Looking for a truly Bi girl

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  "40% lesbian on the bisexuality continum (50% lesbian and 50% straight  would be perfect but so long as aroud 40/60 okay"   me thinks the amount of fake profiles are starting to mount up... anyone keeping count? lol

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Was pondering the worth of a false profile with a straight me in drag to try and solicit the many bi chicks. But then thought I would never look as good a Sophie, even with a ton of Photoshop treatment. It would need to be someone else's photo too. But then the shock of meeting... probably end up with a face full of pepper spray.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i might be 60% lesbian...grins....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I'm 100% leso, so that's me out of it aswell   Trev

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I thought I was lesbian for a while, but I found I am bi. Mars

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  mxxxm472

  15 years ago

  Hi bidelight my partner and i agree, it's very hard to find a bi girl for a relationship with another bi girl on their own. We've been looking for ages with no luck. We've played with a few bi couples and have had some fantastic times but i would like to find a bi girl so i can play with her on my own without my boyfriend. We are both bi and recently had an experience with a gay couple (mm).The 3 guys were really nice and made sure they didn't leave me out of the fun and a great time was had by all. Since that night my boyfriend has been to see these guys on his own and has come home with a smile from ear to ear. Basically what i'm saying is this, i too would love to find a bi girl that i am compatible with, so if you have any luck or you find yourself in perth some time let me know. mxxxm

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  2more4fun

  15 years ago

  I don't know how you can really gauge how 'bi' a woman is and split her orientation into such a perfectly rounded percentile. I have met women who have made me feel like I could easily become a lesbian, and some who I just haven't found attractive enough to feel remotely bi. Then there are experiences in between.   For me, a woman is only as bi as the stength of her attraction to the other woman. I am however in love with a man so the extent to which I'm going to be more lesbian than straight is also determined by this fact. That's probably the case for most women who have a male life partner.   I think there are some bi sites (not so much dating) where you could sus out the better networks around for genuinely bi people (that is, you would consider a life partnership with a same sex person as opposed to just being interested in sexual relations).   Otherwise, just give every bi girl you meet a chance. If the attraction is there between you then percentages will go out the window.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi, thanks for the advice... can you name other sites on here?  Like the Bi ones mentioned?  As I haven't found any.   As far as percentages go I was just using that as an example.  I used to think I was 100% lesbian... now I'm starting to think I'm maybe 80 or 90% lesbian as in I am interested in exploring sex with men but ultimately only want long term relationships with women.   I have found that most of the women i have chatted to who say they are bi, reveal after a few emails, that they have never been with a woman and would like to "try it once" - I guess that's almost me in the reverse.  I had a threesome with a couple off here and the woman admitted afterwards that it was something she had always wanted to try once and now that she had she probably wouldn't get with a woman again.  To start with she did try to involve me in the action with her but  then I found she was just interested in being with her guy.   Ideally I would prefer to meet a single girl because I agree most women with male partners are going to ultimately want to be with their guys and are more likely to just be testing the waters with a woman.   I have been upfront with the guys I have spoken to about the fact that I am interested in just testing the waters with them and aren't even promising anything physical would happen... with the bi women who aren't really bi would pay the same courtesy.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I agree with you 100% (on any kind of continuum) and this is pretty close to what I would have like to have replied if I could have managed to string sentences together and wasn't in such a foul mood when I posted my reply lol :p   I really believe everything you've written and I hope that this helps bidelight and any others to understand that it is not about percentages but about the people...   Sophie

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Great response. My wife would say something similar.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hey Bidelight )Love the percentage rating for lesbianness ... maybe RHP could add a field to their database )I think you will find that couples here with women who profess to be bi add that for a few reasons but at the end of the day, even for the genuinely bi ones, it is always going to depend who attracts them.I (Mr L) am hetero but not all girls on RHP attract me and similarly Ms L (my far better half) has had full on, dress tearing, steamy sex with girls but it very much depends on the type of girl - she is only attracted to particular types.In your search why not try a couple of clubs .. Abode is a mixed venue in St Kilda where you will get bi and lesbian girls in a no stress environment. IQ nights and ntice are the most relevant for you.  Also Tongue'n'groove in St Kilda is great if you are only looking for girls.Good luck

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