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MILFs - what's the go?
August 02 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
It the natural changes in a woman's body from pregnancy that I find aluring - breast shape and size, more curves. I'm not a fan of the supermodel or porn star shape - give me natural and 'homely' (for want of a better word) any day - Posted from rhpmobile
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rick181au
8 years ago
I can go 2 decades above that, and had fantastic sex.
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lily1970
8 years ago
Battlecat? prefer DOW myself.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think it has something to do with being aroused by experience. That you're going to sleep with someone who's sucked and fucked a lot, knows what they want, and more importantly knows how to pleasure. Which mostly boils down to confidence and control. Young men can submit to a confident, older lover and I think that's the biggest turn on.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're not old at 45. Are you?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Dirty old woman? Demanding older woman? Not sure about that one. :)
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
My headspace is not much different to what it was 20 years ago apart from being wiser...... and apart from when you look in the mirror. Lol. Age has just increased my possibilities. And with guys between 20 and 60 hitting me up, those possibilities are endless. With your heels resting on the shoulders of a sexy young stud, you can be transported back a few decades for an hour or 2. But thank goodness its only temporary dont you think? Wouldnt want to be lost in the past. But its all even out there. Some make a big thing about cougars. But guys can fuck younger and older, same as chicks. Milfs, Filfs, Gilfs......pfffts
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markiii
8 years ago
Us younger people are attracted to older women ... Plus we think we can learn a lot of you women and it's the best sex ever ... I have experienced it my self 😁
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lily1970
8 years ago
CandyDelicious Some of the ladies here came up with DOW....sounds so much better than battlecat..haha and no,I don't think I am old..most days!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some are appealing to the eye, even the situation. All comes down to the moment/s really.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lol young guys just think old girls will be dirtier. ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Battle cat hey? That's a new one, sounds intriguing! ;-)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Her super fund :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Attraction to MILF's I think can be different to an attraction to Cougars. I didn't come up with this myself, but a friend did. And it kind of made sense. A MILF....Subconsciously informs a male a few things: She is fertile, she is strong enough to give birth, and resourceful enough to raise children. So, a primal thing. Not sure how much this actually is the case, but it was an interesting idea. Cougars - well, experience, willingness to try, and a large knowledge base, able to draw from a larger number of lovers as to what can work, being plugged into her sexuality, and a bigger array of sex toys could be factors.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Yes, DOW's became an acronym. It came about in an old forum topic on cougars, where an ex poster called "older ladies" (who are attracted to younger men), dirty. I suspose cougars can be down right dirty in the bedroom, demand sex when we want and delightful out. ;) Ms Foxy
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MeNYou
8 years ago
I tend to sense the ache and hunger or desire from within and that's what gives me WOOD
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precious142
8 years ago
Superfoxxxy...... And how's about: Delighful Older Women Desirable Older Women P
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RHP User
8 years ago
MILFs are generally just hot women who happen to be mothers as well. The MILF is hot irrespective of the fact she has had children e.g. Jessica Alba Cougar is a more aggressive character out on the prowl for some younger prey - a great example would be Miss McGill from Youngblood (Rob Lowe, Swayze, Keanu Reeves), particularly because it's historically accurate as the term arose within Canadian junior hockey ranks _WELL_ before it was a mainstream term. It referred to the older groupies, whereas the younger ones might be "puckbunnies". Who wouldn't want a piece of those powerful glutes n hips - no bias or self-promotion here ;)
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
That too and more! 😝 Ms Foxy
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225Special
8 years ago
I always thought that a MILF was like your mates mum that you secretly had the hots for, and a cougar was an older woman that you didn't know that well. And Foxxxy that was a sexy explanation.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Thank you Ms Foxy xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
beeing younger and not have to lead all the time thats the fantasy and you can go for it and your told off when u go to far its grat - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Promoting Canadians? Although I do like their accent 😉
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hotdelights
8 years ago
Lets see if young women perferd older guys a gorilla in the mist LOL
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
I guess it's up to me to say it 😄 The young guys look at the older girls and think they're easy pickings. Fantasy schmantasy. They just think they don't have to try as hard just to get into your pants. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' Her super fund :) - Posted from rhpmobile and I like your new pic BTW.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Could you be any more insulting towards older women and I dump you in there too Stirry. The "if younger men like older women it must be because they think they are "easy" " may be true for a small number of younger men but the reality is that older women don't want to marry them,have their babies,are experienced and confident sexually. The fact that both of you find the need to denigrate older women is antediluvian at best and misogynist at worst. Now trot off back to your respective caves 👿 Q
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RICSN
8 years ago
Hear Hear Qefenta 1
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lily1970
8 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Could you be any more insulting towards older women and I dump you in there too Stirry. The "if younger men like older women it must be because they think they are "easy" " may be true for a small number of younger men but the reality is that older women don't want to marry them,have their babies,are experienced and confident sexually. The fact that both of you find the need to denigrate older women is antediluvian at best and misogynist at worst. Now trot off back to your respective caves 👿 Q Love your work Q......
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Not that he needs it..... But i took his comment as one of 3rd party. I think a lot of younger males think that way. I'd be surprised if DG held that belief. And i certainly dont.
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RHP User
8 years ago
But implied is that older women are too stupid or naive to figure out the genuine from the "I just wanna fuck". There have been many threads on this subject,many women posting here about the pleasure they get from their younger lovers...and it's not just about sex..so Annie take off those blinkers and listen up Q
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
They are going to tell you want you want to hear. The smarter ones at least. Q. Perhaps im having trouble reading the unwritten stuff between the lines. I must look the sight.....got my bitch panties on and a set of blinkers now. Just need some horny dude to mount up with his riding crop and thrash me to the finishing post.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We older women are too stupid to figure that out...we just melt at all that charm,never thought that we might be hearing what them young'uns think we want to hear..Oh hang on,not just the prerogative of the young. I find it interesting that some older men can't quite grasp why any young man would be interested in an older woman .😎Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
Still waiting for this experience again. Only happened once so far with a lady who was 40 and it was an amazing night!
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1'But implied is that older women are too stupid or naive to figure out the genuine from the "I just wanna fuck". There have been many threads on this subject,many women posting here about the pleasure they get from their younger lovers...and it's not just about sex..so Annie take off those blinkers and listen up Q Did I???? I did the total, opposite, actually. It was obvious that I was being critical of the attitude of these young men... you know.... the ones other topics such as Im sorry I didn't reply to your message because has highlighted. I am sorry that you took the comment so personally... and in doing so think that I was suggesting that older women were not intelligent, or were incapable of making the decision to accept or decline any advances. I expected you'd understand that. But hey........
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
We can apply same principals with young women and old/er men..........good one for Chev to come in on. Chev? You there?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'It was obvious that I was being critical of the attitude of these young men... you know.... the ones other topics such as Im sorry I didn't reply to your message because has highlighted. I am sorry that you took the comment so personally... and in doing so think that I was suggesting that older women were not intelligent, or were incapable of making the decision to accept or decline any advances. I expected you'd understand that. But hey........ Not to me it wasn't But I don't know you so maybe that was the problem
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RHP User
8 years ago
Although I have only been with one, I prefer older women. My reasons are simple - - They know what they're doing - There is less petty bullshit/drama - Some are looking to tick items off their 'to do' list (and I'm all for assisting in these situations lol) - they are more 'in tune' with themselves and their bodies - and they know what they're doing and what they like At the end of the day, there is nothing hotter than a sensual, turned on older woman..... gets me going just thinking about them haha.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Battlecat? what an insult to experienced females
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sweetfrangapani
8 years ago
Just turned 50 yesterday and have no idea what my new label will be??? I am scared of dating younger men due to the fact they will say anything you want to hear to get you in the sack. Maybe that they will judge my body? Also I have no idea how much random unprotected sex without check ups they have had? Will they be on their phone chasing Pokemons while they root??? Just my Q's SF
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'sweetfrangapani' Just turned 50 yesterday and have no idea what my new label will be??? I am scared of dating younger men due to the fact they will say anything you want to hear to get you in the sack. Maybe that they will judge my body? Also I have no idea how much random unprotected sex without check ups they have had? Will they be on their phone chasing Pokemons while they root??? Just my Q's SF Why is your age 47 on your profile?
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RHP User
8 years ago
One thing milfs don't understand younger guys see you as an easy root....how do I know....im male and yes ive been there in my younger days. Few drinks ....compliment or two...the doors open....easy as.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lol Frangipani, how old will you be? A very Happy Birthday to you for the morrow. I've been a MILF and doubt that friends telling one of my kids that their mum is hot has anything to do with what they're going to get out of it. It gave me a buzz at the time. The description of a battlecat that I read didn't mention age but was more about the attitude of the woman. Peachy... older womem
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RHP User
8 years ago
I also found the comment about older women being 'easy' pretty insulting. If anything, as I have grown older, my tastes in men are actually more discerning! I would much rather see a man nearer my own age than go for someone younger, who wouldn't understand my conversational references, tastes in music, or be as considerate in bed. Plus, I am not just here to bonk and tick a box regarding the age of my 'conquest'; I actually like to make a 'connection' with someone. If anyone ever wanted to describe me as either a cougar or a 'battle-cat', I'd give them a jolly good spanking!
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RHP User
8 years ago
and plenty of unappealing fathers... this is sexist crap!
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ross52
8 years ago
I was 23 and green. She was 40, divorced. She invited me for a massage, and that was good, and then she finished by sitting on my erect cock. I was so in my body after the massage, and had let go, and I came right away. It was a shattering orgasm. Her command of herself was the thing. She just did what she wanted to do. So tick, knows what she is doing, knows how to give.
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RHP User
8 years ago
DOW??
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RHP User
8 years ago
This comments thread is gold dust lol
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sweetfrangapani
8 years ago
Thats none of your business
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SexySmart50
8 years ago
There are SO many young guys on here looking for older women- if that's what you're into then you should have no problem finding one!But many of them seem to think we should be grateful they are interested in us!! I'm actually more interested in guys my own age, in case we actually would like to make something of it . :-)
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brissyfun16
8 years ago
Personally it's the experience and maturity that comes with a few more years! My most outstanding experiences have been with older women who's drama free, know what they want attitude is so incredibly sexy! Much better than the almost whinging effect that unfortunately comes with younger women! I can't wait to find another sexy, intellectually and physically challenging MILF, DOW, cougar or Battle Cat (love the term btw) to have fun with!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The ladies are lucky that they get a nice name to be referred to as they age. A lady who says she likes young men is a Milf or a cougar. A man who says he likes younger women is just considered a dirty old man!! 😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can't a guy just like women for who they are no matter what there age is? I personally do like older women because the can hold a proper conversation, they are caring, they know what they want and they are sexy. Sweetfrangapani I think you look amazing for 50! And I'm not just saying that to get you in the sack😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
what the hell is a "battle cat?" surely can't be a human, especially not a desirable woman
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Seemingly some are in such a hurry to jump on a comment, they don't actually read it first before the blood starts boiling. Not the first time.Wont be the last.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Moods and mature women are sexy in their own way, always had a fantasy of spending a night with one. Any takers don't be shy... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree with your last comment. Meh I often am guilty of it myself. But of course, how dare anybody diss the older woman,...... But please all us immature stupid young women who can't hold a conversation and are total whiners, we will just continue on playing hard to get. Lucky I prefer Daddy boyfriends they are just soooo grateful for us younger women who truly appreciate them. :P
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have no idea what the attraction is. I've never really had the MILF/cougar thing going on so I don't have a lot of exeperience in that regard. My friends when I was younger however, I s'pose fit into the neanderthal category you are all deriding. Truth of the fact is many of the younger crowd do think in this manner. It was a common talking point on many a site when I worked in construction. Grab-a-granny my friends used to call it, and they had known haunts they'd frequent on their way home if they hadn't got lucky at one of the clubs we went to. It was all consensual and above board. I think both parties were just after a good time, with no strings and purely physical. I'm not saying this is the only truth but was definitely the practise amongst my friends, and those I've worked with recently.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have no idea ! But come at me ;) i love older women x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I just don't get why everything has to be labelled...cougar, milf, dow....for God sakes your a woman that is has a healthy sexual appetite...if you prefer younger men cool, black men cool, old men cool.....just bit sick of the labeling of people's sexual desires.... My opinion anyway - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'SEXERSIZER' One thing milfs don't understand younger guys see you as an easy root....how do I know....im male and yes ive been there in my younger days. Few drinks ....compliment or two...the doors open....easy as. there's no denying that this is partly true but there are different aspects to it. I'm a realist, so yes, I do understand they come to us because they're going to be looked after sexually, but not just because we WILL have sex with them, it's because they're smart enough to know how amazing it will be. I do have to ask, if you had that little respect for women when you were young, saw them as an easy root, how's that working for you now? Comments like the one you made, and a few of our other regulars here, are often coming from a jaded place, feeling a bit invisible perhaps, missing out on action with the cougars, who knows, but there is certainly quite often an element of sour grapes with those comments, and I always expect to see them within topics like this. The guys I meet are very respectful, very appreciative of the woman's body, young or old, doesn't matter, and they never make me feel old, the ones that do I never see again, but that's rare. Of course there are many deluded ones who think the older women are easy pickings, I have a profile on a cougar site, and that is plainly obvious on there, but it's the guys who really appreciate women and respect them, worship the woman's body, throughout their life, who make the best lovers and who couldn't give a crap what age you are. Sexy is sexy is sexy and I would never meet a guy who I knew had such disrespect for women, just saying
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RHP User
8 years ago
as for the regulars bagging out on older women, they wouldn't appeal to me personally anyway, or a lot of other women, and they know it, there lies the problem. One even complains constantly about not getting any action, any wonder. Here's the thing, we older women get plenty of action and are able to carefully select the respectful ones, and hot ones, we want to engage with mmm lucky us Always good to see the other said female turn up in these topics to bag out on older women, without showing herself of course hmm I like a level playing field and I'm proud to show myself, even at this age, never been prouder. At that age, I wouldn't have been hiding, not unless I had a reason to. Oops sorry, off topic a bit there
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RHP User
8 years ago
So you've 'never' had an interest in older women?
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RHP User
8 years ago
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing better than an age gap and full body woman !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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melbyv2
8 years ago
I'm just a sucker for an older attractive woman who wants to " break me in" There is nothing more sexy than a woman who knows what she wants and has the experience and lust to get it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
40s is still cougar territory. In fact it's probably the majority of Cougars. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
I can feel a told you so bubbling up hahahaha
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RHP User
8 years ago
That is such a Daddy thing to say. 😏 ;-)
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RHP User
8 years ago
everyone wants to believe they're desired but you're talking young guys and testosterone. the main attraction is a pulse. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Older women are far better lovers, they know how to please and they really appreciate/enjoy receiving great orgasims in return Personally it's their higher level of intelligence, no bs approach to sexual encounters I love the most. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ahhhh fuck it... It worked pretty well for Anna Nicole-Smith :) But he was such a slut.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Shamer shaming? lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'd like to know your thoughts...Quoting 'Tommygun0001' Lol young guys just think old girls will be dirtier. ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love being a cougar / MILF/ DOW ..... Bring on the younger men I say ...... They are open to dominance and experimentation - big time I think it's the sexual confidence and knowledge that turns the younger guys on...... Talking from experience 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me the answer was confidence. As a younger lad, (not that i'd ever say no to a beautiful, confidant cougar) it was all about the fact that women my own age were always so self conscious, so unsure of what they wanted, what they liked, what they were doing. It was always a bit of a fumble fest, which was never helped by the fact that I wasnt much better.With a cougar, they're always so sure of themselves, so confidant, able to take control, not caught up in all those silly insecurities, and able to teach, guide, say what they want, and so you how to please them.... mmm so hot!
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codsworth
8 years ago
For me it's because they are a complete woman Scars and all The experimental phase is over They know what they want They know how to get it They know what positions they like They waste less time and know how to keep things rolling with out being told to do so This is all large generalisation I had to teach milfs plenty of things But it's cool because you don't have to teach them every thing from scratch Immature girls are so painful My cock is not a icy pole , don't be dainty with your tongue and dance about poking it , I won't feel anything Get it in your mouth suck it hard , roll your whole tongue around the head Slam it in there, get the party started I have never had to teach a milf the basics I love the mature ladies Always have The experience and a full body It's the complete package The big full tits The thick thighs that clamp you down and force you to cum in her pussy The classy attire The no bullshit communication about her desires They make sex easy So you can concentrate on making it good At least that's my view - Posted from rhpmobile
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fantasy1971
8 years ago
I think Codsworth nailed it.Experience, and knowledge. No bullshit, just raw sex.
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RHP User
8 years ago
My attraction to older women stems from the fact most have been through the b/s of life and in the bedroom it's all about pleasing one another, no games..... And I just find older women sexy as hell lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
They probably will forget how bad I really were and invite me around again lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...a mid-life crisis and move on. Of course we take the sports car, good scotch, Cuban cigars and the 25 year old bombshell seat cover sitting next to us when we go. LG...life's good.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Older women know what they want and they don't play games to get it ;)Oh and they tend to be a little more wild So yeah, please keep coming my way!
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cat_n_the_hatter
8 years ago
It is simply not true that all older women have plenty of sexual experience. Experience doesn't make us more knowledgeable, it's what you do with it that makes the difference.9Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me it has always been the ease of conversation and mutual understanding. The maturity of mind has always been my desirable factor. The conversations I like to have just naturally happen. I was 24 and with a 55yo women from redhotpie for sometime. We went on trips together etc. But I actually think like most people it started with my infatuations for a couple of my female teachers in high school. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touchisgoneski' So you've 'never' had an interest in older women? I've been with older women. I've been with younger women. I didn't have an "interest" in older women as you put it. I never went out chasing older women for the sake they were older and therefore fulfilling a fantasy or set of features in particular if that makes any sense?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hey any beautiful milfs out there that would like to help me out ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hesitant to meet, I must say. But we had a great evening with lots of conversation and I totally forgot the age difference. Thats why you are one of my valued friends now and I still love our conversations. Age means nothing. Whether its a 28 year old or a 70 year old. A connection of the minds is more important to me. I know this is a "Sex Site" but I havent used it to use people for a shag. If guys like the company of older women, wheres the problem? I totally disagree with the "Older women are easier to root" mindset. Ive had younger guys who were happy just to meet for dinner or go to the movies. Too Old, Too Young, Bisexual, Crossdresser, TV, TS,, I cant stand labels and its what we are comfortable with and happy with that counts xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
That I am yet to find a 20 something that has been worth my time, perhaps because I'm not a particularly patient teacher. Having said that, I haven't given up yet. About to road test another next week. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's a shame you're in SA!
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LissnJules
8 years ago
As a Woman in a long term relationship with a younger man i get all the names cougar milf etc. He gets asked questions about our sex life etc. And he agrees more experience more experimental but we click perfectly on every level too. The fact is its not an age thing but a person thing. He is just the perfect person for me age has never mattered. - Posted from rhpmobile
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upforthefunxxx
8 years ago
In my experience I have found Mature ladies a lot more easy going, open and fun.They know what they want and how to give it.Young ladies can be fun, but I just enjoy mature ladies myself
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've never been with a milf but would love to anyone up for it??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
I tried a few youngens early on in my journey and didn't find it satisfying. Now I stick to older
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RHP User
8 years ago
Try me hehe
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
I enjoy the company of younger guys. I find them a hell of a lot more honest especially about their relationship status, most are funny and say it how it is, of course the bodies are to die for and in general a lot more fun. More often than not they're over the high maintenance princesses that give them the run around just because they can and actually enjoying conversation.
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jamesb008
8 years ago
I have always been turned on mentally by a sexy older lady seducing me and her getting off on the fact also that im younger than her, i do love the thought of being bossed around and her sitting on my face for a long time
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LetsGoToBed
8 years ago
A cougar has to be a bit older than 40 in my book. But then I am in my 30's, but even in my 20's I found older women more sexy.
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RHP User
8 years ago
There is something about being with a cougar or milf, it's less serious and more relaxed. If I ever had to chose between a hot mother or daughter I would chose the daughter while fully knowing that the mum would be more fun and relaxed. Haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Painting with a very broad brush, older ladies are more relaxed and cheeky. Its easier to laugh and be an idiot which makes sex with a relative stranger much more fun and makes me want to come back for more. This in no way means that either of us try less or don't pay as much attention to impressing the other but its a more relaxed equal wish to impress that is not as prevalent with younger ladies. As said though I am painting with a very broad brush and honestly its that woman are hot from 18-80, I love women.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Milfs are hot, they know what they want, they know how to get it. Nothing like a dominant milf taking control and using and abusing you
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