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Making friends on RHP
July 25 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I have a connection with a person/couple then I would add them to my friends as I am genuinely interesting in hearing about their updates (comes in your news feed)
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Splicey
11 years ago
I wouldn't request to be someone's friend until I've met them. But that's just me
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RHP User
11 years ago
For us we won't become friends with someone on here unless we have actually met them and are proud to be associated with them. Of course we meet plenty of people at parties etc but not all we want to tell people we know. Same with validations, plus we'll only write and/or accept validations from people we have actually got naked with and were obviously happy with it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For us we won't become friends with someone on here unless we have actually met them and are proud to be associated with them. Of course we meet plenty of people at parties etc but not all we want to tell people we know. Same with validations, plus we'll only write and/or accept validations from people we have actually got naked with and were obviously happy with it.We believe people are judged by the people they are associated with in life. Kinda same goes for on here.
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Extra_Spice
11 years ago
When we first joined we had a few friend requests from the friend collectors. At the time we accepted them, but really, are they your friends? They never even sent a message. We had a cull quite a while ago. Fast forward a couple of years and we take a different view - nowadays we have to have met a person or couple before we send or accept a friend request. It doesn't mean we've played with each of our friends, and not everyone we've met is on the list. What it does do though is to reassure anyone interested that profiles on our friends list are genuine.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dude, do what ever feels right for you at the time. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
If people have 100's of friends I totally dismiss them I just dont get it. People in my friends list are there for a reason I get numerous requests and only keep ones I either play with or engage with in written form. Theres the odd I want to as well. I just recently cast off a few no longer around friends :(
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On_Safari
11 years ago
....and use a similar approach. Usually only friend people I've conversed with over extended periods of time. Don't have any fb's on my friends list, who knows if that'll change. Maybe drinks night....
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sweetgem
11 years ago
In my early days on here, I used to have 13 friends on my Friends List, but only a few of them that I had actually met and played with in real life. First I thought it might be helpful to show people, who have viewed my profile, that I was active on here by having some friends on my list. However, I have quickly learned that it was a stupid idea as I attracted so many time wasters to send me flirts and messages. Therefore, I gradually deleted most of them and kept only 6 on my list, with 3 whom I had met and spent some quality times with in real life, and 3 were potentially gonna meet up in person. But lately I had to remove 2 more off my list, because they seemed didn't want to be friends anymore, which I respect their decision, but there is no need to keep them on my list as I see no point.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've either met or had significant contact with everyone on my list. I've bonked some of them but definitely not all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So your friends list is your fuckit list. LOL. My friends are just that, people I have met at drinks nights or I have established an online friendship with them. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the advice everyone. Everyone is different, which in itself, answered the question. I can't help but wonder though, would this mean that a person without friends is disadvantaged? We have played for a while, but are very new to RHP. We get the impression that people assume you haven't been there unless you have friends, or a validation or two is there. Is that true.. Who would you all go for if faced with the choice......a really DTE profile with no friends or validations, or a simple profile that's well connected? Decisions decisions........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71'I've either met or had significant contact with everyone on my list. I've bonked some of them but definitely not all. Same.
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xcentrix
11 years ago
As Mesmerised and Awesome71 'Friends' are people I have meet or would like to meet and am talking too :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'Grabitude'Thanks for the advice everyone. Everyone is different, which in itself, answered the question. I can't help but wonder though, would this mean that a person without friends is disadvantaged? We have played for a while, but are very new to RHP. We get the impression that people assume you haven't been there unless you have friends, or a validation or two is there. Is that true.. Who would you all go for if faced with the choice......a really DTE profile with no friends or validations, or a simple profile that's well connected? Decisions decisions........ They just haven't been here long like yourselves or haven't made any significant connections maybe? Validations aren't always the be all and end all either.... DTE vs Soclally Adept....don;'t think it matters either way, I like down to earth and if we become friends then I can be his/her/thier first, moreover it's the person once you meet them or have conversed wioth them extensively that determines this I think. Welcome guys and I hope you have a great time here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Grabitude' Who would you all go for if faced with the choice......a really DTE profile with no friends or validations, or a simple profile that's well connected? Decisions decisions........ An interesting profile before connections any day.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My friends list is a combination of people I know in real life & we discovered we were on rhp :-) I have sexy friends mmmm the rest are people I would like to be to know more or met on rhp. it helps me to keep track of those I really like and plan to play with given the opportunity. I like to see in my news thread if they comment on something etc, its an opportunity to connect with like minded people :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I've friend req any one it means I'd like to hookup or atleast chat
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well, looks like the judging ruling is in, and the bonked, soon to be bonked, or I want to bonk wins it. Certainly makes sense, although does make me wonder if those with 200 friends feel the same way. I agree with booking in advance, but wow, that's planning.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I initially saw the friends thing as a validation of sorts... Nah ! I would certainly not friend someone that I didn't have a meaningful connection with, and not necessarily sexual either. I'm only here for the forums ! Indagine... You wish... 😛 Hp xo 💌
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