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October 20 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
exactly the same thing. I think some think it is not worth it as paid or unpaid members they aren't getting any. I personally think they would get better results if they stopped to think how good a FB or FWB arrangement would be rather than chasing a lot of women for NSA ONS. Unfortunately they think in the short term when if they found someone compatible they could have many good sessions and spend less time chasing. I think they are just too worried they will get tied down if they got something good with one woman, god forbid!
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6exxy
10 years ago
I just simply understand and apply the laws of attraction differently. I have spoken about this a lot lately. You only have so many ladies here. There is not a flood of women coming on so you are always stuck pretty much with the same profiles. It doesn't change so why pay? There just really is no value there to look at the same profiles.
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RHP User
10 years ago
New sites offering quick and easy hook ups. Increased competition, I think. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are so to the point. LOL They don't know what they missing.
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
I am contemplating coming back as a Guest when my paid membership runs out, as I live in an area with very few members and receive very few replies to messages. I am not concerned about being a friend, or being tied down (I am open to being friends or more). It appears I live just too far away or am just the wrong person. This is fine. I enjoy the forums which I can also enjoy and participate in as a guest, so why be a paid member ?.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agreed FWB is so much better than FB or one-nighters and yes I think you are right about men worried about being tied down if they find something good with one woman... poor souls! LOLSurprised to find there are now many more men now looking for FWB in their profiles and stating that they are open to possible relationships with the right person. 12 months ago this was a rarity. Perhaps those that have been around a while have come to realise one-offs aren't that fulfilling.Interested what the men have to say about this. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe they don't need to send any messages if they are getting them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dunno about those ones.... But I still remain paid up so I can message the odd one or two that takes my eye..... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone knows there is pussy galore here. Why settle on one when your a penis butterfly a penis can be like a heat seeking missile, and the fact is new pussy always tastes so much sweeter, umm that is if they ever go south of the border......down mexico wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, now where is mah Tequila If it aint working when they pay, then there is no point for them to keep going at it. I cant say I blame them one bit. They just hope some one responds to their flirts.
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6exxy
10 years ago
You are talking the talk again 😀😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are right about the FWB or FB scenario. That's the only way.. I'm not going to pepper someone ego by allowing them to flick me for no real reason except they can ...
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
I was just trying to find back a posting that roughly covered some of the answers you would have been looking for, but couldn't immediately find it back in the lists. There has been an increase in new guys on here of late, so they may just be testing the waters for the initial period. I can't answer for the younger set on here on how they operate, but as been recently discussed elsewhere, for the greater majority of guys here over the age of around 45 (consensus view), it just ain't worth it to be a paid up member, as in no action coming our way. Between the lack of action, and for those of us who previously enjoyed getting into the chat rooms (which has been monumentally screwed up), it just isn't worth the dough any more. We can just as easily come into the forums and have a chat and exchange views and still 'mingle'. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was talking with my partners friends about FB , FWB & NSA situations just the other day. They (all 3 of them) were of the opinion that they are all one and the same and adding to that feel that meeting women is easier in real life situations than on the net.Perhaps this could explain why men don't see any value in paid membership?
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RHP User
10 years ago
It seems pretty pointless to be a guest in here as a male. Apart from the initial scoping of the site perhaps. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'YandM'I dont need to worry about sending messages as I get too many. Is that happening for guys too? Are you trolling? I think that not paying for a membership cuts men's chances in half. However, if they feel that means reducing their chances from a mere 4% to 2%, it may not matter to them after a while.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But true. Maybe that's why it's funny... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meander. There are also much, much better places than this, where women often make the first move... I would have thought that as a hetro male guest that your contacts per year would be about zero in most cases, gay or bi would see a bit more action though. The saving grace of rhp is the forums... Somewhere where your personality can shine (or burn in hell... Lol) and that can create a few contacts. Hp xo Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I used to be in the forums a lot previously so will start making more contributions again. I missed all the chat. Looking forward to meeting more wonderfully openminded and genuinely lovely people again. Cheers everyoneLG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm just a tease, that's why.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Meander. There are also much, much better places than this, where women often make the first move... I would have thought that as a hetro male guest that your contacts per year would be about zero in most cases, gay or bi would see a bit more action though. The saving grace of rhp is the forums... Somewhere where your personality can shine (or burn in hell... Lol) and that can create a few contacts. Hp xo Because you're worth it... I don't get time to make a move as I am answering all the flirts and emails from guys. If I was a guest, even the guys who sent a flirt would not get a message back and then if they can't message and I can't message then we are screwed. I prefer men who know what they want and how to get it anyway so I am not inclined to email guys unless they are a real stand out but most of them don't even bother filling out their profiles and putting a picture up.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'YandM'I dont need to worry about sending messages as I get too many. Is that happening for guys too? Are you trolling? I think that not paying for a membership cuts men's chances in half. However, if they feel that means reducing their chances from a mere 4% to 2%, it may not matter to them after a while. ??????
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' New sites offering quick and easy hook ups. Increased competition, I think. - Posted from rhpmobile a tongue in your cheek?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I meant were you taking the piss? Men receiving too many messages, maybe in an alternate universe.
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Funny you mention this, there seems to be a lot of lady guest members too. When I first joined that was one of the reasons I upgraded - how can two guests contact each other, other than via winks. I now find that wink replies are much lower than message replies. But then again im fussy too so I don't do random messages generally..
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erotictouch4u
10 years ago
I was a paid member for a number of years but as the years go by, women of my age group are increasingly seeking the younger members rather than the more experienced, considerate older gentlemen. Such is their choice and their right which cannot be held against them by anyone.But, why pay for a smorgasboard when there is only one delight you may wish to taste ?So I stay as a guest to enjoy the forums and await that one special delicious morsel to land on my plate. ET xox
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RHP User
10 years ago
In terms of picking up if you're a man - Real life or Tinder is the way to go less mucking around. Although the forums on here keep me coming back... had many a laugh and discovered the most ridiculously obscure facts that one does not learn in day to day conversation !!
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TipTippington
10 years ago
I have had more replies and got more friends being an unpaid member with no photo than having a full membership and a few pics. says a lot. - Posted from rhpmobile
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