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Male Virginity

August 14 2014

Here is one for the ladies! I was chatting with a mate (male) who is still a virgin and is 25yrs old. He is worried this is gonna affecting his ability to get laid. I have a few questions... 1.) Do women find that attractive or is it a complete turn off. 2.) What age did you lose your virginity and was it everything you imagined it?

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RHP User

10 years ago

1) Attractive, certainly not a turn off, more of a one off in this day and age! But thats my opinion. And you know me..... 2) I was 15, and it was def not what I expected, no. Read too many Mills and Boons back in the day. (Sugary sweet stories about love and passion) So, not one for the Memory Book.

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Missb4u

10 years ago

1. A bit of a turn off as I would hate to have that responsibility of taking his virginity and making it special. 2. I was 14 -15 and it was very special and I wouldn't change it at all. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

I was 19 before I gave my virginity to a gf.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsSuperFoxy

10 years ago

There have been many forums on this subject..and many have disappeared into thin air. There are people out there who "may" find it offensive chatting about underage sex. Just saying..... to answer your question, I think some younguns get on her and take the piss out of this site looking to loose their virginity, cause apparently "Everyone's doing it" (as per home page advertisement). 😎😊 Foxy

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Tall74nHard9

10 years ago

25 yrs old and still a virgin ...pfffft.My former brother-in-law is in his early 60's and still hasn't cracked it ! Absolute truth. Tall

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Hottie1

10 years ago

I was 22 when I lost my virginity and he rocked my world then and he still does. We have added spice by playing with others now. He was only 19 ( he liked his women older) and more experienced than me, I preferred it that way. I like my men to know what they are doing! Mary xx

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OPNmarriagecpl

10 years ago

That would be a turn off for me (Mrs). Didn't realise people waited so long these days...... Is there a reason behind theong wait?? We were 16 years old when we lost our virginty to each other. This was relatively the norm in our high school. Some women may find it a complete and utter turn on though if they wanted to teach him a few tricks. - Posted from rhpmobile

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OPNmarriagecpl

10 years ago

Yes it was all that we expected; hot, sweaty, slightly fumbly but very very special and we reminisce often. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

I was 26 and he was the only man for me for the next 14 years. I don't find virgins a turn-off but would prefer an experienced man, although I wouldn't mind being a teacher either :P - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

I didn't get my first GF until I was 25, so hence yes virgin at 25. My answer to him, is that when he meets the right girl it's not going to matter, hence the right girl. Biggest problem for me was simply confidence, I'd plenty of girls lead me up the garden path, and so by 24 my confidence was a complete shipwreck. Girls in my experience don't care so much whether you're a virgin, it's just whether you're confident in yourself. My guess is if its like my situation, its that factor that will affect his ability to get on with a nice girl. I grew up a good church going guy so only fished in a small pond which didn't help my chances. But my first GF was also a virgin, and we enjoyed some naughty things together, but due to a few things I'm not going to get into on forum I'm still "technically"... But one thing I can say is, if he's only talking to girls in the hope that he might get a root, long term that game plan isn't a good one to bet on. He's far better off approaching it with the attitude of just "I'm going to get to know this girl with no motive for anything else and just find out about her" - she might like him, she might not, but girls can definitely smell desperation, so if you're in it for anything more, they will run to the hills. Taking the genuine get to know them approach will at worst mean you got to know someone, and you're just calm and collected and genuine, your odds are much better... I've made a few generalisations, but that's my two cents..

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Slow_at_first

10 years ago

@ausmtv. Similar story to mine as I was 24. And dead right about girls sensing the desperation. And worse was that I subsribed to the Madonna/whore dichotomy and girls did not want to be regarded as either. Luckily I met someone who still loves me today. Most people in my situation were definitely not waiting as Curiousplay1980 suggests. While 24 or 25 is a bit late and I would not wish it on anyone, I think the key is to make friends and take an interest in them as people first. Don't be judgmental and it will happen naturally.

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RHP User

10 years ago

there's something about the idea that I quite like :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

Initial thoughts....No Bloody Way...!!! Have been pondering thes cenario on & off all day, & it has a def sex appeal...To be a mans first, & to make it anxperience he'll never forget, and strive to bette.....Hmmmmm...Bring it on..!!👄😜r - Posted from rhpmobile

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