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Long messages...r they copy+paste?
March 14 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
that I have received have been erotic short stories.I have assumed that the person who sent them wrote them but it doesn't really matter to me if they did or not. Most women here complain of the opposite problem OP.Too many of the short and not so sweet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Could be brought on by boredom and being lonely
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RHP User
12 years ago
Stories varying from me turning up to hotel room blindfolded, to having dinner and being fingered underneath the table. It's funny when the writer forgets and sends you the same story a month later. And then again... I must say, most ones I have received would not have been accepted by any self-respecting porn site or magazine. But kudos for putting in the effort.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeh some I don't mind reading but some r jus really long n drags on lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
To find out if it is someone else's work, you could google a sentence and see if it comes up with anything. Peachy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't mind getting one of those long stories if it is actually sexy and a turn on. Unfortunately most of them are not, and the only thing I get out of them is a good laugh. I suppose this is at least partly related to the general differences in what men and women consider to be erotic when it comes to the written word. Men are usually a lot more literal and straightforward, just wanting the blow-by-blow gory details, and so that's how they write it as well. Women, however, usually need a bit more description and embellishment along with the gory details .Please note that the above are generalisations, and I know there are men who can write fabulous, panty-wetting stories. I've seen quite a few examples in these forums...
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I get a profile compliment, I'll always send a simple Thank-you, as I'm allowed 20 messages per day.One guy thought that was his opportunity to reply & tell me everything about himself, it was an essay!! LOLI replied by saying, "I was simply saying thank-you, not asking for an essay about yourself"
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RHP User
12 years ago
hahah yes I received one of those scenario stories tonight....lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not to stir the pot or start a shit storm of abuse but what would ladies on this site like/expect as a first contact? I understand that the C rated porno scripts are a little less than interesting and tasteful and personally even I think they are quite lame. But it seems that ladies being spoiled for choice on here, chose not to respond to even the friendly emails generated and find it hard to get past the second line. This is purely my view and experience, but it would really help both sexes in the long run if there were some basic requirements set out. Happy RHP'ing everyone!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'WAguy6f2' Not to stir the pot or start a shit storm of abuse but what would ladies on this site like/expect as a first contact? I understand that the C rated porno scripts are a little less than interesting and tasteful and personally even I think they are quite lame. But it seems that ladies being spoiled for choice on here, chose not to respond to even the friendly emails generated and find it hard to get past the second line. This is purely my view and experience, but it would really help both sexes in the long run if there were some basic requirements set out. Happy RHP'ing everyone! but I will always respond to a message, even if it's just to say "thanks but no thanks" (not in those actual words). People not replying to messages and the reasons for that are often discussed in here, but when it comes down to it there are many reasons why someone may not reply and in some cases it wouldn't matter what you say in your initial message. On a more constructive note, these are things that will make an initial contact stand out for me:* Some indication that they have actually read my profile and not just looked at the pics.* At least an attempt at some proper sentences. I don't need perfect spelling and grammar but a few words of text speak isn't really going to cut it.* More than just, "hi how are you", or something equally as pointless. Yeah they may not be sure what to write but a message like that says nothing about the person or why they're contacting you, it doesn't even inspire me to look at their profile. * Yes more than a few words, but having said that I don't need an essay telling me their life story. Just give enough detail to peak the person's interest, there's no point telling them everything about yourself when you don't even know if they are interested yet. * As discussed in this forum, no attempt at making me the star of their attempts at erotic fiction. If we do find a mutual connection and they are actually good at writing erotica then that can come later .* Related to the above point, just generally leave the dirty talk for later down the track. For me anyway, it's a turn off in a first message when it seems like they're just assuming that you're going to jump into bed with them. A bit of cheekiness / flirtation is fine, just keep it low key for now.* Confidence is good, arrogance is not. A friendly, approachable attitude always goes down well, and increases your chances of going down later.... (hmm yes that was terrible I know).Hope that helps a bit!!
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casanovastudd
12 years ago
...sorry what was the question? :p
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
I mean C'monnnnnnnnSending an unsolicited porn story template to a complete stranger as a first message..... especially in HERE.... where it seems such a popular yet failing approach..... really is a weird thing to do.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' that I have received have been erotic short stories.I have assumed that the person who sent them wrote them but it doesn't really matter to me if they did or not. Most women here complain of the opposite problem OP.Too many of the short and not so sweet.Too funny, a bit of effort (whether original or c+p) a problem? We are all so different! Any type of originality (generally something past a line or 2) is all that is likely to capture my interest at this stage of jadedness...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Copy paste porn stories sound pretty lame. I guess it must work by the law of averages though. I don't see the point in "I wanna bend you ova and plunge my massive cawk into your swollen pussy.." messages ahem, or words to that effect. Plenty of time for that face to face (or any other body part!). I'm very guilty or stretching out well beyond a single line in my 1st and following messages.. not anything graphic, just want to be clear on where I'm coming from. I probably over do it and write too much, but I like to communicate, share and learn. I like intelligent and thoughtful people. If someone can't be bothered to write more than a line in response, they are not who I'm looking for anyway. ; ) Each to their own. Just go find someone with little imagination or courtesy. There is no shortage.. FFB xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I write my A-grade material, I do it in MS Word first. This lets me proof read and tweak things as required. Then copy and paste to wherever it needs to go.
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