abcplus1

abcplus1

M58 F55

Looking for (lust) in all the ........

April 28 2014

.....right places?Now this is not RHP bashing, the site is great (ordinary on a mobile but that's another issue).Some features are better than the competition, some worse, certainly a higher amount of members on line at any given time.But in the many years of us looking for the classic bi SWF we have never had any joy on this site.Same profile (word for word almost), same photos etc but the response on this site has been all but nothing, at best a couple of dates that led nowhere.So are we looking for the wrong thing on this site?

Comments

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    I get the "b"i bit but not "SWF" bit??I also understand different sites, bring different things..what works for some, may not necessary work for others. I read your profile and your pics are amazing, especially the ones on the pool table....maybe add some pics in there of the both of you as it is a couple profile.As it did appear to have just female pics, even tho you are after a Bi woman.Good LuckFoxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    You have found a wonderful lady, who you love spending time with. It's awesome when that happens, not just in the bedroom out of it as well. To me it's not just the sex...it's that friendship as well! Foxy

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    11 years ago

    And saying that bi swf = bisexual single white female. One of the unicorn bred. All sites are different. I have more luck here whereas on another site.. I actually had to close my profile due to the quality of males and messages I received there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    Does not market Bi SWF or Bi SWM...... Other sites do. RHP was once predominately a swingers site. Now it is more a dating site for hook ups. I have found it is becoming more and more Vanilla as with the new members on here.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Maybe RHP should change name to Red Hot Vanilla Pie.. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    I thought it meant Single White Female....thanks for that. Curious question: Wouldn't that narrow BI choices down as well, if just looking for a Bi SWF on here and if other sites cater that?? I'm guessing that could be an answer to the OP's question, seeing RHP does not market BI SWF... Sorry I am not Bi or anything like that but just curious about what the OP asked and why. I also understand the OP likes what they like, their choices and what they want and looking for. It's interesting and yes I am curious about it, what other sites offer and what RHP offers. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There are very very few who meet for sex before a introduction !!! So in that case all sites are very similar as most courting with messages then a meet in a public place and go from there !! Am i wrong !??? Not with my experience RHP just allows rated R pictures and language !!! only difference i see !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I'd fuck more if I met people who I connected with as a package (personality, charisma, likemindedness, we like the way each other look, conversation flows and lust develops)......I disagree that the site per se is vanilla more simply that members are having trouble finding others who actually float their boats. (Shrugs) maybe my thought processes are vanilla⁉️⁉️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' Does not market Bi SWF or Bi SWM...... Other sites do. RHP was once predominately a swingers site. Now it is more a dating site for hook ups. I have found it is becoming more and more Vanilla as with the new members on here. We all know its the MILLS and BOON of the age of the golden vagina....They are looking for LUVVVVVVVVVVVV baby

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    11 years ago

    The bi swf that wants to meet, talk, socialise and even have sex is unicorn rare that is for sure. Many we have come across have deleted their profiles after a few messages, some even after a few dates, lots of ones that message but will never meet, some that just want to fuck without even meeting first and several that want no connection or friendship of any kind. Each to their own......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's very hard to find "a package (personality, charisma, likemindedness, we like the way each other look, conversation flows and lust develops)" Wish I could find that.Not a relationship, but just something ongoing that's friendly and worthwhile.

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    11 years ago

    Not a relationship, but something in between that and a random. That is what we have always sought, but found very few times.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Don't give up.....it's out there just maybe not in here. And Hello Lady Silhouette (you wbppbw!!) nice to see you :) posting. ~ Indy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Don't give up.....it's out there just maybe not in here. And Hello Lady Silhouette (you wbppbw!!) nice to see you :) posting. ~ Indy Have met some nice men via RHP but not enough of them want an arrangement that's ongoing, friendly and worthwhile.I had a fabulous FWB long term but then he got a girlfriend so he stopped seeing me.Then I soon found 2 really good fuck buddies and both became long term however recently one has suddenly stopped seeing me without warning and for no apparent reason and the other had to move interstate for work.Would be nice to meet someone local who wants something ongoing but I know I am not the only one on RHP who cannot quite find who they are looking for.