M47
Major sex drive problem
January 08 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
She has medication for it....I dunno about the affecting of the sex drive....but I think you need to ask yourself why?? Why do I want to bring the nympho back out in her??? Is it for my gratification or hers???
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you should google and find out more about this insidious condition then realise how selfish and callous you seem. It attacks the immune system, major inflammation, major pain and that is only the half of it, if you could stand in this woman's shoes for just a moment you may think twice about thinking about yourself and you would realise one's sex drive is the least of her worries, sure this is a sex site but a little respect, understanding and compassion for others would not go astray, sorry but you come off as being somewhat selfish and self centred at a time when more understanding is needed
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RHP User
12 years ago
Read what you just wrote all her pain killers has taken her sex drive away Have a bit of a think on those words.....................shes in pain and is taking pain medication accordingly and all you can think about is you !!!! Lupus is a debilitating disease and there is every chance she will never get her NYMPHO back................deal with it.....or move on And have a bit of a look at yourself - cause one day hon, you too will be ill (one hopes when your aged but it will happen ) unless you suffer thru misadventure....and you will realise that one day your health is EVERYTHING..not getting off Empathy obviously is not your strong suite *** Shinas shakes her head - picks up her crutches and limps off to work ...wondering ******
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Lots of things can affect a persons sex drive. Lupus is a horrible condition that needs medication n a very understanding partner. If she is wanting her sex drive back then she needs to make the necessary measures to get it back - see the dr, psychologist, etc etc.. But I do agree with ghostbusters - are you wanting this sex drive back or is she?? If you care for this girl then sex or no sex shouldn't matter
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RHP User
12 years ago
THe meds for lupus are usually steroids which shouldn't affect it, there must be some other reason
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RHP User
12 years ago
...as cynical as it may but did you read your post back to yourself before or after it went up? Quoting 'themikepro' ...she use to have a major sex drive and now she thinks she has something called lupus and with all her pain killers has taken her sex drive away, apparently she use to be a nipho and I would like to see that out of her.First of all, a person does not 'think they have lupus' as this is a disease that is medically diagnosed...lupus erythematosus is distinctly categorized in four groups and among them albeit less common is drug induced lupus which can present with varying symptoms. You further say that she is taking what sounds like a number of 'pain killers' ...who wrote the prescriptions, what are they and why? Just an opinion but I sure as hell would be having a long talk about the primary conditions that may be present and forget about the sex drive or a former nympho now on drugs.
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RHP User
12 years ago
your post a few times OP and I think I will give you the benefit of the doubt.If you care about your friend then encourage her to contact a lupus support group.You can call the Brisbane office of Lupus Australia to find the nearest group,0738789553.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm pretty sure it's never lupus...
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RHP User
12 years ago
diseases like lupus are debilitating and long term. If you are worried bout how this will affect your sex life mate I think you need to think your coommitment to this poor woman. You seem far too worried about how this will affect you. Now go take a deep breath and THINK. Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
I lived with someone with an auto immune disease for over a decade. It's demoralising and exhausting for them, and often all consuming. Having said that, some of the world's top athletes overcome the effects of a range of illnesses to compete at champion levels. Anything could be possible if you (she) wants it bad enough and is willing to do the research and invest in the trial and error process of learning what works. It's complicated and as a partner you might like to think about how you can make the effort more worthwhile for her rather than less. If you become fixated on what you see as lacking sexually, she will likely become resentful and resist the issue. Not definitely, but likely. Maybe now'a the time to explore new, gentler ways of being intensely sexual and passionate together - Tantra has a LOT to offer in this regard. My main question for you is how much effort are YOU willing to put in to seduce your partner again, to take the pressure of her, to make sure she feels like a whole and beautiful woman and not an inadequate sex object? Are you willing to make changes, sacrifice something, improve yourself as a person and a partner, so that you can have a great, sexy relationship? The answers are nearly always in the mirror ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Okay I'm pissed off.... all I'll say on this matter is that I totally agree with GHOSTBUSTERS, DRAGONFYRE2010, SHINASBABE27 and DONTLOOKDOWN. My mother died of Lupus, I was too young to remember if it changed her sex drive but I most definitely remember that she was very very sick and I can understand anyone who has lupus that one wouldn't be that much interested in sex... I better say no-more or I might get offensive.... If by any chance she wants to get her sex drive back and asked you for help on this matter then I apologize and hope you guys will figure something out. Oh, and a question, this girl, is she your girlfriend or a fuckbuddy?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Got your mail, thanks :) Responses are limited, hence replying here! The feeling is mutual :)
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