M54

Married Guys who are gay or Bi

January 27 2023

Hi, I'm keen to know if any guys have gone through what I have and are now gay or bi., would love to hear your comments. Been married for 25+ years but still in very good shape for a mid fifties guy, wife stopped wanting sex around 20 years ago after last child was born and never been interested in sex since then. Still best mates and love each other but intimacy and sexual affection disappeared in the blink of an eye. After 5 years or so of hoping it would return, with a lot of guilt I experimented with being with a guy not knowing what to expect as I had always wondered about it. To my horror and surprise although it was a brief meeting I enjoyed it and have since gone on to be with 6 guys, some long term in the last 15 years. I've learnt more about myself during this period than ever before knowing what I crave now and have experimented to the point that I now know I am gay, but still happily married. Some will say this is perverse and sick, everyone has their own opinion, but I truly know myself now and inner happiness is a key to like. Is or has anyone else been through something similar.

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Bi_Poly

2 years ago

Definitely not perverse/sick. You and your wife can live your marriage however you want, including no sex and you get your needs met elsewhere. It’s nobody else’s business.

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curiousnewby

2 years ago

Thats super hot!!

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ACT70

2 years ago

I'm on the other side of the equation. Been seeing a happily straight married guy for about a year now. We catch up a couple times a week (not always for a root) and are as happy as larry. It works for both of us.

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test64

one year ago

S C S D C S X C D End

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test64

one year ago

1 W E

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