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MFM for a womans pleasure
April 24 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is ALL about the woman's pleasure. Really? Well I am sure you won't see them high fiving over your back as they spit roast you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haha. Like Ive said before and before that...looking forward to a MFM Mrs_AJ
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll comment on this one, as Mrs L is at work.. Mrs L loves MFM play. What she enjoys most about it is the dominance factor of two guys playing with her at the same time. She enjoys the touching, the kissing, the foreplay and of course the intimate play. She becomes very submissive in a MFM situation, which turns her on immensely. What I enjoy about a MFM play session is watching her, listening to her whilst she is enjoying another guy, especially for the first time. It's not about who has the biggest tool to offer, it's about all three of us enjoying ourselves.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' It is ALL about the woman's pleasure. Really? Well I am sure you won't see them high fiving over your back as they spit roast you. Hahaha, that will teach me to write up a forum at 10pm. What I meant was if it was with 2 straight men I would expect them to not get into a pissing contest with each other, but to rather concentrate on the woman, and not feel the need to exhibit the whole alpha male, hear me roar behaviour.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It had always been a fantasy...... So I spoke to a guy who we had played with and enjoyed and asked him if he had an interest and when I find another guy what questions I should ask. So this is what was suggested; 1. To state whether there is going to be male male interaction, if not are they comfortable if bits touch, by accident. 2. Are they happy to do joint massages (seriously yummy). 3. Time, as in no time constraints :). 4. At what point they wear condoms, you choose if it's during oral or penetration..... My friend had stated that this was actually the first time he had been asked specifically (it had happened at the club for him)............ I had organised sexy nibbles, a couple a bottles of bubbly, which all got used on me.......... I found that I naturally wanted to pleasure the boys as well....... Oh and yes, it was seriously selfish, decadent and delicious.
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOL @ L4Q. I have never had a straight MFM so I don' know, but I suspect that you will have to be with guys who are very comfortable with themselves and not going to freak out if their balls accidentally touch the other guy. hehehe.
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cbdlivin
11 years ago
From the Male point of view I can say for me always nice to be asked to participate. Even though I am bi I enjoy both straight and bi MFM. From the straight point of view I find that accidental crossing of swords can be a worry for some guys but really if you are having some nice fun this will happen and you just do not worry about it. I have been in some situations where the guys can get a little gun shy, but this I believe is usually from lack of experience or sometimes some guys should not participate in a 3some as they will never get over their own issues. As far as a female just wanting to be lavished with pleasure, even with limits..such as no DP, it should not be an issue though maybe a point of getting guys, who understand the concept that the guidelines are set so they just enjoy themselves within the limits. Deriving pleasure by giving pleasure is great and self control should make sure people play within the guidelines.... ps I do not see you as the starfish type..... Bryan
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madotara69
11 years ago
I am straight, it does not matter if another guy is bi. It's all about the teamwork three of us focus on, just a tangled mess with Tara in the middle, but she chooses to be in that place, and just loves to have no control while we do those naughty things that control us all. Pure passion is what it is all about.....(intense euphoric out of this world for a while, fucking) ieootwfaw,f Mado Tara xx
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
How did you organise it?I (MrsParadise) scout the RHP Profiles for guys who fit my bill. MFM is the one area where there's not much leeway for anything but exactly what I want. It's my fantasy therefore I'm seeking someone who fulfils that viisually as the first step. Mr Paradise then reaches out and takes control of the communication - safety factor more than anything-else and so the guest star knows that he's not a doormat or passive in the experience (he's straight when I say passive I mean it in a greater context than in the bedroom). Was it with a FWB or partner at a couples club?Online connection, we meet a 5 star hotel (again my fantasy, my standards) Did you have one with 2 FWBs or 1 FWB and a carefully screened new "friend"?The majority of those having MFM's are going to be couples so neither apply in our case Is it better if both men are bi or straight? Can't say because MrParadise is straight. We feel it's important to connect first socially, make sure everyone gets along. We've met some top blokes who have helped make it a great experience for everyone because of their laid back attitude. We've also met great guys who are a little socially inept but who because I am steadfast on my 'physical assets' criteria that just didn't matter at all. And we've met douchebags who think they're god's gift to the world. Respect is really key - but it flows both ways, men aren't toys they're people looking to fulfill their own fantasies.
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
You took the words right out of my mouth!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a FB who organises things for me. Ive had soo many memorable moments. Its just too hard to put into words what it feels like when 2 or 3 guys are lavishing their attention on you. It seems to heighten everything. There is always one to keep you occupied while the others recover so there will never be a dull moment. But be prepared to be very sore afterwoods :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had always wanted to and was very lucky with the timing of it. My FWB and FB at the time did not hesitate at the suggestion!! Both were straight and neither ever voiced any concerns about the other. They both knew how much I had wanted a MMF and were thrilled to be involved.The thing I love about it is the DP or as Meeka says "spit roasting"!! I truly cant describe the feeling.....apart from primal and naughty!Apart from the DP , yes its erotic having 2 guys giving you attention but at the same time I find it a little distracting .....I find it hard splitting my attention between 2 guys I have also experienced it very recently at a private party with a group I have played with a few times. Again I felt very comfortable and had complete trust in these guys and of course they did not let me down , considerate, gentle when needed and very respective considering what they were doing to me! That would be my main criteria, comfort and trust
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RHP User
11 years ago
This has just been moved right to the top of my fuckit list. Thank you for all of the great responses. You've all given me some food for thought.
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RHP User
11 years ago
one and only threesome so far was a straight MFM. It was with two guys who are good friends and had a profile together. Although they were both straight they didn't have any issues with DP, or any accidental touching that inevitably occurs in that sort of situation. Even though you want straight guys, they both still need to be comfortable being naked around other men and with the possibility of touching another guy's dangly bits, otherwise it will be uncomfortable and weird.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It has been nothing but MFM or MFMMM(straight) none of this sicko mainstream one on one stuff LOL. I've posted before in the cuckolding threads because I too have often always wondered what is going on in people minds at the time, who has planned it, who is really in control, is it for some bizzare sperm harvesting cult etc etc but meh I think I just think about these things a little too deeply perhaps.... it pretty much is all about pleasuring the women and enjoying yourself at the same time and that's about it really Just go for the spitroast first time round perhaps and then at some later point in time when you are comfortable with your surrounding team(read very drunk) perhaps a bit of DP wouldn't do astray just to help the guys out -well that's always been my sicko 'goal' if you like but really some are just not into it at all and you have to respect that. Its like being set a challenge reallySee some of us really do care
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah I enjoy it. I like to look of absolute joyous terror on the face of a first timer. Remember how kids went mental for Furby? OH MY GOD THERE'S ACTUALLY TWO ROCK HARD THROBBING DICKS IN MY HANDS! is a facial expression that is unique. Two in the pink? You wanna practice with a connied 600ml coke bottle for a few times first. RA
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RHP User
11 years ago
Questions for the men:How do you feel if you're invited to to take part in one? - Honoured and humbled! If you're straight does it become a pissing contest or do you remember that it is ALL about the woman, and that you should derive pleasure from her pleasure? - Nope... it is for her pleasure (or everyone's pleasure). It is not a competition to see who can make her climax the most or who has the best technique, it is about making sure everyone has a good time. Do straight men have a phobia about crossing swords? - Some do, some don't. In the MFM I had with my ex wife my friend and I crossed swords and he froze up for a few seconds till he came to terms with it then we carried on. I have heard of guys getting up and walking away and other guys actually becoming more turned on my it. I personally have no issues with crossing swords as it actually can be extra stimulating for the guys as well as the woman. Would you still be interested if the woman wasn't interested in DP, but just wanted to lavish on the buffet of having 2 men. (No, I'm not talking about being a starfish). - Yes, absolutely... if it is about her pleasure then whatever she wants she gets. If it is about everyone's pleasure (my normal stance on things) then again it is what everyone is comfortable with... no means no with no exceptions, if she doesn't want DP then she just needs to say so, just as if the guy has an issue with crossing swords then he needs to say so. It is important to have the basic discussion before playing to ensure everyone is on the same page and knows the limits... make the conversation fun and it won't be so bad to have. And even though I don't have a skirt on.... Questions for the ladies :How did you organise it? - I invited my friend around whom I knew was open to the idea and let the Ex wife initiate things (she and I had discussed the week before so I said I would sort it all out for her)... she did so whilst I was out of the room and when I came back in he was a little startled but then he asked me if I had a problem with it, I said no go for it... then it was a whole night of fun to be had by all (missed the NYE fireworks, but the fireworks in the bedroom more than made up for it). Was it with a FWB or partner at a couples club? - One of my best friends whom I have very open discussions with so I knew he would be OK as well as Discrete and safe. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi! Being a straight male, it is always exciting to be invited. Yet, I always have that lingering thought that the hubby might be secretly bi or is testing the waters. Nothing against this, just that its always at the back of my mind at start. I make it a point to talk to the husband as much as the wife when we meet. Set expectations and boundaries if there are. Usually the husband would say that i can do whatever the wife wants so its never really a pissing contest for us. Lust and passion takes over eventually and i end up gently pinning down the wife we the husband and i have our way with her - but yes, the look at a woman's eyes having two hard cocks for her is priceless.
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