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Long Term Swinging Friends

July 07 2017

Mr and I have been swinging together for over 5 years now and in that time we have met some great couples and single girls but most have been one off meets/play because of where we live. 2.5 years ago we hosted a private swingers party at our house but because of where we live everyone either pulled out before the party or just didn't show up on the night, except 1 couple. Usually that would be a bit of a disaster but for us it was the start of an amazing friendship! The one couple that did show up to our party was fun, bubbly, down to earth and very sexy and we had a ball playing and partying the night away with them until sunrise. Since then we have caught up with this same couple numerous times over the last 2.5 years and have spent new years night/day with them the last 2 years in a row and generally catch up with them at least every 1-2 months (as we live a 2.5 hour drive away from them). We now count this couple as best friends and we hang out as friends and as play friends. It's even gotten to the stage where we are both happy to play alone with each member of this couple, which is not something we do with any other couple or single. So my question is this. Have you met a swinging couple who you are now long term friend with, how long have your known them, and have they become best friends that you would invite to your non swinging events with your non swinging friends and family? Also if you are a couple who only plays together, do you now or would you ever play separately with that particular couple or would the same rules apply to everyone (not play separately) you play with regardless of your close friendship? Taby xx

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

2 couples, via this site, that we see often and socialise with: dinner, weekends away etc. They are now our closest friends. We have known them for 4 years now. Would we ever play separately with either of them ? No - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Noteably the other Hotwife and her hubby ... we have opened all aspects of our lives to them ... they support us, they support our children in their endeavours and where possible, have met most of our families :) there wouldn't be a family function or any other function that I wouldn't invite them to. I trust them so implicitly :) They know us intimately ... I thank the universe for bringing these amazing people into our lives ... she is my best friend and I love her and her hubby dearly ❤️❤️ I'm fortunate to have 2-3 other couples that we are opening up to include them in our lives a lot more, sexy, down to earth friends ... I'm including my boyfriend in that ... he has met one of my children already, I can now openly talk about him to my daughter ... and that honesty feels awesome :) Mary xx

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RHP User

7 years ago

The fact that some drove two and a half hours and made the effort speaks volumes, those people are rare in life and I can count friends in life like that on one hand.One of my closest friends is actually the ex boyfriend of my ex girlfriend (he dated her after me) we met through my ex and are still super good friends.When he and my ex broke up I was the one there for him when he was going crazy.He's over it now and the three of us are still close. So far since moving to Australia he's still the only person to come over from England to visit me. I even had a threesome with one of his new partners.I'm going back to England for a visit in a couple of weeks and can't wait to see him

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ran2013

7 years ago

While i think we expected more one off encounters we have actually become good friends with a number of our chilli friends. The sex gets better and better the more you know someone so it makes sense that once you have made a good connection things just get better. Our kids absolutely love all our swinging friends. They just don't know what we all get up to😄. We camp with some, stay with others when road tripping. It's great. Mr has played solo with one group and Mrs was completely comfortable as she new everything would be all good. That trust is a very important thing and can only be gained by having an actual friendship. Let's face it, you can never have too many friends. 😉

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RHP User

7 years ago

Great when we can be open with our kids, huge step in having them appreciate us as people, the whole person, rather than just a parent. That brings a new level of respect. The maturity mine have shown has made us closer and my respect for them, although always there, has strengthened more, and the same in reverse. No secrets here, mine know all about me 😀 I also firmly believe it gives them another dimension of openness/acceptance of people in general. Mine don't judge people, their friends come from all walks of life. I've always treated my kids like people, not like kids, they are my equals, actually I use them as role models 👍

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Forus1234

7 years ago

We met here on this site over 4 1/2 years ago, still going strong. We've attended family event & met family their members.

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MsJonesy

7 years ago

There are 2 couples in particular who are more than lovers, I would certainly describe them as close friends. One in particular, where the female is my closest friend these days, the one I always share news with first. We have been in each others lives for 2.5 years, have been on holidays together, swung together, drunk as skunks together, shared tears... and laughter. I know all their family and attend their family functions when I can. They haven't met my family...but thats more because they are scattered far and wide and I barely see them! We see each other separately, we see each other together, it depends on what is going on and how we all feel. My home has been a sanctuary for them during some pretty traumatic periods in their lives and they know they can arrive on my doorstep at any time. Their support is there for me just as much, certainly not a one way street. These days its not just about sex; its about being together, being an important part of each other's lives. I wouldn't trade that for anything. 😍

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RHP User

7 years ago

We've met some awesome people but haven't made any longer term friends and that is something we would like. So if you think you fit the jib.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I will have known a couple for nearly two years now. I consider them very close friends also, who have my best interests at heart. I have only seen them (and vice versa) for over 6 months now (but not for lack of trying). They have even tried to get a woman's phone number for me! :)

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RHP User

7 years ago

A very sincere apology is offered (and hugs and kisses for my oversight) ... you my beautiful friend I adore. :) xxoo I should have said in my first post, we have a small handful of single, gorgeous people we have invited into our lives and vice versa. Collectively, this group of couples/singles is our little tribe ... They are without a doubt gorgeous people. We are often lucky enough to meet some of our tribe's friends too (not always for playing) and so we extend our network .... Mary xx

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WHY_NOT_LOOK

7 years ago

I've been involved with RHP for over 14 years now as a couple and a single, I've made so many friends that I've played with partied with cried with. I had just left a long term marriage and the people I met thru here and couples international are still very good friends met their family as they did mine they will always be in my life great fun non judgmental and one girlfriend that has turned up at my very worst to snap me back into place you all know who you are luv ya guts 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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Paradisepair

7 years ago

We have a couple of couples with whom we've delved deeper into their real lives and them into ours... we're a bit like Taby where distance hinders us, as well as our infrequency around coming out to play.

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JohnAnn2227

7 years ago

Hi, We have been members of a small group that regularly play together. There are 6 couples including us, and we met separately at a swing club and then met other couples through these friends etc. We have now been together as a group for over 8 years. Our friendship has grown to more than just sex and they are like family to us. They are always invited to non swinger get togethers at our house and have made friends with a few of our vanilla friends (keeping our play secret!). Even our parents know them and really enjoy chatting with them at bbqs etc. We do play separately with them and they are the only playmates that we do not use condoms with (all of the guys have had vasectomies and we all have safe sex with partners outside of our group). Our kids all get on great with a couple of the kids playing in the same soccer team and going to the same athletics club.We often holiday together and babysit for each other. We have a deep, caring friendship that we value. When I was pregnant with our second child we still played as a group until I was 6 months pregnant when I then started getting too uncomfortable. i never would have done this at a swing club or a new couple but the love and gentleness I felt from our friends made our experiences so special.We are truly blessed!Ann & John

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highwaychile

7 years ago

This has only happened once with us. We're great friends with the last couple that we played with and have since had more social encounters with this pair than actual bedroom shenanigans... actually come to think of it, we might be getting friendzoned!

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Dex1473

7 years ago

We have been playing for the past 8 years and have made a few long term play friends. We have attended 2 weddings and several non play parties with them and our friends and family. It is great to find great couples like this as it makes the play so much fun rather than just a one off meet.

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