M41
Looking for opinions
January 09 2015
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Only a couple of things wrong. You haven't ticked the box where it says you are into Tv/TS!!! The other one is you haven't paid your membership so how are you going to message me if you had ticked that box????
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RHP User
10 years ago
The photo's are good, but some people think that bathroom/toilet pics are a bit tacky. You're not a paid member, so you wont be able to message people, that might make it harder to find someone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi Jello, As has been said above not being a paid members is going to cause you a lot of problems. It means that only paid members can contact you.If you are tacking that approach you have to capture some ones attention and stand out from the crowd. So to your profile: The Photos They are fine nice not overt. Could you add some more I would but that is just me. A face photo is always an advantage but a lot of us don't do that. Your Message content Look it it is just OK nothing stands out...The Finer things in life, Champagne and Caviar is indulgent brunch...I don't know. Tell us something more about your self. Work, gym and friends is hardly an insight. Do you like Pinacoladas and getting caught in the rain... Your text content is well I don't mean this to sound harsh but its boring. I can not tell you what to write because it has to be who you are... Good luck LC
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lovman8
10 years ago
often two or three conflicting ones on the same topic........but hey I'm NOT going to give opinions on how to improve your profile, the competition in here is far too stiff already.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
And Profile Tips and learn why this topic is so annoying. The End.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Sorry don't mean to be abrupt but you're about the 20th punter in the last 3 weeks to ask the same question. I hope you find what you're looking for in your adventures and trust me reading lots helps.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Sorry don't mean to be abrupt but you're about the 20th punter in the last 3 weeks to ask the same question. I hope you find what you're looking for in your adventures and trust me reading lots helps. That's just fucked. If you're going to be a rude bitch at least try to be funny. If you thought the OP was wasting your time making you read his question I wonder who you blame for replying to it. Twice.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
is you aren't in Brisbane and your to young... That's why IOS is cranky :P and Indy I agree with you but of his 4 friends only one seems to be still active on the site and interestingly only one is verified... a few more pics, make sure you have face pics in your pg... Blah blah blah... Read the newbies section it really does help.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
so JG it's ok to be rude as long as it's funny? IOS may have been blunt and really that's her prerogative you don't have to read her response either. God the personal attacks shit me in here. but of course you know freedom of speech and all that so go right ahead and state your opinion which was completely off topic and not helping the OP at all.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Bite me
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On_Safari
10 years ago
And yes, you're not in Brissy......I'll have to revisit your Brisbane Males thread to renew the faith. 👌 JG you look like you run like a girl too....lol 😂 Honestly though OP try reading some of the stuff from the Newbies thread....it all helps. Explore the site, there's a lot on offer other than "hook ups".
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RHP User
10 years ago
I Suggest your read this it is a fantastic guide: http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Rules-of-engagment-35863 LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
@On_SafariYou weren't that rude, you explained why and I can see why the same question popping up can be annoying but I'm not sorry for posting it. I didn't have much time to search through the forums so this was (shamefully) an easy way for me to go to one place (this thread) to find my answers rather than digging up pages and pages of content, plus everyone's profile is different. But yes i will take your advice and check out people's profiles and other forum replies. @anywhichway007Sorry unfortunately I'm not into TV/TS :(. @LoveCurvieI'll think of something more, I was in a rush so I'll try something a little less boring @simpledesiresYou're right those photos are tacky. But i'm more on the discreet side of things for sites like these for privacy reasons. and no not to hide from my significant other :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nice pics! (And thank you thank you for closing the toilet seat. No, really.) As for the written part: It's great you stayed away from the template lines, but I feel like I learned nothing about you at all. What are you looking for specifically, what are you into and what do you bring to the table? Also, like the others said: you may not get far as a guest. Good luck x
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Brunch? The finer things in life?? Seriously? lol The bathroom selfie says to me.... not single.... a guy hiding in the bathroom, taking sneaky pics of himself.But thats my impression and others may think differently.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The bathroom selfie says to me.... not single.... a guy hiding in the bathroom, taking sneaky pics of himself.But thats my impression and others may think differently. If that is the only place in his house he has a mirror, I see it as a good thing.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
ML that's ridiculous! I take bathroom selfies all the time and I'm certainly not hiding from anyone. Bathrooms generally have good lighting and mirrors and people get naked in them. you have one photo on your public gallery of you by yourself and not with some kind of sculpture or mascot I'm sure lots of conclusions could be drawn from that to. jello I like your pic to me a towel around your hips like that is sexy and you have a nice body so show it off.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I looked twice......then three times. But, yes, a lot of newbies ask this same question on the forums. But when I first posted on here, I was terrified, and didnt know about the tips and rules section. Good luck, young man.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Brunch? The finer things in life?? Seriously? lol The bathroom selfie says to me.... not single.... a guy hiding in the bathroom, taking sneaky pics of himself.But thats my impression and others may think differently. I don't see why my "finer" things have to match up with the rest of society. Though honestly I do have to question the fact that I need to describe my self a bit more. If you want to know more we can simply talk about it? If i was looking for a relationship I'd write a bit more about myself, imo keeping it concise and simple should reflects what I'm after. But yes I do need to re-work it. No need to hide your wife under the freddo costume :P. All jokes aside, yes I am single, I choose to be single. No point reading too deep into it, my profile is what it is. Count me in as the 1% of guys who's profile isn't sugar coated. What you see is definitely what you get. @MeanderThanks! yep it's the only mirrors I have in the house :( @kokoflamingoPeruse at your pleasure! @Missb72Thanks! I worked hard for it. Appreciate the feedback
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I think your the rude one here. OS may have been blunt( bless her) but certainly not rude. Go Indy! Reality check over here!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Appreciate you may not be into tv/ts......yet. Give you a month or two of no replies from the single ladies.......you'll be knocking on my door like the rest of the "straight men". Talk to you then.............Annie xxxxxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had this freaken awesome bathroom selfie... totally nude, my breasts looked amazing and my hour glass shape was to die for. Until some smartarse..... I believe it was you Jean_Girard , asked me if I was standing on the toilet to take the picture. Errrr... maybe. LMAO. It must have looked strange to see me floating so far above the sink like that. :P
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
What the heck is that on the systen ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
To be fair, it was a smoking hot pic Meeks! Albeit ... unrealistically amazon-like! *snort*
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like your pictures (hubba hubba) and I like your profile name. I think your profile is a little too short, you haven't really engaged my interest so to speak. And the way you TELL ME I have to be verified and I HAVE TO have a sense of humour. I found that really abrupt and makes me what to bend you over and pound your butt. But then I think I have problems taking directions from men so I probably wouldn't take what I say as the gospel. Maybe other women may find the same thing though?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Brunch is THE. on trend thing to do amongst the younger set😌.. so stop showin" ya age 😊xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
The OP just blocked me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like your sly nod to the blues in your profile name😊...your pics are hawt,but your words are just a tad minimalist xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I had this freaken awesome bathroom selfie... totally nude, my breasts looked amazing and my hour glass shape was to die for. Until some smartarse..... I believe it was you Jean_Girard , asked me if I was standing on the toilet to take the picture. Errrr... maybe. LMAO. It must have looked strange to see me floating so far above the sink like that. :P That could be taken as a compliment, someone would have to spend a fair bit of time stalking your photos before they notice that you've cheated to gain a few inches ;-) I must admit have done a bathroom selfie or two, it's mainly because I catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and think 'Fuck, someone other than myself deserves to see that!!"
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is no such thing as a perfect profile, pander to the forum girls and you cut out more than half the female members, in fact pander to any ones needs and you cut out most of the others, you just can not get all. Just do what feels right to your self and if you get the urge to try some bullshit, dont it will make you blind.. Nice pictures, well the subject mater that is not the pictures. In here you should have no problems as many are just interested in the package and from the profile it seems like that is all you are offering. I am sure you will have lots of fun
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RHP User
10 years ago
@meanderI haven't blocked anyone recently? @meeka100 & freyaI'll keep that in mind about my description when i re-write it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72'but of course you know freedom of speech and all that so go right ahead and state your opinion which was completely off topic and not helping the OP at all. You got me there MissB - I had some suggestions for Jello, but apart from suggesting he eat more of his crusts at brunch to get some hair on that silky smooth chest I'm the last to suggest a profile re-write to add to my competition on here!.What shits me is (and there's nothing new here...), I've ducked back onto rhp for what seems like just 15 minutes and while I saw a very positive 'New Years Resolutions' thread that promised much, this poor guy waxes his chest, takes a bathroom selfie and pops onto the forums for some self-promotion, little knowing that there is a gaggle of regulars clicking refresh every 10 seconds waiting for a 'new' topic that won't bore them. And should someone dare not meet the definition of a 'new and interesting topic' they are shot down. Pretty welcoming place huh? There's no point asking newbies to refer to previous 'How's my profile' threads because all those threads are full of posters saying 'This has already been asked', 'It's groundhog day' and the like. If you think someone is asking a stupid, boring question ->> let it go. Maybe someone else is keen to answer it, and if not, let the thread die a silent death, but don't remove someone's right to ask a question, or their motivation to contribute to the forums in the future.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'JelloSandwich' I don't see why my "finer" things have to match up with the rest of society. Though honestly I do have to question the fact that I need to describe my self a bit more. If you want to know more we can simply talk about it? If i was looking for a relationship I'd write a bit more about myself, imo keeping it concise and simple should reflects what I'm after. But yes I do need to re-work it. Count me in as the 1% of guys who's profile isn't sugar coated. What you see is definitely what you get. Appreciate the feedback You're getting feedback...but question why you need to change, as per the feedback. In a swamp full of (over) eager dudes clawing for the few rare women in here..... you and your profile better stand out.And what people see might be what they get... but, they're not seeing.... enough. Advice has been offered, but you can always think you know better.So why ask for opinions. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
its always best to build your profile and pics that says unapologetically "this is who I am" and attract genuine people who are interested in YOU...rather than "this is who I want to be perceived as" to attract attention from perhaps those looking for something different. Be authentic - just present who you are and you are more likely to attract those looking for someone just like you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
but that's just what it *looks like*
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'simple_desires' but that's just what it *looks like* Wow you learn something every day. Always thought the bathroom shots where the lazy option cliche and hence off putting . Some guys don't notice what a mess it is, not even cleaning the mirror. Have to say OP's mirror is spotless. The bathroom tells a lot about a person. You can pick a shared bathroom instantly, which the OP's does not look like. Could be a shared house with mates or a new rental. No evidence of any personal items. But i am just guessing, what would I know. but that mirror is freaky clean, and not a trace of soap scum on the shower door...
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Annie, have I told you today? I LOVE YOU 😍
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You gorgeous girl. You're making me blush, either that or its male menopause...... You dunnit. The L word. Our relationship has gone up a notch....... Marry me. Make an honest woman of me........ Think I need a lay down.......xxxxxxx
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