M32
Lookin at new horizons
September 12 2013
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
For me, ensuring that I offer my lover a thoroughly pleasurable experience..... and one she will always recall fondly and be eager to ask for more.... unique, even, in a crowd of ordinary lovers... ..... that's what keeps it interesting and always unique for me. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
*never stop learning.... look to unorthodox sources for knowledge- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you can get into that and I like you, anything is possible. ;) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only way to find out what KINK is for you or not, is to try different things that appeals to YOU and what really turns you on. You gotta try them out, that's the only way.So you already know 1:1 sex is starting to bore you, so why not try the Swinger Clubs or go to the events page and check out what is around in your local area???Remember "What is one KINK to one person, may not be the same and the next person"Good LuckFOXY
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madotara69
11 years ago
Here's a thing, If you can manage to have your partner feeling so comfortable to teach you what touches her buttons, then sex will never, ever be boring. Finding what is comforting to her, is up to you.I think a lot seem to believe the bloke is in control.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOLONE on ONE boring? What???? Well you are not doing it right if the nightly chore it has become.So in this terrible time of monot
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOLONE on ONE boring? What???? Well you are not doing it right if the nightly chore it has become.So in this terrible time of monotony try practicing the art of holding back. How close can you come to cumin and not. How long can you hold your self right on the edge. Fix your gaze on her and learn how to make her slow and speed up to your rhythm and best done without words. And for her oh let her do the same with you.Till you hear the words in the after glow "Oh that was the best sex I have ever had." then maybe you are ready to move on.Wax on Wax off young man...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sex is not boring.... If who you are with turns you on. So I assume that you are not with the right people. Maybe you are the type of guy who needs to have a an emotional connection with your lovers? For me if I feel nothing for someone or there is no connection the sex is okay but I could just as well be at home with a coffee and a good book. You know? I do go to orgies and swingers clubs and when my regular lover is there I have a blast. Sometimes when he leaves before me I know that suddenly what was super fun 10 minutes ago has become boring for me without him there. For your sake I hope so because its pretty terrible if you are bored with sex at 21!! Things to spice things up? Hard to say when you haven't said what you are into but you can try spanking, blindfolds, tying each other up, introduce toys into the bedroom, get her to root your bum with some toys, fisting, anal sex, outdoor sex.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Slow down young one and feel the girls and what gets them fuking for more of your touches ;) Sex is never dull if ur heart is for giving true pleasures and from those pleasures u will venture in to new areas of sex and it's play from kink to just out right wrong ? Always remember the golden rule of a good no great lover is to make ur partners pleasures upmost your first thought n never your own...
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On_Safari
11 years ago
It's not always what is said. Take your time you, at the risk of sounding condescending; you have your entire life to discover everything you need to know and then some. Sorry but you're still just a baby......you have soooooo much ahead of you. In answer to the question OP, treat your lovers the way you would want to be treated. Make love to them like you would like to be made love to. Communicate communicate communicate because without it you won't know. Make her/him feel comfortable enough in your presence that they can open up and let go.....connection, tenderness, genuine caring and once you hace a that sorted then comes the "kinky shit" ~insert broad mischievous grin and Please Sir may I have some more?~ And more importantly sex isn't aleays a physical exchange of juices......every action, subtle gesture, act of consideration, thoughtful gesture is a seductive sexual thing.....it's all in your perspective.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sex is not boring.... If who you are with turns you on. So I assume that you are not with the right people. Maybe you are the type of guy who needs to have a an emotional connection with your lovers? For me if I feel nothing for someone or there is no connection the sex is okay but I could just as well be at home with a coffee and a good book. You know?.ah meeka hit the nail on the head and it's not that I find it boring sex is always fun but I want something for more for once I want to be there on my back say that was the best sex I have ever had I always make sure my partner is please I won't be unless I know my partner is getting of and getti pleasure but I guess ultimately I wanna be dominated instead of bein the dominate one I want a woman who knows what she wants and takes it and has a hell of a time getting it it that makes sense also I don't know what I'm into because yes I haven't tried some of these things as you guys would say I'm very vanilla lol this is why I asked people's view on what gets them of and see if it tickles one of my fancies but as always thanks guys for all or views keep them coming - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sit with her naked, get her wet just by looking at her, then have her cum.NO touching.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I believe you have hit a crossroad, as I like to call it and I am sure each and every one of us has done it before. The art is to re-invent yourself and to realign yourself with the reasons we make love in the first place, and that is of course to give pleasure. Sometimes pursuing sexual satisfaction can result in our minds playing strange tricks on us, especially men. In some ways I was achieving everything a man would find erotic about sex, yet I to hit a crossroad why? Yes I was sexual satisfaction that most everyday folk dream about but I left one thing behind, or infact my mind wouldn't allow me to carry it with me on my journey...... And that was the warmth, the love, that close knit bond that makes your heart race and your lips go dry....... So I had to return to basics and reinvent myself...... Good luck with your quest, and I assure you as fun as multiple partners, wicked liaisons and mental erotica driven by an astute mind is....... It isn't the answer you seek
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RHP User
11 years ago
CELIBACY...try being celibate for a month,reflect,learn...re-jig your thinking about sex and as others have said,perhaps it's not about ''kinks'' it's about effort and connection with your lovers....perhaps find a lover that is more experienced than you and who is happy to be a mentor....enjoy the journey,don't get hung upon a fucket list.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Porn sex gets boring quickly.... Maybe that's your problem? Makelovenotporn.com For some sexy ideas.... Will look at it later myself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't be put down by the comments insinuating there might be something wrong with you. Quite honestly, I think anyone who says sex can't get boring if you are doing it a lot and the same way has a limited mindset or is being pretentious. Everything gets boring after awhile and the vast majority of monogamous couples attest to sex being one of them. I got bored with one on one quite awhile ago as far as playing goes. I leave that for my intimate relationship now and play in groups or with couples.I would suggest for a start that you try a few different group configurations rather than go straight for other things. That way, you learn different techniques from others and usually some of them are into other things so you get a gradual introduction. I don't know whether you are in a relationship or not but sometimes the relationship can be affected by the bedroom. The hottest sex I ever had was while exploring Gor but it ruined the relationship over time. (well worth it though for the memories)This is less likely to happen if exploring with groups - you can put it more firmly in your mind as play and nothing else.Best of luck with your exploring - I see good times ahead.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I am awed by your candour....nice post and welcome to the "Pie Face Sandpit". 2 thumbs up
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting '50zkool' Sit with her naked, get her wet just by looking at her, then have her cum.NO touching. That's cool , kool
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RHP User
11 years ago
How can you be bored? There's so much to explore in 1on1 sex. And on top of that, every girl is different. I don't know... 1on1 for me is something that never gets boring, and only better with time.Perhaps you are looking for something more than sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
spell-check is your friend!
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RHP User
11 years ago
hardly
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RHP User
11 years ago
every now and again, that sure surprises them.leaving the footy on so they guy can yell GOAL even if there is none.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Funny thing is ladies for some they sort of get it right at the start, or might be intuitive enough to brilliant at one aspect, then perhaps have a weakness in another. Then there is some of us who learn by our mistakes and even then we have to make the same mistake several times before the penny falls. Yet that is what makes being human exhilarating, the ability to analyse, comprehend, to seek fault in ones self, throw that in with feelings of desire, passion and satisfaction. All of a sudden we have one hell of a living, breathing stew on the boil.... :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hmm confusion sets in, I shall have to admit I have no idea what that means? If you could possibly elaborate it would be extremely helpful... Cheers Rob
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RHP User
11 years ago
if my post was misconstrued Everydaybloke,I simply meant that your comments were hardly run of the mill or ordinary...I loved your post.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zkool' Sit with her naked, get her wet just by looking at her, then have her cum.NO touching. ……..doing it to a man.
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