie just to convince you to speak to, and then meet them.... then their self worth is pretty poor and they're unlikely to give you much consideration beyond being a goal for their own interests I could be wrong, but I'm not fussed if I am because my time and safety aren't worth wasting on people trying to deceive me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I think people are just protective of there privacy. The old guest user seeing someone they know and then the rumours start that they are a swinger. It is still stigmatised and last thing you might want is the brother in law hitting on you.

  • Libertine001

    Libertine001

    5 years ago

    Welcome to Rhp...😊 It's like buying a used car and there are a lot of used car salesmen on here... They are only going to sell it as good as they can. If you sniff out a lie there would most likely be more. Have fun with it as you're just window shopping after all. All the best... Lib

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    It might be that people are slightly altering ages, birthdates, star signs, suburb etc so as to protect their identity?

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    Follow your gut. If you are finding things change (age etc), that is red flags. Remembering tho everyone lies (as per sliding scale) at some stage or other and it is more common than you think. Those who say they never lie, is a lie its self. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Some little white lies to prevent being recognised perhaps. But then u have the big fibbers. Listed single but married Photos and age a decade out. All together fake profiles and when things dont quite add up. You start to ask questions and funny how they stop responding. Those are just getting off quietly while the Mrs asleep. Or as many men will say scammers or online hookers. I wish there were better ways of truely being verified other than a face pick. I wish paid membership included compulsory verification at least.

  • gaiagirlmelb

    gaiagirlmelb

    5 years ago

    Thanks so much everyone! Lots to think about here, really appreciate your advice x

  • gaiagirlmelb

    gaiagirlmelb

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'campingcouple' It is still stigmatised and last thing you might want is the brother in law hitting on you. Oh god...!

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    What kissesandcream said! We adjust ours to the first of the month to avoid putting all of our identifying info online. To be quite honest we do the same thing for almost everything online, it's just good common sense internet safety. It can become a sad existence if you're assuming everyone is out there trying to screw you and not in a sexy RHP type of way! Your bs meter will fine tune itself, but don't spend all of your time jumping at shadows either. We're still us... give or take a fortnight šŸ˜‰

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I would think it’s more of a privacy thing, stop the stalkers etc, easy to cross ref w Facebook etc We are all .ā€upselling ā€œ to some degree.......you know ...one owner..hardly driven etc etc ā€œTrust your GUTā€ be safe and best of luck....

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    It disturbs me that some have such long lists of expectation on other people ? So l thought I'd write mine : Be happy , smile , take the time to say hello, and if its looking good we could link up for a coffee... No expectations... Btw.. nice pic gaiagirl

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    5 years ago

    Hi Gaiagirl. Over analysing these subject, without knowing the particular parameters/references. Could be a possibility of people see these as a opportunity to live (at these immense virtual reality) something that would like to be, and possibly don't have enough courage/opportunity. Does not mettar if is a little white lie or not, one day will come up and someone face the consequences. I do believe that if you would like to know just ask, is always someone out there willing to be the one. By the way, absolutely love your pictures. Very good taste.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    5 years ago

    Wonder if they grow into velvet ?'A touch of a velvet glove, silk and satin, leather and lace, black panties with an angels face' Abracadabra. Aren't supermodels attractive with healthy figures that wear cloths, lingerie and in photographs the camera catches essences that waft into the air as sex appeal, arousing...Mother natures goddesses, ancestral mothers of all life, the image of a supermodel ? Like you and in essence, wafting into the air.. the camera caught in your photograph Gaiagirl. White lies MadoMado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Hi there, I am fortunate (or unfortunate) in that I have a fairly strong Irish accent; which seems to appeal to women; now this makes me curious, what is it about an accent, that has such appeal?

  • 4Evercurious

    4Evercurious

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'IrishKnave20' Hi there, I am fortunate (or unfortunate) in that I have a fairly strong Irish accent; which seems to appeal to women; now this makes me curious, what is it about an accent, that has such appeal? I think it is not just the accent, but when someone is different from you things will often be considered to be a little more exotic. It is also that it is more noticeable when someone has an accent. Having said that, yes we too like an Irish Accent. Some accent can grate though and have a turn off effect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    It’s our ancient inclination to bring in some fresh dna to the gene pool ?