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Longest dry spell
June 27 2018
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curious_72
6 years ago
I was interested in the quiz they had asking how long it had been, long spell's aren't that uncommon. I lived with my ex as a flatmate for 6 years, and never touched anyone in that time. When I tell people they are usually spun out by the fact that we lived together like that for so long and the fact I didn't touch anyone, or even want to :)
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
Do I feel shame for it?? To an extent yes as it’s a red and/or yellow flag for some people, but for me it’s more frustration as it’s cause it’s quite complicated.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tongue
6 years ago
8... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Max 2 weeks and only a handful of times- when I had my children, and also if I wasn’t getting along with my partner. I’ve been with the same partner for 22 years so not a bad effort I think. I don’t think I could go longer than that to be honest - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
It wasn't something I was ashamed of then and I'm not now. It's how I survived a dire situation. Was going to continue into permanent celibacy. Didn't. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
A few weeks. However, now that work is demanding most of my time, I sense that it will be longer between experiences,...... But Im thankful that I have had some great meets with sexy guys and can go without for a while. Best of luck to those who are having a long dry spell xx
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
After my daughter was born, I wasn't diagnosed with PND until she was 4 by then it was well and truly too late for her father and my relationship. Nothing to be ashamed of whatever the reason may be.
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OkeyDoke45
6 years ago
My longest was 7 years. Poor old Mr Winky, he copped a right flogging in that time - to the extent that a distinct bend had started to appear. True story. I am currently running close to a year, but am soon to go on holidays where a certain dating app pays dividends rather promptly.
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GezWouldGo
6 years ago
😖😖😖
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RHP User
6 years ago
.... at 12 years for longest, celibacy I find easy. Been a year or two lately
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RHP User
6 years ago
1 year 1 month and 5 days wow im lame - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dryphuz
6 years ago
Quoting 'wantthis' Max 2 weeks and only a handful of times- when I had my children, and also if I wasn’t getting along with my partner. I’ve been with the same partner for 22 years so not a bad effort I think. I don’t think I could go longer than that to be honest - Posted from rhpmobile I love hearing this from couples. Sitcoms and films have made me associate marriage and long term relationships with an end of sex. Nice to be reminded thats bullshit. Like seeing your mates vasectomy limp cos his missus is sixk of it being her responsibility and you were imagining them to have an essentially celibate partnership. 12 years hey. I was not expecting to be beat at 10. But i'm on a streak at the moment so i might eventually top it. I'll let ya'll know in 2024!
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RHP User
6 years ago
13 if counting from age 18. In recent years nothing longer than about two months or so. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Nearly nine years. It's pretty rare I find myself in relationships - most of that time was by choice. I've never been the kind to go out and pick up women either, and never really had friends into the whole FWB thing, so it left me with fairly narrow options. Kinda one reason I'm here, it seems at least for the time being casual arrangements are my thing. I don't know if I'd call it a source of *shame* per se. I probably used to be a bit insecure about it, but really someone who holds that against me isn't going to be a good match anyway, so eh.
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RHP User
6 years ago
let me know if u ever need a young fit dude ;)
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
Pretty sure the OP is straight but I'll be happy to come watch 😜
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PurePeony
6 years ago
... I notched up 9 years +. When I was 1-2 months short of hitting 10 years, I thought WTF, I'm going to break the spell and help myself to some hot cock. I landed myself an ex FWB who became an ex bf and his stature didn't indicate that he would be hiding a Captain Caveman's truncheon under his pants but oh my gosh... Glad to be deflowered again after almost 10 years by him! Fast forward to the present time, good sex is so crucial to holistic health (and yeah, I love sex too much) that I would not allow myself to hit the 24 mth mark. Before hitting 24 mths, I'll call for Emergency Firemen Hosedown services! Plenty of volunteers shortlisted for the task.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Going on six years😔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
8yrs... Too long. And still starving for wet t wetty
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RHP User
6 years ago
When i was married, around 4 years in the end. Then separated and slowly started to get back into it. Now I have a few lovers or FWB, but even then I get busy with kids/work, but aim to leave it no longer than 2 weeks. More would be better. A few times a week would be great again.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have been separated for around 2 years now, and prior to the separation we weren't intimate for about a year so probably 3 years all up now. Not that I'm counting... It's just life I guess, busy with work and trying to meet new people!
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annaxv250
6 years ago
Around ten years since I last had sex
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm in a bit of a dry spell at age 37.At age 20-22 I had 12 women (not bad for a fit body / average/good looking, shy guy?)Age 27-36 I had minimum of 90 women, total 100+ women.But lately, after discovering escorts I'm like why bother?.. why not just pay for it?These days so many women seem to be wanting sugar daddies and secretly trying to be part-time escorts, so I'm like why bother trying to get it for free? When I can just pay for it AND get with women out of my league. I remember having a fit-slim body on me when I was 28-30. sure it helped for sure, but at the end of the day, time vs reward of dating, its FAR beneficial to just get with a hot "call girl". No matter how "sad" anyone says it is from my experience its f'in awesome. At least if you're an average looking man, or even a ugly looking guy then you're in there - right in the deepw ith some extreme hotty. Zero shame what so ever.
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