M52
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September 19 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
First time usually goes like this. 1st meet is always a social meet in a public place. Usually a cafe or restaurant. 2nd meet, I usually book a hotel. I let the gentleman know the details. Subsequent meets we usually alternate between who books and pays, but it's always a hotel. I have on occasion varied from this if I'm meeting a gentleman from interstate, but only in unusual circumstances and I always make sure I've got my safety covered. I've rarely ever visited a mans home and an invitation to my house is is even rarer. I always have someone who knows where I am and what I'm doing. I've had sex in a few public places with playmates, but usually after we've met a few times - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I meet my young playmates out in Restaurant and we do Bar hopping all nite and next it would be my place, my place and my place ..come to think of it never been their place then again my place is safer as always coz i know whats in there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me it is always about making them feel safe , public place to start and then they can choose , but usually much like Kalifornia69, it's their place they fell safe and secure there , unless they are cool to come to mine . Either way it is all about safety these days , and of course respect.
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RHP User
11 years ago
the car park on a sunday afternoon out side Kmart. works for me but the trolly guy has hurt his neck now from looking in the back seat of cars.prefer , mens toilets in dark parks at night, with no body around to hear them scream.to be honestI am a five start hotel girl.. but I book and pay myself so that way if I do not want to have sex then I don't feel obligated to have sex and I get a great night in a nice hotel.I had a pilot lover who stayed at the hyatt once a fortnight, was great till his flights changed to the eastern states. I would love one of those again. Very handy to just enjoy his company then have the hotel to myself when he flew out. I could book as much room service as i liked, he never worried.However on that note, I have a very generous guy who comes over from Sydney. He always books and pays for a seperate room for me and then comes to my room to play. He then goes back to his, often a different hotel That way I get to sleep in and he gets to fly out early from his own hotel.I would prefer a guy pay, sorry to be sexist but hey I like to be spoilt now and again.Lady T mattress tester for five star hotels
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inspirit
11 years ago
If I am chatting too someone for a while which is usual,, you know about a week though in some cases fucking frustrating months...anyway I meet at theirs or mine as 9/10 I am going to fuck them. (Usually thiers so I can make that AM exit just in case) Yeah, I have lost a few clothes.
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inspirit
11 years ago
I think you might even do Sundays at Bunnings so you get the double sausage and dripping sauce
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' I have a very generous guy who comes over from Sydney. He always books and pays for a seperate room for me and then comes to my room to play. He then goes back to his, often a different hotel That way I get to sleep in and he gets to fly out early from his own hotel. Sharing is caring, Tuscan.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
But first date coffee or lunch. Second date my place as I have a wine cellar and a spa.
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madotara69
11 years ago
How many times out of the 9/10 did you not fuck them????? Mado
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inspirit
11 years ago
I have met a few
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inspirit
11 years ago
I have lost several sets of underwear and once a dildo
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RHP User
11 years ago
First meet is for coffee so it doesn't matter where. If I sheeting for sex my place is out as I have kids in residence. I actually like a motel. It takes me back to my much younger days as a sex worker. Just a little bit more naughty.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Shoulda read MEETING not SHEETING although the sheets are always a bonus.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I think you might even do Sundays at Bunnings so you get the double sausage and dripping sauce and throw in a can of sprite, so they can use that can to hold up against cock for their dick pictures.best to stay clear of power tools though,I do love Bunnings, all those men doing DYI projects.I had one guy ask me to go to Bunnings here, to walk along an certain aisle at a certain timehe was shopping with his wife the cheeky bugga, I never knew what he looked like and we never meet, but he sent a message to tell me what I was wearing and he said NICE lolsome people must get turned on my long skirts and top that hides every thingDam now i am hungry for sausages and onions
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer to meet at a coffee shop or a wine bar first up. . That way we get to check each other out and see if the feel is good enough to want to go any further. The last girl I met was for a coffee, and we then we pre planned to meet at a 5 star hotel 3 days later... I dont expect a female to pay for the room... But she made up for it by paying for dinner
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RHP User
11 years ago
A bit of cost sharing is very much appreciated... We both enjoy the proceeds... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I invite them to my house.......and half the fun is letting them guess where I'm parked in a cluedo style treasure hunt. :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
a bit of cost sharing is fine.....but one fella i met didn't even buy me a drink or offer....yes i bought him one......it made me think he was stingy.....could be stingy elsewhere too!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We've met a couple at a Stripclub for dinner that way when it didn't work out for us we still got randy watching the girls and the night wasn't a waste for all of us , ended up being a great night even though we didn't all get in the sheets :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your'e right.. it is the right thing to do. I just find it hard to break a habit I was bought up with.. Guess I just have to re- learn the way of the day...And yes ? I am worth it.... lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ya recon jay :P I'm a generous sod as a rule, but since divorce income is in a bit of a depression, whilst general expenses are experiencing a boom period... I'm prepared to buy a drink or two, even a meal but if there's a room to book as well it starts becoming an expensive exercise... Ideally the whole package should be a 50/50, possibly with performance based incentives lol. I haven't met too many who have offered to contribute to the cost of a room, but most of my dates have either split dinner/drinks or at least bought a round. Hp xo 💌 A 4 hr forum post ! Because you must be worth it...- Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
11 years ago
i thank you God for being single and having the bestest time
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yvonne, I hear you babe. You are welcome at my table anytime... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
thank you....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meetup locations? Easy... cafe's, quiet bars, restaurants... pretty much anywhere they feel comfortable.Rules? None really... the White Knight Syndrome can cause issues if the lady insists on going 50/50 but it's not so bad anymore.Play locations? Bit of a snob here, prefer a nice hotel with a view, a spa and strawberry's and champers on arrival so if there are any intermissions there is something relaxing to do whilst recharging. Oh, and late checkout is a must just in case she is feisty in the morning. (Hotel has the advantage of not needing any cleanup the next day...)Ultimately wherever we both feel comfortable is quite alright.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always prefer to meet at hers or mine, I've seen her pics I already know what I want. If she wants to meet briefly in public first that's fine, even if its somewhere stupid like a servo just to make sure we're both normal, then 10 minutes later back to theirs. If she wants to go on a "date" I get confused, this is a SEX site you know?!- Posted from rhpmobile
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