M55
Lucky or strange?????
February 17 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
you find what you are looking for and it doesn't affect your marriage,then you are indeed very lucky.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't call it strange, a little unconventional maybe to most married couples , but if there is a regular partner, and wife agrees to it, then you're very lucky!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're strangely lucky, perhaps :)Although, either you're making light of the negotiation / consultation process you had with your wife, or you guys are awesome communicators, or there is an iceberg out there with your name on it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does she really mean it?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would say strange, lucky............ and somewhat clever.
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RHP User
12 years ago
does she also get to play with others while you are away.I don't wish to insult you OP but have you considered that sexually she is just plain bored?.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unless you are currently seeing others separately when you are home without issues then doing it while away even with permission is going to cause issues. I only know one other couple in real life this has worked for and 3 or 4 that ended in a disaster of major issues. Mark and Vixen- Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
12 years ago
You dont say her age so I will guess 40 new studies show women are losing there sex drive earlier mostly due to diet. We tend not to eat fresh veg-nuts-fruit presevatives are a big no no as they stop food breaking down in the body and stop vitamines and minerals from being absorbed and that is why women some are losing there sex drive THERE COULD ALSO BE A MENTAL ISSUE as in no longer love... If she is asking you to go greener pastures then there is a problem and if you still love her then find out the problem.. My ex and I se eachother every 2 weeks but still bang our brains out and we no longer are in love. You have to reach her mind and heart then she is yours---one hopes..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ask yourself... Why is my wife feeling pressured upon my return?? There is a reason for her feeling that way-find that out first before play time..and then you'll be one LUCKY man!! Are you really sure you are both great communicators all is good to play?? Hummmm Before you jump the fence because it looks green ( there maybe a sceptic tank) make sure your side of the fence has no sh*t... Most women won't put up with crap from married man...too MESSY!...just sayin. There's nothing wrong with open marriages or adding extra person.. You've taken first step by seeking other opinions. :-) All the best...my LUCK be with you. FOXY PS- I don't do men who are married so please don't send contact. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Read and keep upto date with Forums being a newbee... You will learn and be educated so much from others... Welcome OP :-) Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry , but I cant help but think you're fishing here in hope someone puts their hand up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I put my hand up for "NO" contact...Does that count??- Posted from rhpmobile
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blond_gypsy
12 years ago
I really hate to be that cynical guy, but I'm going to be for a sec. Has it occured to you that she's already been...around town a little? Sorry, hate to be that guy but if you're working away all the time and she suddenly gives you permission to sleep with others its a possibility.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What does your Wife get out of this Deal ? Is she allowed to Play with others too ? Or , is she already Playing ?- Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
12 years ago
would you like to borrow my opener instead of prolonging the inevitable.Never seen it work and I have been in the FIFO industry for many years. However, if your marriage is open and honest and you are TRULY still in love with each other UNCONDITIONALLY then good luck. Watch out for the rabbit though, they're not tasty boiled.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' You dont say her age so I will guess 40 new studies show women are losing there sex drive earlier mostly due to diet. We tend not to eat fresh veg-nuts-fruit presevatives are a big no no as they stop food breaking down in the body and stop vitamines and minerals from being absorbed and that is why women some are losing there sex drive THERE COULD ALSO BE A MENTAL ISSUE as in no longer love... If she is asking you to go greener pastures then there is a problem and if you still love her then find out the problem.. My ex and I se eachother every 2 weeks but still bang our brains out and we no longer are in love. You have to reach her mind and heart then she is yours---one hopes.. Id like to see these studies you are talking about!! Have you noticed how many 'active' 40 plus women are on here?? and how many are getting chased by younger men??? Way off base!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I see a hook there is some line oh and there is the Sinker. I may be off course here but if all you say is True then I say that is Really Sad and your likely to be in a spot of trouble. Now I don’t know you or your wife but it certainly doesn’t sound very good from my chair. If you’re not advertising for a quick Shag well best of luck and happy hunting, however if your wife is in fact saying go bang yourself crazy just don’t tell me then what is the point in being together anyway. Loveless , sexless marriage I just can’t see this ending well from here. Could always come out and say I don’t want to shag anyone else I only am interested in you … You might just hear what you don’t want to hear ! Again if this is true I think you would already know the answer to the problem Good Luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen'What does your Wife get out of this Deal ? Is she allowed to Play with others too ? Or , is she already Playing ?- Posted from rhpmobile being married to a fifo worker, i am home exausted working full tme and raising kids and the walking hard on comes home no ease into it, its fuck I am so horney I need it right Now I gave him permission to play away, and he did but he fell for another woman and I was glad just over it all ten years divorce and we are back together again, but the deal is, I will not go back to you unless I can have lovers he can do the same, but so far he has not bothered as he gets what he needs at home. when he is home then I am all his. your lucky yes but its a two way street if you want it to work. so if she gets an itch then let her scratch it. if your doing the bullshit, my wife knows then your shuffling deckchairs on the titanic
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ding26' Quoting 'chevtrek' You dont say her age so I will guess 40 new studies show women are losing there sex drive earlier mostly due to diet. We tend not to eat fresh veg-nuts-fruit presevatives are a big no no as they stop food breaking down in the body and stop vitamines and minerals from being absorbed and that is why women some are losing there sex drive THERE COULD ALSO BE A MENTAL ISSUE as in no longer love... If she is asking you to go greener pastures then there is a problem and if you still love her then find out the problem.. My ex and I se eachother every 2 weeks but still bang our brains out and we no longer are in love. You have to reach her mind and heart then she is yours---one hopes.. Id like to see these studies you are talking about!! Have you noticed how many 'active' 40 plus women are on here?? and how many are getting chased by younger men??? Way off base!! I am eating nuts...does that help? they are just attached to a guy is all now where are my hormone patches...thank godfor hrt
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RHP User
12 years ago
Chevtrek - I have to agree with Ding26. I can only speak for myself and my other single female friends. If anything our the libidos have gotten stronger. There are so many reasons why women over 40 enjoy and want sex more. It's my friends that have been in long term marriages are the ones that are losing interest because they are bored. _______________________________________________ OP if your wife feels pressured for sex when you return then maybe it is your approach that puts her off. You still need to make her feel good and desirable and not just someone there to provide a service for you. If the passion is gone then you need to try and bring it back. Otherwise, like others have said, she may have already found her excitement elsewhere. Luck or strange? ..... I think you need to figure out how to please your woman (what stimulates here mind and makes her happy). You must have heard the saying "happy wife makes for a happy life". It's not always about sex but it may lead to it! SFxx
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
It can work but only if your honest with each other.We have a very open relationship and it works very well you see Mrs Zsuza is what you might call an Nymphomaniac and it does take the pressure off Mr Zsuza to perform.And Mr Zsuza plays away as well so it can work but only if you are both totally honest with each other.Totally means tell her when you are about to play just so there is no surprises when you do tell her later you have played. Tell her first and that gives her the option to tell you NO she dont want you to or go ahead and have fun.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy' I really hate to be that cynical guy, but I'm going to be for a sec. Has it occured to you that she's already been...around town a little? Sorry, hate to be that guy but if you're working away all the time and she suddenly gives you permission to sleep with others its a possibility. Around town a little ?? That is inflammatory not cynical.Maybe his wife is being completely honest with him and the intensity of her libido has waned while his has not and in order to ensure a continued stable family environment for herself, her children and anyone else involved she is prepared to take one for the team so to speak ... losing your libido doesn't mean you stop loving those close to you.It shouldn't surprise you that a majority of the 40 - 60 yr old women who are active on RHP appear more sexually active and aggressive than your wife - that is why they are here! The reality is they constitute a small minority of the overall population in general and are not indicative.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you can pull this off ... you're lucky.If you get caught ... you're dead.Nothing strange about that at all. *bangs the gavel* Case closed...next?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' I put my hand up for "NO" contact...Does that count??- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ding26' Quoting 'chevtrek' You dont say her age so I will guess 40 new studies show women are losing there sex drive earlier mostly due to diet. We tend not to eat fresh veg-nuts-fruit presevatives are a big no no as they stop food breaking down in the body and stop vitamines and minerals from being absorbed and that is why women some are losing there sex drive THERE COULD ALSO BE A MENTAL ISSUE as in no longer love... If she is asking you to go greener pastures then there is a problem and if you still love her then find out the problem.. My ex and I se eachother every 2 weeks but still bang our brains out and we no longer are in love. You have to reach her mind and heart then she is yours---one hopes.. Id like to see these studies you are talking about!! Have you noticed how many 'active' 40 plus women are on here?? and how many are getting chased by younger men??? Way off base!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
and Chevtrack,be afraid,be very afraid,the sexually active and demanding women over forty are increasing in numbers.Their libidos have become rejuvenated by the young lovers they suddenly find between their thighs.,..they are the not so silent any more, majority.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nah , that dont count. You're both good girls ... and smart....
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