RHP

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MILF's... why dont men wanna go there??

May 18 2012

Ok, so ive been on a few of these sites and I've noticed that men always seem to have a problem with women who have had children. After having my children ive had the highest sex drive ever! Is this just me or am i getting this completely wrong??Elle xo Dont forget to vote for this MILF in the origin comp! click this link below! http://redhotpie.com.au/PhotosCompetitions/FACE-OF-ORIGIN-SexcPlayMate4u-100345

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  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    13 years ago

    Sorry Elle, this has not been my experience on here at all, in fact the opposite is almost true the whole 'MILF/Cougar" thing seems huge, i get flirts and messages all the time from guys saying that they want a MILF or guys who are way younger than my preference wanting a "cougar" personally i am not sure that i am a fan of either term as they are both quite stereotypical and really i would rather a guy want to be with me because he is into ME not some 'title' or to tick off a fucket list item.But guess we will see what the rest of the forum peeps have to say about it...........WBYM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I had my kids ages ago. All grown up and left home. Having had children has not been an issue for me at all. I receive messages and flirts for all ages, even outside my preference range.   Are you maybe referring to still having young kids at home? I can understand why that would make some men shy away from meeting. They may be concerned with kids coming into "mum's room" at night after hearing noises or voices? I personally would never visit/play with someone while their children were in the house.   Another possible reason is that they don't want to be seen as the new "daddy"!   I may be on the complete wrong track, just my thoughts!   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When I was more interested than I am these days, all the women I saw/met had children, and of the women whose homes I visited, I didn't meet one child.In my experience I had no problem with milf's.Depends on what you want, all mine were just fb.Though I could well imagine it to be different if you are seeking long term.Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Or you're completely wrong.At least if you've had a kid they know you do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if you can push the right buttons on me, and you’re looking for it...its coming gift wrapped too....irrelevant as long as your female, be you a mother, single what ever but to what level (one night stand, fb, fwb, relationship) depends on other factors too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ive never had kids...went the career instead...but Im with WBYM...definitely get the cougar thing all the time...and no offence but young guys just dont do it for me...(although good g/fs on here have assured me that Im missing out big time by being so selective..so I have to say I am tempted !!)   I truly do not think most men care about your child status.......if you are both up for a one niter, FW,FB situation.....if your looking for a relationship..well for some guys that could be a dealbreaker...but then thats a whole other forum   Nice pic btw Elle ...very burlesque..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Perhaps Elle it is because you state very clearly in your profile,that you are looking for a WOMAN.x Hugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Hesione' Perhaps Elle it is because you state very clearly in your profile,that you are looking for a WOMAN.x Hugs H for that Hesione, I will have to look at pofiles of posters in future, I'd say what a waste of ink mine was, but typed lol

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    i've heard of it....must be you, like you said....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm thinking the OP's post may have been a shameless excuse for some votes. Cheers Felonius....Nope, no vote.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I love having a pussy that's given birth wrapped around my willy. There is just something so "extra womanly" about it. yum....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just an add for the comp.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Hesione'Perhaps Elle it is because you state very clearly in your profile,that you are looking for a WOMAN.x Hugs H hahahaha too friggin funny, but i think you're right Hesione lol ive never had a problem with playing with men and i have 100 kids...men dont care about the kids, only the time you have ....i think Elle its just you because ive never ever heard of any woman with kids having trouble try looking for men and then you might have some luck lol Hugs roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    this wasnt a question....Elle just wanted people to look at her profile so we would vote for her in the "face of origin" comp   nice going Elle....i hope you got the votes   Hugs roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'roxxyrose' this wasnt a question....Elle just wanted people to look at her profile so we would vote for her in the "face of origin" comp   nice going Elle....i hope you got the votes   Hugs roxxy Ha maybe go there and vote for an oppersition - not a nice way to do things Elle, if this is what you wanted, a heading of - would you like to vote for me - would be a far more moral way of doing things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It reads like a job application to me and I am not applying. I have had absolutely no problems meeting men from this site and playing with them in the past. Maybe it is because thier is more to my life than having kids. My children are not an issue and have nothing to do with anyone I play with anyway. Yes I talk about them but only in passing as there is so much more in life to discuss than my kids. Personally I feel the problem lies possibly with you, your profile and any chat you may be having.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The term MILF is degrading ,cougar is ok in small doses. But a sexy woman,they can call me that! No problems here.As my father said women are sitting on gold mines. where there is a pussy there is a way!!!! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Milf,s cougars are nothing more than titles,What matters is what,s inside and there is nothing wrong with having kids. I you,re desires are turbo charged good luck to you enjoy and if a bloke has a problem with you havoing kids find another lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    'MILFs'? yea men do want to be with them.....but its not something you can call yourself without sounding conceited.......... MILF is a complimentary term....it says a guy likes what HE sees......it says the womans attractive, to him....COUGAR, on the other hand, is something any woman can call herself.....but its sometimes used in a way that's not exactly 'complimentary'.....any woman can be a Cougar.....so long as shes over 40 and on the prowl.....its not tho, a comment on whether shes attractive, or not............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    personally i doesn`t bother me in the slightestbut of course its all preference......Simple really.:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'teasegod No problems here.As my father said women are sitting on gold mines. where there is a pussy there is a way!!!! lol(SPITS TEA OUT).....made me smile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    my daughter is in her 20's and I mostly get men from 18 - 33 sending me requests. No I don't meet them and not really interested but love having a perve all the same. Been called a cougar is ok. I just don't wear to many cougar clothes as in animal print. Milf. Who really cares. Really people its just a saying and it goes with the times. I say go with the times or you get left behind. If you don't like it then say it to who ever is saying it to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can see it now, all the guys message the OP and she'll be in here screaming that all men are stupid selfish fucks who don't read profiles because "SHE'S LOOKING FOR A WOMAN!!!!"Is it just me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just because im looking for women NOW, doesn't mean i can make a post about something that i did previously? ill check in with you next time to make sure i have permission Quoting 'Dirtyroughsex' I can see it now, all the guys message the OP and she'll be in here screaming that all men are stupid selfish fucks who don't read profiles because "SHE'S LOOKING FOR A WOMAN!!!!"Is it just me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SexcPlayMate4u' Just because im looking for women NOW, doesn't mean i can make a post about something that i did previously? ill check in with you next time to make sure i have permission I'm heterosexual however if I stood on the Cnr of Flinders and Oxford st in a pair of leather chaps with the arse cut out I think people are going to assume I was gay... Forgive me for being a touch cynical given your unabashed plug for votes