Lost my threeway virginity

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Well your willy is only a small part(hopefully not too small) of a fun encounter. You still have 2 hands and a mouth to pleasue your couple. (If it was a straight mfm, you only have to focus on the lady anyway) Like Meander said, you just dont focus on the flat tyre. Nothing more frustrating than a guy who gets angry at himself for not getting hard, and putting a stop to any more involvement with the partner/s. Your couple sound like very considerate people who know that there ismore to 3ways than just a stiff willy.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Not uncommon m8 if it's your first time and encounter with a threeway, Putting preasure on yourself to preform never works so you just need to relax and savor the moment. You'll find the first time is all about working out how you all bump and grind. Practice makes perfect so they say. It's about feeling comfortable around other's. Am sure if given another chance Mr Percy won't have a issue. But hey those little blue pills work a treat.lol 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  A foursome I had with a couple and a single guy. The single guy had that issue but nobody made him feel bad about it and everyone still had a great time. It's very common OP, particularly for guys new to threesomes and group sex, and most people are very understanding about it.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Hello forum people. We have just been lurking and reading the past days. Nice exchange of ideas and trading of banter on here. Based on our experience, the more comfortable we are with our playmates, the less pressured the male half is to perform, and ends up with the best results. For a first meeting though, we have had used the help of technology and modern medicine to be able to perform and just make sure that there are no performance issues. :)

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  madotara69

  8 years ago

  it's only a problem, if you don't have an answer. You were nervous, no problem, nothing to be embarrassed about, because you were nervous. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  The problem once it manifests itself can embed itself in the mind for ever more. Happened to me when l was 13 trying to lose my virginity to a girl. So l moved onto guys first and took 5yrs to overcome it with girls. Anyway, back to your problem. To overcome your mental demon now that you have it, is one sure fire method. When playing in a group or 3some scenario take a Viagra. Viagra is partially physical but provides a tonne of mental support and relieves you of overthinking of performance. Use it at least for your next hookup. Get success under your belt and become a pornstar. Then the next time after that, dont take one but carry them. The thought that you have them as a backup works. And if still floppy, take one. 30 minutes later, pornstar. These things are not just for oldies. I've given some of my playmates one and they work in a short space of time.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I hope that doesn't happen to me tonight. I never thought that my fella would not preform on command. Will just have to wait and see..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Thanks guys for the advice. Much appreciated - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Happens all the time with new people to the scene. Can take a bit of getting used to being naked and having sex in front of others. So you are not unusual or alone it having this happen to you. Next time hopefully you will feel more comfortable. :))

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  OkeyDoke45

  8 years ago

  The one time I encountered hesitation was with my first couple and the hesitancy was from the male of the couple. It was his first time as well and he was highly embarrassed to expose himself in front of another male. Was that part of your nervousness OP? Particularly getting erect in front of another man seems to be quite the obstacle for a lot of blokes. Like everybody else thus far has commented here, we all just slowed it down and took the time to relax around each other, we just eased into it and stepped it up whenever it seemed right to do so. It took a while, but we were fully riding the debauchery train to Pleasure Town with some persistence. It's perfect at the end of round one when you have that ''kick back, have a laugh, get your energy back, the awkward fiddling is all done and there's nothing left to be shy about'' vibe between you all. Hope they invite you back again to give it another go, threesomes are amazing fun, I almost prefer them to one-on-one. So hard to set up though, try to hang on to a willing couple for as long as you can. Message your couple back, apologize for the first time and say you hope they can give you another chance.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I had that problem also , you're not alone. I can say that viagra doesn't work at all for me- all I get is a headache afterwards😩 I was made to feel comfortable by the people I was with and still had fun until my guy came to the party(better late than never) Try a cock ring , I find it works a treat. Gives you a boost if you need it and some extra thickness. I keep one ready now just in case😉

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