MFM No Shows.... Efficient vetting may be the answer!

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  Phoenix_Rising

  4 years ago

  Cool, thanks for the info 👍

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  Write a Testimonial. https://redhotpie.com.au/rjsapp/community?tabId=4 Ms Foxy

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  Sawadee

  4 years ago

  We've had 2 ' both straight , both hand picked and met over a coffee before hand...

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  teamaj2

  4 years ago

  We’ve not experienced the ‘no show ‘since we joined RHP . Very early on in our dipping our toes into these exciting waters we were on another website and very naive . We had a couple ghost us an hour prior met . We had spoken on the phone during the week . Perhaps nerves got the better of them . It happens I suppose . We don’t take things personally and move on . Ax

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  SpicyKale

  4 years ago

  I think a lot of the comments about inviting ten to get one have being in regards to group play rather than threesomes. It’s a different dynamic that I could imagine being intimidating for those new to this. The only no shows we’ve had have been singles, you definitely fine tune the bs meter to pick the married ones after a while. We take the ethical bit of ENM seriously, unfortunately a lot don’t 🤷🏻‍♂️

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  ausbull70

  4 years ago

  From a guys perspective, it's very frustrating to hear about all the pretenders that talk a big game but hide behind the keyboard when a real meeting invitation comes their way. I've heard about it a lot over the years and think it's really bad form. Never make an appointment that you know you can't keep, in fact, don't even make the appointment if you are in 2 minds. Everyone's time is too precious and a couple that puts themselves out there deserves the respect of not being messed around.

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  LittleGiant

  4 years ago

  I guess it depends on how you 'vet' - too much time just chit chatting before organising a meet can lead to things just going dead I've found. Also found single guys to be either A) frustratingly unable to read a profile and completely disregarding everything in it in their initial message or B) all keen on the idea of it but then have no follow-through when it comes time to suggest a meet or to turn up for one that's been arranged. We've been stood up. We've been ghosted. We've had a range of excuses (work, family emergency yada yada) for cancelling, sometimes last minute, and yes while some of these might have been genuine, it more often than not just feels like they've just changed their mind and chickened out. Which is fine, but just say so. I used to meet couples as a single female, so I know how daunting it can be, but wasting someone's time is just beyond rude. Anyway, glad to hear you've had such success! We're still waiting for our success story in that area. Miss Little xx

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  From a guy's perspective who has never stood up anyone before not that I am invited a lot its , men are naturally hunters. If I am not pursuing you a lot chances are will not show up. However I feel couples have high expectations too if both you guys are not in good shape do not expect the bloke to be a model. Realise the more "hot" he is the more options he has including from young single ladies , ladies parties which appear more for a guy because more options. However my personal choice is couples and understand the dynamics involved a lot. To be honest most men in the couple relationships are hugely turned on seeing their partners enjoy BUT sadly the females in the early stages of the lifestyle or mostly are holding back in fear of making their men feel belittled. Having said that my personal preference is couples either FF or MF. Single females yep if you do not get attached but I am yet to meet one who do not.....

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  XXXmenow21

  4 years ago

  Interested here and locals msg us x

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