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Loose Versus Tight
March 21 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can honestly say that I like both tight & loose pussies. I just love the feeling of a woman's orgasm whilst driving my cock into her & feeling her pussy clench & grab hold of my cock that tight I cant help but unload my balls into her. - Posted from rhpmobile
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lovman8
11 years ago
Vaginas are wonderful in all their variety and appearance. Warm wet and juicy are the most important properties from my point of view. And if they are warm wet and juicy it matters little whether they are tight or loose. And the bliss of feeling a vagina that pouts its welcome for you and then sucks you right in with an insistence that can not be resisted is indescribable.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
by a very man, "Fucking a loose pussy is like fucking a bucket of wet cement!" The funny thing was he was a brick layer and dealt with wet cement all day long. Makes one think did he ever try it at work to even come out with that...LOL! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I was going to say "by a very "well educated" man, (being sarcastic) but removed it. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
That was not a very nice comment to say..IMO I can understand that would make one quite insecure. I'm sorry that was said to you. Foxy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Due to a recent experience being told I'm too tight." Well, I'd say that would probably be a reflection more of his lack of ability to get you properly aroused so that your vaginal muscles relaxed enough for insertion. Most men are pretty ignorant about vaginal anatomy and how things work down there. I fully expect at least one comment on this thread equating how much sex a woman has with the tightness of her vagina (hint...they are not related).
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On_Safari
11 years ago
If only I was 20yrs older.....😘 x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I also love a loose pussy because I love to slide my fingers in deep & rub her Gspot before I get some toys, vegies & anything else I can find to stretch it before I slide my dick into her all wet loose & swollen. 7
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thought I would cover it Lucky Vaginal tightness or looseness isn't relevant to how many fucks you've had or how many children you have had. Thank goodness for that lol.'I was wet and aroused, well that was until he called squirting pissing and that's when I lost my mojo. His first ffm and his last in this court. Quoting 'Luckdragon23' "Due to a recent experience being told I'm too tight." Well, I'd say that would probably be a reflection more of his lack of ability to get you properly aroused so that your vaginal muscles relaxed enough for insertion. Most men are pretty ignorant about vaginal anatomy and how things work down there. I fully expect at least one comment on this thread equating how much sex a woman has with the tightness of her vagina (hint...they are not related).
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gazpacho
11 years ago
There's no such thing as loose pussy... Just lazy pussy. :) So Hit me! Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes after a few vodkas :-) :-) :-) xx Q
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' There's no such thing as loose pussy... Just lazy pussy. :) So Hit me! Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile A perfect pussy Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
won't pay for her own drink ;P - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
11 years ago
Due to my heritage background and height, I often get told the same thing too Ms_silk. But instead of taking such comment negatively, I took it the opposite way. Why? Simply to stop the negativity gets to me and does my head in! :-) For me, to get myself well aroused and ready, I prefer to meet for a drink or dinner before proceeding to the bedroom, then follows by lots of foreplay and kissing. Of course, a mutual connection and attraction is the very first key to open up my treasure chest :-) I find that going out for a drink or meal beforehand helps to build up the tension of anticipation, and my imagination is often running wild while chit chatting to my lover. So by the time we get to the hotel room, I will be wet and ready :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Miss_silk, my last comment was meant as a joke and not aimed at you. I don't think there is such a thing as a tight pussy and agree with what the lovely Miss LD said. He probably didn't get you aroused enough for your muscles to relax. It was definitely not a nice thing to say to you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mine is tighter than a fishes arse. I though to myself, fuck what kind of fish are we talking about here? have visions of a guy fucking a fish on the beach, saying hey LadyT this one feels like yours. smells the same too I would think I am tight and sensitive and fingering that's normal for most women is to hard for me. I have an iron grip with my pussy, no idea why considering I have had two kids, its a bit like one of those chines finger things where once you get in its bloody hard to get out again.
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sweetgem
11 years ago
I can't stop laughing now and that is bad for my cold & flu cough lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Mine is tighter than a fishes arse. I though to myself, fuck what kind of fish are we talking about here? have visions of a guy fucking a fish on the beach, saying hey LadyT this one feels like yours. smells the same too I would think I am tight and sensitive and fingering that's normal for most women is to hard for me. I have an iron grip with my pussy, no idea why considering I have had two kids, its a bit like one of those chines finger things where once you get in its bloody hard to get out again. The Groper
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Mine is tighter than a fishes arse. I though to myself, fuck what kind of fish are we talking about here? have visions of a guy fucking a fish on the beach, saying hey LadyT this one feels like yours. smells the same too I would think I am tight and sensitive and fingering that's normal for most women is to hard for me. I have an iron grip with my pussy, no idea why considering I have had two kids, its a bit like one of those chines finger things where once you get in its bloody hard to get out again. The Groper the sweet lip
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RHP User
11 years ago
this is just a red herring...
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RHP User
11 years ago
A nice wet wet loose pussy can become very tight when the lady is treated with the correct pleasures So for me loose and tight all in the same night ;),,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Goodness gracious me, Ms Silk! Hope you didn't go back for seconds; not cool at all . Perhaps he just chose his words poorly. According to Mr IAT, my 'tightness' is related to where we are in our play and how aroused I am. Does he care? Not at all. He likes it all! That said, if I'm a little too tight for his comfort at any time, he just stops and takes additional time on heightening my arousal. Nerves can play a part too - if your muscles are tense elsewhere, that will be reflected in your vaginal muscles as well. Kisses,J(Mrs)
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
..the woman who went out on a boat with three fishermen... ...and came home with a red snapper. On the subject of loose & tight... I think most guys, if theyve been with a few women, have experienced degrees of both but unless its at either end of the scale it doesnt much matter. I can recall one woman who to me felt rather "loose". She wasnt really, that was just her shape. When aroused, she simply seemed to'balloon' more than most vaginas. I can also recall two women who were particularly tight. Both were very fit women but I dont think that really had a great deal to do with it. One was an amazing 5 foot tall sexual goddess whose tightness seemed to be as a result of a very strong band of muscle almost 'guarding' the parts of her vagina ahead of her G spot. She enjoyed extended foreplay, yet at times it almost felt like a barrier that I had to push past... so she very much enjoyed shallower thrusting that worked this area. She also very much enjoyed deep pushing penetration, and it was... so tightness wasnt something I noticed then. The other was only just starting to find her sexual self in her late 20s. She had been told by a boyfriend that she was too tight, and in discussions with her brother had been told she "just had to use it more". Some men are such fucking dumbarses with no idea the effect their words have on "naiive" women. Her shape seemed to grip me along my entire length, not just at the muscles of the entrance to her vagina. She was very shy, but determined to increase her sexual knowledge and self awareness and I very much respected how she pushed her ongoing shyness aside to talk and explore it. She realised that being tighter was to her advantage, and ultimately also to her pleasure, and that she simply needed to have more effort spent on foreplay and arousal, so that her significant and very enjoyable wetness took over her. I say...... love the one you're with.. as you dont know until you're fingers/tongue/penis-head deep in her.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' I have an iron grip with my pussy, no idea why considering I have had two kids, its a bit like one of those chines finger things where once you get in its bloody hard to get out again. Surely that is not your only... vice? Personally I like being called a nutcracker. Though get me aroused enough and my pussy becomes accommodating enough for a DV.
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erotictouch4u
11 years ago
As the others have said, it shows his ignorance of the correct amount of foreplay to arouse you sufficiently, or maybe he was just too big for you as can sometimes be the case.ET xox
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the comments, support and laughs. mwah to all.
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Bideas
11 years ago
As I'm sure most men have, I have experience a range of beautiful vaginas both tight and loose aswell as everything inbetween. Each have benefits and limitations, however this is part of the joy of the experience. With a tight pussy, one must take more time and care entering regardless of how wet or lubed the matching parts may be. In some cases the sight of grimace on a ladies face as the inching in occurs can be a little distracting, however can also be good for a man's ego.. A tight pussy brings with it heightened sensation, offset by limitations in the array of positions possible. Having my tongue in a tight pussy brings a different set of sensations for both the lady and I. Overall the benefits always outweigh the limitations provided both parties are creative enough to work with the circumstances for the better. A loose pussy, defined here at the extreme end of the scale, generally means there are no limitations penetrating. They are potentially equally wet and are equally beautiful. I have only once played with a lady who was more significantly accommodating than I was endowed. Whilst it meant neither of us really had a great deal of pleasure during intercourse - despite 3 fingers in her anus - it did however open up a whole raft of other pleasures. My tongue was able to get deeper into her deliciousness than ever before (or after) which meant she was able to feel controlled sensations internally, which drove us both wild. I was able to stimulate her with much more of my hand in her than any other lady prior or post. Ideally if we had another cock or two handy, dvp or potentially tvp would have been real possibilities. So again, creativity is the only factor limiting pleasure at this extreme. Generally ladies are at happy medium, which nets the benefits of both extremes without the associated limitations. In reality I love any option for the thrill of figuring out the many methods of pleasure associated with such a unique vagina, as even if two are 'exactly the same' they are completely different. So in summary ladies, you're all perfect in my eyes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Bideas'In some cases the sight of grimace on a ladies face as the inching in occurs can be a little distracting, however can also be good for a man's ego.. I wouldn't think grimacing would be the expression you'd be looking for when penetrating a woman, since a grimace usually indicates disgust, disapproval, or pain.
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Bideas
11 years ago
Luckdragon, I may not have explained it well, however when a lady is infact that tight a grimace relating to her pain is common regardless of how excited and wet she may be. Once a lady is fully acclimatised to the penetration the grimace is replaced with pleasure provided delicate consideration is employed.
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luvsilver
11 years ago
This one time I was with a young lady.She had been flirting all night with me so once we got back to my place it was on.We were in the lounge when we first kissed.I hoisted up her dress and bent her over the couch.As I first entered her I noticed she was incredibly (almost too) tight but seemed to be into it as she made a groaning noise and her toes were curling.I then realised she still had her pantihose on. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
11 years ago
loose or tight, either is delightful......and too tight? Never.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You should have said, "not as tight as your arsehole I bet, now bend over big boy so I can ram this ........ " :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi, for some one to say that to a female it's real clear he knows nothing about foreplay, or get some one relaxed. It's obvious he does not deserve a lady who give him a chance. I would love to spend some time with you and show you how a lady should be treated. Hope your next experience is better. LOVE to help.xo
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know this guy. He is a nice considerate man and would be mortified to think he offended anyone. I think the night still progressed to everyone's Satisfaction? Some times we say things that we unwittingly offend. Much like the forums except we may have our pants off. Now he could write and give his view, but he is a bit of a gentleman in that he respects a woman's right to voice. Also I told him that the ladies would just tar and feather him and ride him out of town. If your a man its like walking on the razors edge, one slip and your nuts are cut off.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love those guys that say come here baby I can do a better job than that last guy, .what a crock You have no idea how you go until you have met a woman. There may be no attraction and there you are dick in your hand and would rather slam it in a car door than poke it in the cyber goddess before you. Hands out reality cheque it's like me saying can't wait to blow you, then I meet you and think fuck I don't even want to blow in your ear.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ms_silk, I would recommend making an evening of it; Dinner, some close dancing, back to familiar environment, lots of fun foreplay. You take charge, tell him what you like, communicate all the way through. If you feel that it's still not working for you. Mix it up a little by working on your self. There really shouldn't be an issue between someone that's loose or tight. A man shouldn't say such things to make you feel self conscious like that. Just take charge and communicate, you know what you want and what your body is capable of and what makes you comfortable. So go with that. Relax and enjoy each other, set the mood, (candles, maybe some music, you fav sheets, temperature of the room. wear your fav clothes or bra, nickers, or maybe go with out!!! Do what ever turns you on. Best of luck, stay safe. Koz.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan'I know this guy. He is a nice considerate man and would be mortified to think he offended anyone. I think the night still progressed to everyone's Satisfaction? Some times we say things that we unwittingly offend. Much like the forums except we may have our pants off. Now he could write and give his view, but he is a bit of a gentleman in that he respects a woman's right to voice. Also I told him that the ladies would just tar and feather him and ride him out of town. If your a man its like walking on the razors edge, one slip and your nuts are cut off. I believe he can be a nice guy and maybe it was the fact that it was his first FFM and having two women that where actually different to each other. Just think he preferred one over the other and it was a little obvious. So with the other comments it made me feel insecure. Overall the play time was good but was just tainted a little. He has apologised and I think he genuinely feels sorry for what he said at the time. Which is why I pondered the thought of loose versus tight and wanted some general feedback. Not to outcast him in anyway shape or form. As you know me well Tuscan I was just curious about the difference and wasn't meaning in anyway to make a personal judgement on him through the forums. Keeping the love and good positive feelings flowing to my RHP friends.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Glad you worked it out. It can happen sometimes on a forum, that we get only part of things. It's the nature of the best. And I know you both to be lovely people. And your right re with tiresome it's not always a level playing field. I like to play second base myself ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Glad you worked it out. It can happen sometimes on a forum, that we get only part of things. It's the nature of the best. And I know you both to be lovely people. And your right re with tiresome it's not always a level playing field. I like to play second base myself ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hate ipads
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sxy30sGCguy
11 years ago
tight is definitely better.........but it also has a lot to do with a womans vaginal muscle control.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So I hit reply instead if return oops Got it now There is something beautiful in every woman, every pussy. How boring if we were all the same. Warm and wet Is good, as long as the lady is liking it, I'm loving it too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
ok.. just would like to make something a bit clearer.. a woman who has the ability to relax her vaginal muscles more than another does not mean she has no vaginal muscle control. I know a woman who can both hold a very thin pencil with her vaginal muscles but can also take two hands. So try not to jump to conclusions. Years ago I was dating this guy.. He was in the shower and I saw him naked for the first time, when I saw the size of his penis I said to him, there is no way that thing is gonna fit! He laughed and said, sure it will..... youve had kids... Hmmmmmmmmm well it took him 3 weeks and numerous tries before he could eventually get in! LOL needless to say, his opinion changed about women who had had children having to have a loose vagina. Different strokes for different folks. There is nothing wrong with anyone. We are who we are, tight or loose... who cares. if youre happy with you, thats all that matters.. Find people who appreciate you!
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RHP User
11 years ago
If a woman is petite, she's probably going to be petite down there too?! Hence why some very petite woman need to have c sections! Same with pussy length. I know some shorter women who can't take all of a longer dick. Makes sense doesn't it?!
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RHP User
11 years ago
For ladies comment Have you tried making yourself somewhat looser?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Small ,big , tight , loose, hair or no hair, if you turn her on and focus on her getting to the point that she is dripping just about size cock will fit . Although not hung like a horse I have had experiences with all types listed above and found that a simple change of position and communication weather verbally with words or moans and groans or physically by thrusting back can make all the difference and make the sex phenomenal for both parties.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tight just feels amazing ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
well u won't be tight for too much longer on Redhotpie :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
If a guy thinks a women vagina is loose. he obviously has a small penis. and commonly refer to it as bowling a sausage down a hallway. A guy with a small penis can still touch the sides of a larger opening vagina, a simple change of angle and what do you know, he will find the sides. maybe even the Gspot if he hits the right angle. Just my opinion from a larger thicker than average guy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought telling a lady she has a tight pussy was a compliment? I generally don't go around saying to ladies I sleep with that she has a tight pussy, but you sort of know, and when you know, you just have to share it with her by saying "Wow...that's tight!", whilst ploughing away... I don't know many women that would complain about being told their tight ;p
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RHP User
11 years ago
If at 44 years old you are being told you are too tight that is a massive compliment or you were trying to fornicate with mr ed.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'VenusRising67' If a woman is petite, she's probably going to be petite down there too?! Hence why some very petite woman need to have c sections! Same with pussy length. I know some shorter women who can't take all of a longer dick. Makes sense doesn't it?! OH DEAR......I do believe it's to do with her Pelvis bones and pelvic muscles as this varies from woman to woman..not the size of her vagina when giving birth. A babies head will mold into shape (as skull bones are not formed) to ease down the birth canal. I am a size 8-10 and gave birth with out a c section - a la natural, ok maybe with the help with a little gas. As for shorter women...well maybe men should stop tapping them on the head, when taking longer penises. It won't fit by doing that...LOL *jokes peoples, it's a joke! I'm a short arss, well not as short as some* Foxy
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avidmale
11 years ago
So. Read through these comments. It's rather interesting. I'm more inclined to say that saying you have a tight pussy is more positive than negative. Sorry for the ladies that feel that way. That's not to say I've ever mentioned it to a women. I haven't. Being tight may be more pleasurable to some guys. If it's the case for this, he may of not wanted the image of being a guy that cums too early hanging on his shoulders. Physicality. Cocks come in all shapes and sizes. So do vaginas. Let's not jump on the... Guy can't arouse you enough bandwagon please. Even if it may be the case in this instance. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'VenusRising67' If a woman is petite, she's probably going to be petite down there too?! Hence why some very petite woman need to have c sections! Same with pussy length. I know some shorter women who can't take all of a longer dick. Makes sense doesn't it?! that old thing, big man big dick, small man all dick is not true either. My doc said, hey your a big tall buxom lass you will spit that baby out like a pea in a pod how wrong he was. He latter said, wooops got that one wrong. just think of it this way, a cunt is a cock just turned inside out. all different shapes and sizes, cept ours works extremely well but just not as fast to rise to the occasion. your the gas top, we are the electric oven
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RHP User
11 years ago
This has been the best description of a lady's vagina! Ladytuscan's wisdom prevails once again!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well its surprising what some men think and I could be here all day commenting about each one. But I wont as I enjoyed reading them all no matter what is medically or sexually correct or incorrect.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah I'm pretty tight too..still a virgin lolz
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'travelingstud' If a guy thinks a women vagina is loose. he obviously has a small penis. and commonly refer to it as bowling a sausage down a hallway. A guy with a small penis can still touch the sides of a larger opening vagina, a simple change of angle and what do you know, he will find the sides. maybe even the Gspot if he hits the right angle. Just my opinion from a larger thicker than average guy. So you blokes come along and turn those beautiful comfortable pussies by us average guys, so it's like fucking an open window! And you can't see the ramifications to that? I've got this tattoo on my cock soft, W y.... when I'm raging it spells.... Wendy? drunk Maybe we should just send all you big cock fuckers, somewhere fitting like Jamaica, big boned girls, nice big comfortable twats. Problem solved and for sake you muster up the courage to tattoo your cock, maybe little challenge for W y.... but see how you handle the pain for..... Welcome to Jamaica and have a nice day Wendy is looking pretty fucking good for that matter , your in for a cunt of a time (Black ears and cape to match) Mado Mado Tara xx
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Bideas
11 years ago
Venusrising, it's a nice idea in theory however far from the truth. Experience has shown 2 women of the same sized frame rarely have the same vaginal structure. I have had larger women who have a pussy tight enough to grasp as hard as my hand grip. I've had a size 6 who could easily take the fattest of black cocks with a few fingers aswell. Body size has absolutely nothing to do with accommodation ability. *on a side note, I find it interesting that travellingstud has found a vagina that he was able to insert his penis into without touching any of the ladies inner walls? This sounds to be a marvel of modern times..
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
All those guys using this topic as an opportunity to talk about how big their dick is.... .....raise your free hand. LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guys who say things like that are idiots and you should not worry about it. The tightness is usually to do with arousal level.... And everyone is different like boobs come in different sizes but that doesn't change how good sex is... These guys are missing the whole point of foreplay... And being negative towards a woman is not smart. Kick these guys to the curb coz they obviously don't know much about how a woman's arousal develops within various areas of her body and how to stimulate these areas in various ways. What they should be concentrating on is both of you are turned on and having amazing foreplay or sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just fell off the couch....so pleased to hear the tattoo doesn't say wxy :-) :-) :-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' All those guys using this topic as an opportunity to talk about how big their dick is.... .....raise your free hand. LOL Free hand that is...OK my hands are small
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' All those guys using this topic as an opportunity to talk about how big their dick is.... .....raise your free hand. LOL you better keep quiet for a change
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Darkangel86' Guys who say things like that are idiots and you should not worry about it. The tightness is usually to do with arousal level.... And everyone is different like boobs come in different sizes but that doesn't change how good sex is... These guys are missing the whole point of foreplay... And being negative towards a woman is not smart. Kick these guys to the curb coz they obviously don't know much about how a woman's arousal develops within various areas of her body and how to stimulate these areas in various ways. What they should be concentrating on is both of you are turned on and having amazing foreplay or sex. I just spent three hours in bed with this guy, and he knows exactly what he is doing. Lady T a puddle of pleasure , and sorry guys, but never make to much assumptions about another's bedroom performance. Lady T taking a nanna naps cause she has been fucked to distraction, and needs to get the fuck knots out of her hair. every one on here can sometimes open mouth to change feet, and say something that they never intended to hurt or humiliate anyone. sometimes we may feel it the wrong way, and yes I meant that feels it rather than hear it. but I did break one of his balls, if that counts. hope you got an ice pack on that, honey tight thighs as well as tight pussy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' For ladies comment Have you tried making yourself somewhat looser? You can't do anything to purposefully make yourself 'looser' on a permanent basis...the only things that can cause a vagina to permanently become looser are natural childbirth - particularly multiple births and giving birth when older - and age (and note that even those won't always cause loosening, it's a very individual thing, so you can't just assume that a woman who has had a few kids, or an older woman, is going to be 'loose'). It seems that many people forget, or just don't realise, that a vagina is surrounded by very elastic muscles which behave like any other muscle, by contracting and relaxing. The muscles relax when the woman is turned on, and also during childbirth. And this also explains why things like lots of sex and penetration in general don't cause the vagina to become looser and are just myths. Think about your mouth...you can use your fingers to stretch your lips out as far as you can, and when you let them go they will just return to their pre-stretched state because the muscle tissue around them is elastic. You can do it repeatedly and it doesn't matter - they will keep going back to normal (unless you do some sort of damage to the muscle). That is also what happens with vaginas - the muscles around them relax for intercourse, and afterwards contract back to their normal state, no matter how many times they are 'used'. If you want to read a good article that talks about these things, google "the rare truth about tight and loose women" and click the first link.
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madotara69
11 years ago
John Holmes stating he had not had a woman that could not accept his monster of a fck thing. Put a saddle on it. Further to speaking of care to knowing how the way it all works inside that mysterious device , not quoting. Is it the cervix that relaxes to allow the big fellows in, Tara is pretty sure but not certain to it.?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Used to always call me his Lucy Goosey...never knew what he meant til now xx naughty Auntie
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Ms_silk' For ladies comment Have you tried making yourself somewhat looser? You can't do anything to purposefully make yourself 'looser' on a permanent basis...the only things that can cause a vagina to permanently become looser are natural childbirth - particularly multiple births and giving birth when older - and age (and note that even those won't always cause loosening, it's a very individual thing, so you can't just assume that a woman who has had a few kids, or an older woman, is going to be 'loose'). It seems that many people forget, or just don't realise, that a vagina is surrounded by very elastic muscles which behave like any other muscle, by contracting and relaxing. The muscles relax when the woman is turned on, and also during childbirth. And this also explains why things like lots of sex and penetration in general don't cause the vagina to become looser and are just myths. Think about your mouth...you can use your fingers to stretch your lips out as far as you can, and when you let them go they will just return to their pre-stretched state because the muscle tissue around them is elastic. You can do it repeatedly and it doesn't matter - they will keep going back to normal (unless you do some sort of damage to the muscle). That is also what happens with vaginas - the muscles around them relax for intercourse, and afterwards contract back to their normal state, no matter how many times they are 'used'. If you want to read a good article that talks about these things, google "the rare truth about tight and loose women" and click the first link. What she said!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
My partner says that a looser pussy is nice, he said it feels like a warm inviting mouth. For me- I prefer to be a little On the looser side. When it's a tight fit, it kinda hurts, you need lots of lube! I prefer to slip and slide, and climax :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Luckdragon23, I have heard that argument before, and it seems a little all inclusive and, um, a bit too PC for me. Appealing, yet it doesn't fit with my experience, and doesn't ring true for me personally. I can bring 2 previous partners to mind who were what I would call naturally different. I agree with what you have said but, just for the tone of scientific fact used, would add that there seems to be a wide range of baseline variability. All good points worth considering though, especially ones of comfort, safety, and arousal. Ms_silk, in my opinion, a preference is a preference, and one can neither be too tight or too loose, just appealing to the other persons preference, or not. I'm brainstorming here, because I don't really know the circumstances. I know that for people who are interested in fisting that it is at first difficult, but attainable with gentle persistence towards that goal. If this has been the only comment regarding your tightness, you could also choose to brush it off? So many factors involved.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Without sounding like a complete ass!!! Some ladies are very hard to penetrate even with heaps of lube, this tends not to be very comfortable for the lady or the guy.... A good firm snug fit is always best from my errr, experience :/ Since there's only one way to find out it kinda goes without saying it's a bit like chook lotto... You don't exactly see ladies on dating sites saying "Hey, I'm open!!, Try me" as if it's like Cinderella's slipper or something... LOL!! One of the many things that make women so mysterious mmmmm ;) G x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm easy loose or tight I won't throw it back.
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dubbadeez
11 years ago
So does the question now relate to a smaller penis too? i.e tight vagina with large penis = uncomfortable if not aroused enough. Tight vagina with small penis = comfortable if not as aroused and therefore the feeling of loose. Mr D likes a loose vagina and works me up before actual penetration.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Come_Hither' Luckdragon23, I have heard that argument before, and it seems a little all inclusive and, um, a bit too PC for me. Appealing, yet it doesn't fit with my experience, and doesn't ring true for me personally. There's always at least one...The points I raised were not an 'argument', they were anatomical facts explaining how a vagina works. Unless the women you have slept with are some sort of physical anomalies (in which case I suggest you get them to a university quick smart so they can be studied and have journal articles written about them), then their vaginas will have the same basic anatomical make-up and will work in basically the same way. I presume you did not read the article I mentioned, or have ever read any other similar article / text / book / leaflet / stone tablet. You may think that your personal perceptions are facts, but actually they are not.As for what you mean by an explanation of anatomy being too 'PC' for you I really have no idea, and frankly really don't care.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Luckdragon23, you couldn't base a point of view on the fact that all women's breasts have the same anatomy and therefore should be the same. Basically they are, but to me, it is obvious there is so much variation in size, shape, nipple shape, areola size, colour, pertness, sagginess, squishiness, fullness, etc etc etc. I have stated an observation and a possible amendment to the conceptual model you have presented, and also commended you for the considerations you have presented. The points were pertinent. I don't see how a reference to a stone tablet or university studies on women as anomalies are helpful to an open discussion on the topic. People are people, in all shapes and sizes. My opinion is that unless it's a problem, it's not a problem. Reverse Kegels are recommended for birthing women in last stage of pregnancy (from my experience) which may possibly help if there is an anatomical issue, and/or all the points you have raised about safety, comfort and arousal. I can't take it personally, but try and be constructive here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a male comment. The entire comment is "Tighter than a fish's arse and that's water tight." It refer to a woman's vagina, of course.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'raingod' It's a male comment. The entire comment is "Tighter than a fish's arse and that's water tight." It refer to a woman's vagina, of course. could do , but also to a person that does not like to spend money
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RHP User
11 years ago
After my filthy whore ex destroyed every bit of beauty and feminism frpm her pussy by fucking & fisting as many random strangers as she could (100's and 100's of different guys each year for over 20yrs!) It was destroyed in every respect, it looked ghastly and was basically just a big gaping hole with plenty of loose hangy dangly skin flapping out everywhere. I'm no.small boy downstairs but by the end it was so pointless fucking her as there was zero sensation which left her searching and shoveling in bigger and wider gaping dildos just to hit the sides...I'd avoid and wank to porn. Girls, do the excercises, but really just respect yourself just a little and look after what can be a beautiful thing..... Until it's had over 1000 diseased coveted strangers banging and fisting and trying to insert lamps and other small pieces of household furniture in there ugh!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Wow @ AKinkyLad.... thats not the first time youve vented such poisonous venom towards your ex..... .......are you sure you're ready to be here?! Really?!!!! Personally.... I think you need some professional help. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Wow @ AKinkyLad.... thats not the first time youve vented such poisonous venom towards your ex..... .......are you sure you're ready to be here?! Really?!!!! Personally.... I think you need some professional help. DG now your DR DG, with your cyber couch the guy has a point, about his view of things, pardon the punhe is telling it like it is for him. show a bit of respect
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
LadyT.... you might like to read his comment in Loose Versus Tight topic... page 6. You can apologise to me later DG
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
(the topic I meant was Close Up Vagina Pics)
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RHP User
11 years ago
with DG..?kinky lad has posted st least three similar rants and on the vagina pics thread I suggested that he may need some help.....nobody could possibly show respect to someone who posts such vitriol...Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
seem so extreme that it could also be an excuse for very black humour.....small items of furniture and table lamps:-) :-) :-) gives a whole new meaning to occasional tables xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bitter much? Sheesh ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
"don't talk while you're down there because you'll freak out at the echo" type vajayjays. I've never had a complaint.
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RHP User
11 years ago
any pussy where there's no need to strap a paling across one's arse has to be good...
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I wonder if her name was Victoria lol.... what do you reckon, LadyT? ;-)
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madotara69
11 years ago
xxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Take a loose pussy over a loose cannon any day.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To be honest i like how it starts off tight and my job is to make it loose mwahahah. Most men would not care , they are just happy to be around one, loose or tight !!!Men hey
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meh if it felt good for you then that's all that matters right?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
.... is that what your proctologist said?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I dunno....did you??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my experiences, women with the smaller hips are tighter/smaller at entry but narrower/deeper inside, whereas the ladies with the wider bigger pelvis/hips have a larger opening with more room inside., the latter being my strong preference. gazpacho51 described it beautifully ,, theres no such thing as a loose pussy !! just a lazy one.?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'luvsilver' This one time I was with a young lady.She had been flirting all night with me so once we got back to my place it was on.We were in the lounge when we first kissed.I hoisted up her dress and bent her over the couch.As I first entered her I noticed she was incredibly (almost too) tight but seemed to be into it as she made a groaning noise and her toes were curling.I then realised she still had her pantihose on. Mr Luvsilver That's hilarious
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