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Looks more important than personality?

October 26 2012

First of all im sorry if this has already been discussed. This question goes to men and women of RHP. Would you rather be with someone who is probably a 10/10 but does not treat you the way you deserve, rather than be with someone who perhaps is not the type you would normally go for but is a great person? I know alot of women (An probably men) who say i want a man/woman who treats me right or is more than a pretty face but i am wondering if posed with this situation how many of you would choose the attractive individual over the average joe?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What is a 10/10 anyway? I come across so many pics of tall, tanned, toned men with six packs and huge biceps. They even have all their own hair. Are they considered 10/10? Because most of them do nothing for me. I cannot tell if I want you without meeting you, talking to you, touching you and kissing you. What you say and do, and how you touch, kiss and look at me are things that could make you irresistible to me. And personlly I would never rate someone using numbers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    he's gone.and such a pretty face

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your so awesome. Ide drop to my knees in an instant. My messages keep bouncing so ive resorted to shamelessly making myself available to you here publically in the forums.   Fingers playing with myself till I hear your reply. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    last girl I phucked had a face like a busted crab.Not complainin, just sayin :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Looks draw you in, personality keeps you there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Im not shallow, but for me I believe that the outer beauty is the initial attraction and the inner beauty is the magnet that then holds that attraction. Im not a chemist either but I am very passionate if the chemistry is right. ☯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi! Brody85:) It seems you've a Fan club starting up he!he! My Preference is both...However you didn't ask that he!he! Therefore I'll take Personality because I've a Zest for Life, Love Interacting on all Levels with a Guy who's intelligent loves to Banter ,tease in a fun way as I do. Secure in who he is.. Not self absorbed as a very few 10s can be .Tho there are many excellent 10s who fit the bill on both accounts..Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Shall I?? Lol :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    please do....x R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13'he's gone.and such a pretty face Was it something I said?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '0zboy'last girl I phucked had a face like a busted crab. Not complainin, just sayin :)It wasn't busted because you face-fucked her?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm sick to death of ugly men. So this time round I'm after a hottie....perfection all the way for me now ;-P roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A woman once told me that her boyfriend bashes her, but it's okay, because he's really hot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'The_Stranger76'A woman once told me that her boyfriend bashes her, but it's okay, because he's really hot. Punching below his weight, is he? Dreadful that she would feel that poorly about herself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Does it really matter about what others would do?? If you want the trophy piece then chase it, if you want someone that is average, chase that. You need to figure a few things out. One of which is, are you a follower or a trend setter?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Torturedcliche...Well said! Too true..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Whats with all these questions where the OP is a closed profile ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '0zboy'last girl I phucked had a face like a busted crab. Not complainin, just sayin :) You promised me you would never tell a single soul, bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah TR walking of sidways

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting '0zboy'last girl I phucked had a face like a busted crab. Not complainin, just sayin :) You promised me you would never tell a single soul, bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah TR walking of sidways Yes but I had my fingers crossed and you refused to loan me the blindfold :pBut as my old grandpappy used to say "dont worry about the mantelplace while ya stokin the fire boy" but goddammit woman that was worse than starin at the eclipse. ☮

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I guess it depends on what you are after in a partner really. If you are just after someone to jump in and out of bed with then you probably dont require the mental stimulation as much so the personality is not an issue. However for me personally and Ozboy said it that yes a physical attraction is nice and ultimately that is what draws you to a person, but being able to hold a conversation and stimulate my mind aswell as stimulate me physically is more important.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...but I don't care for rating people or being rated. I only mention this because it's usual for people to pair off within an increment or two of their own status, ie a 6 with a 7 or a 5 with a 4. As mentioned, once the physical attraction is established, it's the personal connection that keeps a couple together.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I have met with some very average looking guys, who I wouldn't trade for all the 10/10's or supposedly better out there. Looks are only skin deep but ugliness (especially in character) go to the bone. I'm with Devious Miss in regards to how the individual(s) make you feel, the way they speak, carry themselves, undress you with thier eyes, the conversation, the touch of thier skin, the smile and yes ultimately "the kiss" is definately a clincher. I love a man/woman with personality, witty humour, charisma, charm and character. And yes looks help but aren't the thing that holds someone's attention. Give me a superficially unattractive person with character, soul and a kick arse attitude anyday. It's all in how you own it and project it. So work it baby!!!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    In your case Damien/Hugh/Marcus??? I will make the exception. Simply because you're very funny, sweet and well written. I can forgive you your good looks!!! Safari x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is there really a 10/10 ?????? I have know what they call an average person and also what many call a hottie , and to be honest I have found myself at drawn towards the "average" looking person more. I admire a beautiful looking lady, but to me a beautiful lady isn't what people class as a 10/10 it's a number of things that draw my attraction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' Give me a superficially unattractive person with character, soul and a kick arse attitude anyday. It's all in how you own it and project it. So work it baby!!! Hell yeah!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Loving this forum.