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Male strapon sex - fantasy or reality
February 01 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
well my BF loves it, i get wet from fucking him, im in control.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can't speak for any other guys, as its not a topic discussed at smoko' hehehehe For me, I like it. It is a turn on, even more so if the woman is turned on by the experience. Sadly, they are a very rare breed. I have only experienced a dildo, but would like to try a strap on. The visual thought and feeling would be amazing. My 2 cents worth. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey strapon_lady, i would love to try a lady fuck me with a strap on. ive had the odd fingure, butt plug, dildo ect, but i think there is nothing like a chick grabbing me on the hips a giving me a good fucking. if your interested drop me a line
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RHP User
16 years ago
Though i'm not particularly anal i have let two ladies, actually two wives, get at me with a strap on... and i mean get at me lol. I found in both cases the biggest kick i got out of it was that the sexy woman i had known and enjoyed a short time ago had suddenly in her mind become a man and not a gentle one either. Not belittling that, it did make it kinda fun because in both cases it was very obvious they were thoroughly getting off on the scenario and that was pretty exciting in itself. Certainly wasn't for the faint hearted though... probably would have been enjoyed more fully by a gay or truly bi guy. I think in both cases the hubby thoroughly enjoyed watching his wife suddenly turn into a testosterone enraged beast until i cried "enough" so its all good. Its all fun and you'll never know unless you give it a go :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
strapon_lady, excellent question The responses have been so good to read. I believe that there are many men out there who fantasize about being fucked by a woman with a strap-on. It is just taking the plunge and saying so. There is such stigma attached to anal sex for men. Many are curious. Many interested in being fucked by a real cock. To be fucked by a woman with a cock (hence the popularity of transgender women) or a strap-on is not crossing that mental line that is programmed into us by society of male/male sex. The hypocricy of course is female/female sex ! So for many guys, having a woman fuck them with a strap-on is not a gay thing. Also safer too, in a 'safe-sex' train of thought. Just my thoughts on the matter. Oh! didn't i say ?? i like it too ;-) hee hee
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RHP User
16 years ago
must admit it was a fantasy for me until recently. My gf (who loves anal) tried to show me the way by using her finger but I gotta admit it was NOT the most fun I have had and was very glad when it was over with. This was backed up when I had a prostate check not long ago. Definitely not for me
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kermy61819
16 years ago
well i think is only fare if we blokes want to fuck a ladys arse so much . she should have the chance to show us how it feels , face it some guys arnt so gentel when it comes to giving a Lady anal sex , dont take the time to lube up & do some anal 4 play for the Lass N just smash it in N ripem apart thats never gonna be fun for any one except some selfish bloke. So i say go for it ladies look me up & drop me a line. if you like or are courious 4 anal sex & want a Guy who takes his time & is happy to work for it & go slow so ur comfortable b4 firing up I love anal sex so if your willing to allow me to fuck ur arse ladies then hay im willing to let you have the same good time with me if ur interested ill even let you go first Note ladies only GUYS
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RHP User
16 years ago
Women are not trained in the gentle art of anal intercourse. The bigger the strap on.. the harder they go for it. You'd think they'd know how to do it... but nah... don't let 'em near your rear end fellas.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agreed.....my man loves the idea....loves the finger and mr buzzy......anytime I have been serious about giving him some backdoor action he backs off. I would love to try it and think he would love it.....if I could just convince him to succumb......any ideas how????
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've had it before and loved every minute although I'm bisexual. It's different the real thing but thrilling to let a woman take control for a change. Plus the girls really get off on f*cking ass!
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twowithnolimits
16 years ago
If i may, my 2 cents worth... bisex and strap-on by a woman are not the same thing, by that i mean both the physical and mental experience for the recipient are different for each both can be good, one should not exclude the other many women are not comfortable with the idea of fucking a man, either due social conditioning, the idea that it willmake their man gay or as in my case because they dont like to "top" their man, even though it is ok fo rthem to be fucked by other guys...(so if any women are keen.....) enjoying a strap on does not mean you are gay upgrading from a strap on to the real thing doesnt make you any less of a man yes there are almost as many girls who like seeing guys together as there are guys who like to see girls together, and yes sometimes (most times?) thats why we do...fairs fair fella's Paul
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RHP User
16 years ago
Male on male, female on male and any combination of the above... it's all good. We prefer bi couples and only look for single bi men just for that reason, no holes barred so to speak. And one thing too, it has to be fun, sex in all it's varieties has to be fun...
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RHP User
16 years ago
never tried the real thing but a vibtator was nice . she liked watching me cum hard as she used it .hmmm.imagine the real thing would be bigger warmer and faster lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
my wife doe's me with a strap on every now and again, yet i must say i have to be in the mood (lol) some times she gives it to me hard and some times its a no go zone, it something you have to work on before you can take a lot. any way thats why be like bi couples, its double the fun plus you get the real thing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
an ex girlfriend of mine used to use a narrow ribbed soft dildo that she would slide in and out of my arse while blowing me. When she felt the first taste of precum she would shove it in to the hilt and remove it quickly as I came. Sensational, mind blowing orgasms would result. We never tried a strap-on, but then again I'm not particularly submissive. The idea still has appeal though.
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RHP User
16 years ago
real people with real submissions :)
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lovman8
16 years ago
I've always been aroused by anal play and sometimes rub my anus or finger it while masturbating. Bought and tried anal beads, with me or my wife pulling then out as I orgasm. Both these are fun although my wife is not really into playing with my bum. The next step was try a dildo on myself. Again fun but not the most erotic thing I have ever done. Then I bought a strap on for my wife to use on me and we had fun session for my birthday once, which she got into although we haven't tried it again. I have also had a young woman we have swung with use on me and that was a hot session. So while its not something I crave I'm definitely up ( or is that open to it??) for it again given the right circumstances. So any women out there wanting to swap anal penetrations................
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RHP User
16 years ago
It has been interesting reading all these responses to the question. I think that having an interest in strap-on sex does not necessarily mean that a man is bi, or even bi-curious. I am a straight guy but get a real kick out of ass play such has having anal beads pulled out of me while I orgasm or my wife fucking me with a strap-on. I like the fact that she has control of the situation and it almost puts me in her shoes, not to mention that the sensation is amazing. It is not something we do often but only when the mood takes us. I highly recommend the experience...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love it, there is nothing better yhan a woman giving it to me with a strap on harder the better. Ive even takena a fist and loved it. Girls if you want to give it to me im always keen for a good ass fuck!
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RHP User
16 years ago
The ladies that use them and the folks that they play with normally enjoyably love the scene. Many ladies are very shy in this area. Those sexually open with like minded thinking folks, simply think that those with narrow sexual thoughts need to be seeking other areas of interest. Negative thoughts re a strap-on: PLEASE read non-strap-on forums Thanks all
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly, hello strapon_lady ang anyone else reading. i enjoy when a woman takes me with a strapon, i dont like the dominating talk however, i just like the sensation and the thought of the lady getting excited doing something that is a bit taboo. i was with a lady on the weekend just gone, she lay on the bed, i slid onto the strapon as in a cowgirl position, i suppose its cowboy for me though!!, and the sensation of her gently entering my bum and tossing at the same time had me cumming very quickly, she loveed being able to watch me cum too from this position. anyway just thought i would share, thanks for your time, regards, p
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RHP User
16 years ago
My husband LOVES strap-on play but like all things, it has its time and place, so it's important to gauge when that time is between you - For us it's very much when we are incredibly aroused and have hours to ourselves. Role playing and dressing up can also help with both initiating or changing the whole atmosphere of such a session. From my experience one of the most important things is to be confident in what you are doing as this will put your man much more at ease. Try donning your strap-on early so that he gets used to seeing it on you, sit on a chair opposite him and stroke it whilst also caressing your nipples so that the male/female visualisation starts to meld together - hopefully after a while it wont seem as daunting. I would also recommend one that is thinner than the average cock to start with and if he is concerned about it hurting then using a vibrator around the anal area first tends to slightly 'numb' it due to the constant vibration. Like most things it boils down to time and trust, tell him you're prepared to take it slowly and I am sure you'll both end up having a very hot, and orgasmically erotic ride. . . . speaking from experience!!!! ;0) GOOD LUCK.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love it! If only I could find someone with similar interests. I've mentioned this to previous partners, and within a few weeks, they've gone. Don't knock something you may not have tried! You don't have a like minded sister in Melbourne do you???
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RHP User
16 years ago
for some guys its a real turn off to have anything stuck up their arses and one guy who i wanted to do it to would not let me cause he thought that i may turn him gay and he may like it If you have not tryed it then if you want to just give it a go there is a huge difference between a plastic cock and a real one ae
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RHP User
16 years ago
i love dominent women fuckin me with a strap on, cant find enough who want to do it, so girls contact me if u do
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me this sounds like a lot of fun..if the mood is right..and the sexy fun is flowing anything should go..
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is a topic I have much interest in... Though never tried it, I have had girls explore the area, and I do enjoy... Not the domination aspect well maybe sometimes. But more the distinct physical pleasure to be had as well
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Andy_the_Sub
16 years ago
I do enjoy it these days but it did start as humiliation for me with my previous Mistress. Its a fun and enjoyable role reversal.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have always wanted to do this and have finally found a man that would let me....but im gonna take my time and work up to it...yum! As an aside...I have found that soaking a dildo in a jug of warm to hot water makes it alot more enjoyable and realistic when using it....the heat makes it softer, especially if you use a "jelly" and its also warmer...nothing more offputting that being penetrated by a cold dildo!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like the boys that like there arse poked with my strap-on, i mostly hang with bi boys ,,, its so sexy watching two boy kiss.... you do have to take care in how hard / fast /deep,,,esp if the boy does not get it much or they just play with there arse with just a finger mostly.... but a boy that keeps his arse well limber can be so much more fun,,, hint: if there arse is tight,,, tie them down so they can't run away...and use plenty of lube....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Had a guy visit complete with his bag of tricks which included a strap on. He was totally into anal stimulation. I was ever so tempted to go with the strap on but chose the double ended dildo instead. If the opportunity arises again I think I'll make a different choice. Wildly regretful
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sure the chance will cum up again ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Love it if any woman want to come and do it to me message me
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi strapon_lady, Yes, strap on sex is definetely a great turn on, but as a lot of people had already said, there are not many partners wantign to do it. It is a shame because I am sure that some partners go out to meet others just to fulfil their fantasties becasue they cannot get it at home. If it something your partner wants to try, then try it, at least once or twice, you might like it. AND it goes for most other things too. As I am only a guest these days, it is hard to say the least to chat to people about different topics, but anyone can feel free to message . Have fun people
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have one but are yet to try it out. Im very interested to give it a go....just have to warm hubby up to it first lol
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strapon_lady
16 years ago
Thanks for all the replies - makes interesting reading
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RHP User
16 years ago
im getting a strap on ive found a guy who wants me to fuk him till i make him scream to stop lol i tihink ive died and gone to heaven but yes i know ill go of and prolly try and fuk his tonsils also but i warned him and well he still is keen so hey its all green for go and go and well gooooooooooooooo ive fuked mens asses with a finger or 2 ive used small half pencil size vibrators and teased there ass and the spot between there ass and balls first and snuck it in cm by cm licked his ass and all that over and over one of each until hes squirming to cum then i introduce the next size up and i keep going with the teasing the rimming the fingering the dildos until they get bigger and bigger and then they say thats big enough or stop then i work my way back down haha and just keep sucking licking teasing stroking they love it u gotta sneak in the back door
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RHP User
16 years ago
some of us are more than willign to welcome people in the back door! ps if you havent bought one yet i recommend the feeldoe with a harness.
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RHP User
16 years ago
cheers thanks for that i was on the site men in pain they have a awesome shop and that was the one i liked the most great minds think alike had a sub over lastnight got 2 fingers in his ass fuked him hard and also a middle size vibrator but he said he felt the urge to piss all the time so i had to keep pulling out which frustrated me it was his first time and i let him say when hed had enough but he was good he took it for ages he he anyone know this reason for wanting to pee badly never had a guy say that before
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RHP User
16 years ago
waterboy u need to move closer so i can do it to u lol yummmmmmmy ill fist u if u want lol whatever lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
when i first had anything put up there it was cause my gf kept trying too that turned me in the end, she kept playing in the area sneaky sneaky an i kinda got use to it i supose so one day after the 100th time she suggested i was like what the hell, i was pretty ashamed when she first stuck her toy there... now ive had too pretty much change my mindset since my gf gets so into playing with my ass I kinda had no choice, it is hard though since we are brought up to believe that doin such a thing would make you gay lol, but if u focus on how it feels an the sensation then its actually a surprisingly good feeling if its done right, so for the first time i say jus relax, make sure your trust the person doin it an go slow an jus have fun... PS: drop the kids off at the pool first haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
when we dont get to have any play friends round for fun, me and wife have a drink and dress up nite, she loves to wear her strap on and give me good work out, she has used it on few girls as well, she very good with it and loves to please with it so who am i to say no, if u want to do yr partner up the back door well fairs fair, let her have her turn too.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am a CD and absolutely love riding cock...be it a strap-on or the real thing. I am bi and enjoy riding cock more than fucking a woman most times. I have found that a lot of woman are uncomfortable with using a strap-on on a guy. Anyway, I am up for a meet tonight with a sexy guy or a woman with a strap-on. Msg me if interested. I will be fully dressed and like being photographed.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have had some amazing sessions with a strapon. To watch my guy have an anal orgasam is such an incredible turn on! Its also great when he does me that I know he knows exactly what I'm feeling!! You don't get to share that with other m/f fucking! I have never thought of him as gay quite the oposite. It is certainly a special occaision thing .....he /we love it! I would love to to do it in a threesome next!...mmm
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Had to bump this one up for the girls! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love doing a bloke with a strap on....they just explode....soooo hot!!! Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
So, just yesterday, I took the arse virginity of a lovely young lad. He rode me cowgirl thinking that would be better and give him more control. I kid you not, I came three times whilst he was riding me. Such a hot thing, a naked buff boy riding you like a slut, moving up and down loving every.single.inch of that piece of silicone sliding into his arsehole. (Virgin butts are tight by the way, I'd forgotten!)Then he came all over my tits and stomach as I was having my third orgasm. Oh, simulataneous orgasms with buttsex. I think I'm going to have to masturbate to that memory yet again.<3 strap-on sex.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can I say using a strapon is bloody hard work. Apart from the fact I need a step ladder, trying to bang a boys arse whilst kneeling behind him is exhausting. I was pooped after a minute. Needed a little lie down, lucky some boys are happy to climb on and ride that strapon cowboy style, and boy what an awesome site that is! What sort of training do I need to do to build up my stamina?? Anyone? Meeka xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What sort of training do I need to do to build up my stamina?? Anyone? Meeka xx Once you have a milk crate to climb on top of, what you need to do is just stand still, grab their hips and pull them onto your cock. It's the way I like to do it as I find not quite enough control with a strap-on. I wish I had a cock. ~sigh~
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RHP User
13 years ago
The right sort of training would be a willing stable of guys to practice on I would say. After all practice does make perfect!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You should make that a thread. I wouldn't mind knowing the answer to that too....nothing better than having a boy ride you cowboy style mmmm boy do I need another Subbie boy lol Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
see it isnt easy for us blokes all the time either kneeling behing a lady banging away takes effort too and well we boys dont always have a strapon to assist ,,,,,,,,, Quoting 'Meeka100'Can I say using a strapon is bloody hard work. Apart from the fact I need a step ladder, trying to bang a boys arse whilst kneeling behind him is exhausting. I was pooped after a minute. Needed a little lie down, lucky some boys are happy to climb on and ride that strapon cowboy style, and boy what an awesome site that is! What sort of training do I need to do to build up my stamina?? Anyone? Meeka xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Okay I will start a thread with that very question Roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
One of these days I'm going to put that strapon on over the butterfly and go to town on hubby until I come and then I kiss him, roll over and go to sleep. lol.
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