MMF etiquette for single guys

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  well you could take that off? its like the deli counter at Coles. Take your ticket and line up, but don`t stand in front of all the small goods, people like to see what they are getting. Patience grasshopper, the woman will pick you out, she will curl her finger and summons you to the honey pot. apart from that get used to talking about the weather and news in a group of naked people.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Speaking from experience here, the worst thing you can do is think with your dick!.We do seek out single guys from time to time but we do it on OUR terms. Generally we like to see face pics and genuine pics of the guy. Not posing like a cheap Kmart catalogue model and we don't really want to see your dick. That's like buying your own xmas present. You need some surprises.The problem is that the ratio of single guys to those looking for single guys is not in your favour!.... How can you stand out? Be polite, be respectful and treat it like a first date. Don't think with your dick!If some guy is going to have you fuck his misses, he probably doesn't want her treated like a piece of meat. You're there for them, not for you. Don't think with your dick!Lastly and by no means least, have no expectations from you're encounter.. You may not get to fuck her, you may not get far at all... Patience is the key. Do Not think with your Dick!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  You're male.....women assume you already are a seedy fucker until you show them the you.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  From madandruffy... However... Don't allow yourself to be treated like a piece of meat... unless that's how you get off on being treated. You are respectful of the couple and their needs... They in turn are respectful of you and yours... Don't settle for less. Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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  Dimeshreds

  10 years ago

  Some good advice, I feel that I as a single guy I need to put the profile out there due to the ratio and all, so I send e-mails to people with a respectful gesture of my intentions and hope I may be considered for any future interest. What about when you meet? How do spouses like to approach it, should you talk to the guy first or get permission from the girl. I guess it is just a matter of a simple conversation at the start to figure each other out. I would love to get into a comfortable situation with regular meets with a MMF or FFM, I can only try I guess.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  There are some things we look for: 1. A decent profile - short/template profiles all blend together for us, which is essentially white noise. We like a profile that gives a glimpse of personality (and that shows thought has gone into it!) 2. Nice, clear face pics - it's fine if they're in your PG or you'd prefer to email them to us - but if you approach us, etiquette suggests you offer your pics first, and we'll do the same in return. Any sign of avoiding that is a red flag. 3. A decent message - you can scarcely believe it, more than 90% of all messages have the subject line "hey" or "hi". It blows our mind. A unique subject line is the easiest way to stand out. For the message itself, we like some indication that they've actually read our profile. A message doesn't have to be long - we prefer a long profile to a long message. That said, a single sentence won't cut it. Especially if it's something like "I'd like to find out more about you"" when we have a novel written on our profile and they have three sentences! And, well, they're the basics, really. They're no guarantee we'll take it to the next stage, but they mean we'll be more likely to consider you than dismiss your approach out of hand (which we do regularly, because most guys don't meet these very low bars.) Good luck! Mr Tryst

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  Paradisepair

  10 years ago

  Because I do want to see your dick :-p If your pics and profile, float my boat the most important factor for me is follow through, being prepared to meet and keeping the communication flowing. We can't host or meet at the drop of a hat and I am really over guys who once we establish that we'd be willing to meet drop away. Also being prepared to host is a real plus, and part of the dedication to following through.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'sir_stir' You're male.....women assume you already are a seedy fucker until you show them the you.... - Posted from rhpmobile Ha ha sooo true! My advice (based on being lost in the crowd and not selected for a Guernsey - or is that a girlsie??) DON'T be pushy DO something to garner some attention.. say start a thread on MFM.. say wait a minute! Nah, in all seriousness I've no idea how to shorten the waiting list. I've been keen to double spoil a femme in MFM for a while but hasn't happened yet. BTW, as far as no shows it's not just the 3rd wheel. Just this week I had a couple approach me, start a convo (good signs) and offer me their email and mobile, liked my pics and offering me flattery.Replied to text, quick one line reply..Then.. nuttin! No replies, I thought I'll let it go for a few days, everyone is busy. But it appears to have blocked me maybe. Weird. The only chat was on a nice casual level, no mention of sausages and Barbies or anything. Sooo many players out there I just assume most are so until proven otherwise. Good luck chappy and if you find the key to the honeypot feel free to share the wisdom (but of course you won't). LOL

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Show classy pics on your profile, not Assy. Try not to be too forceful in your approach. When you do get asked to join a couple for a threesome, don't come across as a stud and fuck her like a porn star, as this type of action will speak a thousand words and you probably won't be invited again.

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  OPNmarriagecpl

  10 years ago

  And learn to be super super patient. Your a single bloke competing for attention with thousands upon thousands of exceedingly attractive and eloquent men on this site. Women and couples have the upper hand here and, unlike in real life, they can take their pick. Constructive suggestions; work on your profile and photos. It does not capture our interest (for example), make an effort with your words and draw the people in. Good luck. Mrs😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Just be yrselves, why should u be the only side out to impress. The couple should also be making you feel relaxed, sexual and needed... Ms C - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Lots fun lots good time am love it any time any days more people mo funny no try sorry for you nothing Better 3 sum or 4sum amazing time

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Lots fun lots good time am love it any time any days more people mo funny no try sorry for you nothing Better 3 sum or 4sum amazing time

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  Mischeviouslad

  10 years ago

  ... you're better off involved i this with friends.... than strangers. IE... people you've already met..... not those you've seen in an internet catalogue... or.... sitting waiting in a catalogue waiting to be picked by you-font-know-who. DG

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  When we do however tasteful pictures regardless of the content are generally a good start.If you look like you've put some effort in to your pictures instead of the flagpole or saggy sausage shots in the bathroom then I tend to take more of a look. If you come across as a Alpha male when conversing with me I tend to ignore that and move on as I already have that and same in your profile if it sounds cocky, can pleasure for hours and hours and hours and lick for hours and hours and hours then that gets ignored too. It does not have to be the most creative OMG look at me profile but it needs content that's somewhat original.

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