Looks...is it that important?

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Would be a start. Just a social occasion with like minded people at a public hotel. There are M&g's at capitol city's a couple of times a year. There you can meet and if you click, arrange to meet another night or perhaps play back at someone's place after. Never any pressure. You being in Melbourne, there is also an alternative meet and greet this sat night at Hidden Heaven. Play is permitted in the play areas but there is no requirement to do so and you can remain clothed in the lounge/bar if you aren't wanting to get into it. Check events for details. Good luck

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Yes! I'm feeling much the same. Everything in Brisbane seems to be plagued with 50yo+ members and it doesn't seem newbie friendly. We are seeking someone with the same very build as you have described! Don't give up, there are people out there who prefer that build!

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  And go to events/profiles that give you a good gut feeling. Go with your instinct. You do not have to do anything you do not want too. If someone/people pressures you to remove your clothes straight away, that's not on. You have every right to walk away. You have no obligation to anyone, just to you and your partner. Please, do not stress out about it. There is some great, supportive people in your area, who understand where you're coming from. It's just a matter of shifting through and taking your time. Best of luck. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  The thought of having to dress down terrified me initially, and while I feel more comfortable these days, I still don't have much interest in those events (especially the ones basing their selection criteria on age/body size 😑 Superficial folk are not my people!). As Annie mentioned, meet & greets are the way to go. Generally just a social get together of Pie folk of many varieties, and we are a pretty friendly bunch (most of us, anyway 😁). Go to the 'Events' tab at the top right of your home page and use the drop down menus to search. Hanging around the forums is also a good way to meet people and hear about upcoming events 👍🏼 As for looks being important, I think they are, as far as mutual attraction generally being a requirement for play. However, in my experience, one size/type does not fit all, just a matter of weeding through the masses to find the right fit for you. Good luck, have fun and enjoy the ride :)

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  compressor

  7 years ago

  Well newgirl you are very attractive and wish I had the chance to meet you

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