Married and looking for an ongoing fling

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I spent years on here and another couple of sites looking for similiar, although I didn't require your level of discretion. Plus my partner knew all about it, and was ok with it.I always figured that there were women out there that this type of relationship would suit, you know... not wanting one night stands but not wanting the white picket fence either, but apparently not. Well at least not with me. So I understand where your coming from, and would counsel against trying, especially given your situation, but understand that you will go ahead and try anyway.Good Luck!Cheers Felonius

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Don't think you'll find any opinions on cheating on here Ashley Madison is a site dedicated to it (am I allowed to say that on RHP?). After seeing their billboards for months curiosity got the better of me and I signed up and had a look. It seemed like a bit of a scam - was getting messages from hot girls before I'd completed a profile or uploaded a photo. (I was cheating the cheaters - my wife was with me, so maybe I deserved it). Would have had to pay up to see the messages and wasn't going to do that anyway.Not sure that's very helpful, but at least I didn't give you a lecture.Anyone else...Mr C

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  yea.................lots of us have opinions..... but you may not like them...lol...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Dan   I hope your thick skinned because the Moral Police will soon be here

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'wowwow11' Dan   I hope your thick skinned because the Moral Police will soon be here I agree Dan, It astounds me how many judgmental people are on this forum / site..

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I meant, I agree Wowwow11

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Dan, I am experiencing a similar dilemma. The wife & I are swingers, & I have the ok from her to play without her, but am failing to find any ladies wanting a 'dinner & date' arrangement. Strange, considering that this site caters to that. Mark

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Without judging the fact of your situation. Why on earth is it do hard to understand that what you are searching for is a very niche market here? It's almost like saying there are a million job vacancies out there but I want this one! Surely you understand that there are women looking for the same as you, but for the main part they will be few and far between , therefore your patience is what will help you find her in the end. Mostly women will want more for themselves than being your cake icing or bit on the side, do not bag them out for it, it's plain fucking rude to do so. Would you want more for your wife or sister? Like I said, there are job vacancies out there, but you still need to apply for the position ...what can you offer her? Do you bring something special to her table? What is there to tempt her? If you can't answer those simple posers, then your motivations are purely selfish and I would ask you to stop depersonslising this woman you seek for your own pleasure and none of hers. I have been both of these women, as a wife for 13yrs and now as a single woman and I have to say these posts make me angry for women everywhere!!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Dano,you have a problem....where will you and your married lover go?Hope you and she are well off and that the paying for a room is not an issue. Scheduling,a little tricky,how available will either of you be? People have families,jobs, as well as partners to consider. But hey,Dano enjoy your search ,no one yet, has proved that the Loch Ness monster doesn't exist....have they?   reporting from the North Sea Project Dr.Hessie

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