RHP

RHP User

F50

MFM

December 07 2012

I have had one MFM experience, it wasn't the best of times, but I think I would like to see if the experience can be better. My question is, how can I go about making this happen and feeling comfortable about the choices I make? Do I go up to a hot bloke in a club and ask if he's got an equally hot friend, a packet if Viagra and a scented candle in his back pocket? Do I meet a guy here, create a casual relationship and ask him to help me fulfil my wishes of two men slaving away catering to my whims and desires? I'm not sure how to approach making it happen. Advice is gratefully appreciated.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi I'd be happy to join in

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Why wasn't it the best of times?? It was only the first time for you, take it on the chin and move on! You need to find 2 men whom are friends, that are looking for a female to have mutual friendship fun with.. There are men here I have found that are looking for MMF but as yet to meet up with both of them, have met one of them Most of all you have to be honest and tell them what you are looking for, set boundaries and rules if things go further, but you all need to feel comfortable with each other for it to work out... Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You seem like a nice lady that is pretty confident in herself, very comfortable, why not try a swingers club?? You can get experience, and have some fun exploring.. Win/win me thinks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And a swingers club is a safe environment. So why didn't you enjoy it the first time? If you are like me you probably want to know at least one of the guys first if not both. This is awesome when you can achieve it but as you say difficult to do. I would never just pick two guys up in a bar or club. That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. So again, in a swingers club you will most likely come across guys who have had experience with group sex so the overall experience could be better for you. Just my thoughts. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    HT and Meeks, Frack me could be uncomfortable to go to a swingers club, having all those ppl around fucking, I know I wouldn't try it although had offers lol it's not for me.... Yes it would be a nice site to see but I'm sure she has a few friends that maybe would like to try MMF with.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I really do wish I could elaborate my answers as eloquently as you just did...agreed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm all for the couples clubs. A much safer option than taking men home, and being in a club makes it easy to wander off if the exploring is not going your way. When looking at men's profiles on here, I check to see if they list MFM as one of their interests. (MMF bi even better!). I'm currently seeing a gentleman whom I knew from the start would be up for a MFM threesome (pun intended). Together we looked for men looking for couples, and we met the most wonderful Italian young man. The rest, as they say, is history!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How many volunteers messaged your inbox after you posted this?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    None at all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Frack_ me you live in the wrong city ,there is only one event listed.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    to find a scene when you have no idea where to start... and clubs are intimidating to me. I find that I prefer privacy. My job precludes a few things, so i have to make sure discretion is a no brainer... plus Darwin is a small place.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm with Frack me....... it's hard enough to find a man let alone ones to have MFM, although this is one of my wishes to try at least once!!   I feel for u having tried but not enjoyed it. If i ever get the chance then i hope it's everything i drem about   Good luck and i hope it works out for u!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    to start an FWB arrangement with a guy that's interested, and then you can run a third playmate past him? Couples have a much easier time finding guys willing to join them for a threesome than trying to find two random men to do so (of course men that actually meet your criteria/standards is a whole extra difficulty level.)Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Inbox bomb a hundred guys with MMF in their profiles who can get to you or you can travel to.You will get two you want, who will fulfill your whimsy. Stupid numbers game!RA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe I can help? I'm not in Darwin just yet, arrive on the 10th Jan but would love to meet up with you :)