M40
Lots of bad luck!
August 06 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
You just have to hang in there and don't give up.Believe it or not your dilemma is shared by women too.Your attributes are great.If you could just put in there.."ability to have an intelligent conversation with a woman without picturing her naked"...you'll be on a winner in no time.Well,it works for me anyhow.I'm not a prude either.If you have seen a sexy pic of a woman on here and you get to meet her,forget about the pic and keep your mind above the neckline.We appreciate that...a lot! Good luck honey. Deb.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know but they do. ...Just something to think about. hehehehehe
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RHP User
12 years ago
This site sucks for the average person (you and me), but good things happen here like 1% of the time. I thought it may have changed but it hasn't. It's good for men who are tall and are built like the hulk because that's what most of the hot, model like women on here would love to have a fantasy fuck with. If thats what they like then it's their choice of course it's just sad for us.. don't get me wrong we all have our preferences and you can't force someone to change that it's just how it is.There's a small percentage of women on here that are actually nice. The rest think they deserve better and they know they deserve better especially in our age bracket actually probably in our age bracket (23-35). It's you're 35-45 you got a better chance on here.It's kinda disappointing but you gotta keep trying, but even the women you want to fuck won't be here because they have a different mentality and plus it's Australia.. australians are slow and stubborn at mass adopting new technologies. Online meeting just isn't "in" like it is overseas, eg America. Yes it happens here but I think most people in melbourne particularly are scared and yes it's a scary world out there no one wants to meet a whacko.I think if I were you I'd just go clubbing/bars. Or if you reckon you can get it on here, lose some belly fat, go on roids, get a tat and come back like arnie and sweep up most of the women here. Just go to the brothel for sex (i'm low on cash). You get to fuck her, chose who you want to fuck, fulfil some fantasies and don't even have to take her home. If I had enough cash I'd prob just call up some escorts, would be cheaper and less stressful and they actually wouldn't waste my time.Mean post but I'm just saying how it is hopefully someone can prove me wrong!
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me the V can is not exactly attractive, try your face up and your cock in your pants or in your private gallery for the ladies to see if they want it. yes nice guys do often finish last, and same for women Bad boys seem to attract women , I know cause I like em myself but I like em to use and then put them back to their bad boy boxes Keep at it kiddo its a numbers game
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RHP User
12 years ago
The pics need updating though. I guess they are all cock shots because as a guest I can not see them at all. It just takes patience and persistence basically...you keep messaging and eventually someone will message back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is not a long time Magpie,it means you are taking time to find out what you want and who you want to be with.It sounds like you have a great group of friends,perhaps next time you meet a woman you want a serious relationship with,don't rush and if you don't entirely trust your own judgement get feedback from your friends. Take time to really get to know her,before you leap in.Consider how she acts rather than believing just what she says. Good luck and I hope you meet lots of lovely women,they do existx Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey magpie, Never play the victim on this site - just never works. Male or female. Don't have to be the bad guy either, just be confident and respectful.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just read Mischevious post - agree with him :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Woman like bad boys because to date thats all their equipped to deal with, nice guys are scary and unfamiliar and whilst they would love to go there they park you in the "good friends" lane instead.Don't sell out your niceness just ramp up cheeky and cocky with a splash of indifference and by the time niceness is rubbing them in warm oil and cooking them breakfast it's too fucking late !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think it's a place the vast majority of us have been at some of maybe many points in our lives. It's easy and very natural to get downhearted in that circumstance. Three years ago when my marriage dissolved, I was there myself. Keep your chin up. Find one thing you enjoy doing, walking, playing an Xbox game, watching a DVD, having coffee with a friend, and whatever that one thing is try and do it once a day even if you don't really feel like it. Yes, as the saying goes....nice guys finish last. BUT, they finish and they finish with their heads held high, with integrity and being able to look themselves in the mirror each day. I have dropped this a few times recently in posts, but Shakespeare got it right about 400 years ago..."and this above all else, to thine own self be true." I don't see you as a victim, just someone who is having a rough time and things got on top of him! And remember if you're the nice guy and end up "just as friends" you still made a friend, and when you do end up really connecting with someone then you'll really really connect. I am pretty sure I have the moral courage to fall for someone again, I know I have the capacity and it certainly sounds as thugh you do as well. I'll leave you with another quotation that helped me through a few dark days, this one is from Winston Churchill......"Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. Mather courage to continue is what counts.". It gets better!
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RHP User
12 years ago
50zcool nailed it, lad!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm a nice guy and I'm in the middle of the pack LOL..Yeah.. and drop the victim shit.. (hang on, 20 other people already said that)..
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RHP User
12 years ago
What 50zcool says..I blame the women LOL..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello all, Thanks forvthe comments, much appreciated! Realize I was coming off as the victim, was not what I was going for, was just genuinely confused. The advice is great, love the quotes... Mostbof which is being implemented as we speak! Bestvof luck to everyone in their adventures!
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RHP User
12 years ago
shit !!! have my comment and bloody computer erased !!! good because I was quoting dicinabox .you are lucky man!!!.and if you think there are no good ladies here you are wrong !!! as there are lot of ass...s same in woman.but I am the exception I must say.I was not looking for just humping every MAN who told me " you are so beautiful " or " I think you are just what I am looking for " you know what? dont give a dahm.I choose and I think I deserve the best.and by the best I mean a well mannered person , tghoughtful and intelligent , why should I compromise in that , does that make me a bitch? I If I think must be someone to suit my lifestyle and values, I am wrong? dont think so.just I think the key to find the right person is to be honest with yourself and be clear in what are you looking for and dont compromise, if someone said " looking for fun " dont expect is going to suddenly turn in to your soul mate ( maybe I am wrong ) .loveablemagpie .KEEP ON GOING !!! time is nothing , take your time, choose carefully and it must work for you, be honest and you will attract the right one!!! If I didnt found the one , you will be the one I could choose to go out with, ( age gap though......) .anyway I met my man in the site and guess what? he tick all the right boxes!!! good sex is a bonus.. . and he knows I stilll enjoy the forums , my right .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr 50zcool . spot on!!! I stopped being too nice and went more straight in was I was looking for and what I really dislike.I got the right man for me !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
50z' not the only canibal around here. Nothing I like better than eating a good woman.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' 50z' not the only canibal around here. Nothing I like better than eating a good woman. Touché
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RHP User
12 years ago
... they sure do!! This is a Bad Boy truism, of course. But think carefully lads! This actually means that the so called Nice Guys are still playing, having fun and often being way more ... well ... everything, while the Boys are off bragging to their mates or looking in the mirror.Bad Boys are just that ... boys. A real Nice Guy is mostly a bit older, a bit wiser and is a ... man.A man picks up where the boy leaves off.ps. from Wikipedia - According to an article in The Independent, there is a "dark triad" of personality traits associated with naturally occurring 'bad boys', consisting of narcissism, thrill-seeking, and deceitfulness. The publication observed a correlation between the 'bad boy' archetype and psychopathy.<2>
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your name seems a little incongruous with your message.
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