M47
Married or attached people
May 28 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Here we go again. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ You obviously assume NSA means fumbling around in the dark with a stranger and no names exchanged. A lot of women find that boring to be honest. We like to know the guy a bit so being with a married guy doesn't suit, because let's face it, meeting up at 1pm every Tuesday afternoon doesn't always suit. What if I want to go out on Saturday night?? What if I feel fooling around tonight?? Where is my married guy? With his wife. Besides there are so many guys in here why would I bother with a guy that is cheating on his wife? What's the point of it getwetonmyface??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Should have affairs with married women. Your lifestyles suit. Single women want more from a sexual partner than a married guy cheating can provide.
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RHP User
12 years ago
" And if you were in a relationship and your partner only puts out 3times a year is it wrong to be cheating on here?"
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RHP User
12 years ago
'cheating' here, is no different to cheating elsewhere...but hey, if you're unsure...ask your wife.....not us.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because 'NSA' doesn't mean I'm willing to settle for a lunchtime quickie once a fortnight, or to risk having an irate wife or girlfriend ringing me and calling me a whore and a home-wrecker.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Before my ex didnt put out for four years it must have been less than three times a year.Guess where your heading like it or not.No sex No intimacy No MarraigeBut a lot of cheaters will disagree.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
You're new.... so.... come in tight, brother, Im going to give you some advice. Please accept it in the spirit in which it is offered.These forums are probably a greater advertising tool in RHP, than your profile alone, in a sea of other profiles.My 2c...... guys who use this phrase have the mentality that sex isnt shared.... but that you "get" it.... through means fair or foul. If you're an interesting, attractive and seductive person.... women WANT sex with you and you dont need to manipulate circumstances or women to "get" it.Tidy your profile.Your grammar needs some work. Additionally, nobody cares that you love to give oral or use a vibrator... because if you read a few profiles of your "competition".... they all say the same thing, therefore, you dont stand out. There wouldnt be a member in this site who dislikes sex... so references to how much you like it etc etc... are boring, because everyone else, has been boring before you. No woman is going to "beg for your shaft"... if she is bored by you and therefore not interested in chatting or meeting with you first.And save for those rare circumstances, they WILL want to meet with you first, to determine if the person in front of them matches the person on the profile... before decidfing to take things further, or not... at any subsequent opportunity. Additionally, groin photos, do little to "sell" your personality virtues to the women of RHP.Doesnt work in the real world.... doesnt work in here. Make no mistake... these things DO matter to the women you're hoping to attract.Good luck.DG
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
refine your search pararmeters...."married " should do it.I dont think there is a section for lying cheating married.
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP you don't actually ask a woman to beg for your shaft do you? LOL. Have a read in the newbie section to see what women like to see in a profile I think that would help you. DG most men will write a profile based on what they like. Therefore men only really attract other men with their profiles and cock shots. Although there are a few women around who get off on meeting and fucking a stranger in a park or whatever so they may be attracted by this type of profile. I don't really know. Would be interesting if women into this made a comment. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
but Meeka....does anyone really want to meet a woman who fucks strangers in parks? really? can just see it now...the intro to mum, the kids or whoever....'sooo..where did you two love birds meet'??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Check out the thread titled "We are not free whores". Get it? Maybe it's best for you to pay for your NSA and leave us out of your marital dilemma. Having said that, I always wonder if this type of approach actually works. I guess stranger things have happened ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cheaters are just sooo unattractive to me. I'd rather fuck someone a foot below my height requirement.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Am I being paranoid or did you mean meQuoting 'Meeka100' OP you don't actually ask a woman to beg for your shaft do you? LOL. Have a read in the newbie section to see what women like to see in a profile I think that would help you. DG most men will write a profile based on what they like. Therefore men only really attract other men with their profiles and cock shots. Although there are a few women around who get off on meeting and fucking a stranger in a park or whatever so they may be attracted by this type of profile. I don't really know. Would be interesting if women into this made a comment. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
This part Meeks:Although there are a few women around who get off on meeting and fucking a stranger in a park or whatever so they may be attracted by this type of profile. I don't really know. Would be interesting if women into this made a comment. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is going to have a great comeback... Like, 'oh I wasn't talking about me, just a hypothetical question is all...' I have popcorn, and all night...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Grabs the popcorn for this one. Anyone care to join me? Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
What? Did I miss something?? Hehe. I didn't mean you but I am obviously missing on some goss!! Spill. I know a couple of women that do get off on meeting strangers in the park or for one off meets. I have never asked them what they look for in a profile. Runs off to ask.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
The ladies that have this need or fetish or whatever you call it are not looking for a life partner to introduce to the family. They are looking for a down and dirty fuck with a stranger. And yes there are men who kindly oblige them. Haven't you been reading the forums? Men will fuck a hole in the ground if it would let him. LMAO!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes you are being paranoid. And my question was a genuine one. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps you only get Sex with your Partner 3 times a year because She is cheating on You . Perhaps she's on RHP . Perhaps that's not something you wish to consider ... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
(wipes sweat from brow and monitors bpm)Composure reset - I have kind of mentioned this in my profile , BUT it is purely a fantasy due to the safety factor.However even if I was that way inclined, a hobo would still be more appealing than umm
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RHP User
12 years ago
And leads him out of the line of fire. they get a bit rabbit on here about you married fuckers..your one step up from a kiddy fiddler so step away and go through profiles of women that dont give a fuck,cause all they want is a fuck. or sit down take a pew and listen to the outraged , the stone throwers,the witches of salem but honestly women want you on tap and want you to host and may just fall for you, so why waste effort on goods already taken? married wome are a dream for men as they come in dick first married men are a nighmare for women as they lie to them and women sometimes come in emotional first
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't really think we need to nag someone about cheating....lots of people have done it (I have) I won't ever again...for my personal reasons...but we don't all need to go waving the stick at him about this.However..............Your distasteful use of language, is a source of much irritation.If a woman, does not (as you so eloquently put it) 'Put Out'. Why is this. What assumptions or not shall we make of their marriage. Do we know the ins and outs of their relationship? Noone knows what goes on behind closed doors. What a husband says, maybe completely different to what the wife says. Two variants of opinions as to why the marriage is not working...at least in this part.I digress.At the end of the day. Most people...not all....do not want to have any sort of dealing with someone whom is married. Some do and don't care about the possible repercussions to it. And let me tell you now, there can be HUGE repercussions to it.I along with a lot of women...prefer to have some kind of connection...I like to know the man that I sleep with is single if I have a MMF..........I would not feel comfortable sleeping with a married man....perhaps with children...it really doesn't 'float my boat' even if it is an NSA scenario...which this always is.I don't shit on my doorstep and don't like people shitting on mineI don't need any further aggravation in my life than I have had...........thanksIt may be your peni, needing to get its spray........but if you think of women as objects to purely just be fucked (whch your post suggests, with no niceties about it) then I think you need to reconsider where you get your sex from
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inspirit
12 years ago
is simply just a HEAD FUCK<
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well that's a touchy subject by the sounds of it ! Mischievous you have some good points there Whores yea well I'm not after any of them there is nothing fun about fake sex (wasn't emplying any one here was) I m not looking at a fuck in the park (well if that what turns you on well id help you)a drink some were a bit of fun and then back to a hotel (this has been achieved on other sites that I've been on (safety well every club scans your drivers licence these days so if any thing was to happen ) NSA usually means just that so what do you's clad as NSA should I put FIP(fuck in park:-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
and get back to us Reckon she will know
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Some people come on a sex site like RHP with the wrong attitude and concept. Simply because the word "sex" is in the line and with quite many profiles display explicit pics, they think sites like this are full of sushi eaters where people just get off on someone, and then go to the next one like how they eat at a Sushi Train!!! Cheating/cheaters are never my favourite words to read/see!!! And why cheaters always blame their other halves for their cheat?? Man up and admit that you're a gutless selfish disgusting loser!!! If sex is so important to you and you're not getting any or much at home, then sort your problems out rather than blaming and cheating!!! Also, the term NSA does not give anyone a free pass to come on here and expects to get laid at will!!! Grow up cheaters!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
oh I know someone that enjoys the random fuck in the park. Have not had the privilege to enjoy her, nor would the park be the place. But mmmm she drives me sexy horny insane. Well maybe one day if I am so lucky... mmmmmmmmOP NSA is that not what brothels are for. There are always strings involved and you must want them, its nice to be wanted and known. If not the aforementioned option is good and you can stop cluttering up this sight with all that primitive testosterone.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your married or in a relationship and your looking for NSA with your partners consent then I don't have an issue, however, if your married and looking for NSA so you can CHEAT, I personally find that horrid and immoral, with complete disregard for your partner OR for the person your having Sex with.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's your choice to risk your relationship for sex. It's my/our choice to say NO, I'm not going to risk hurting someone I don't know in my/our pursuit of hot, awesome, mind blowing sex. For us this is fun, the last thing we want is have an angry/hurt partner phoning us or knocking on our door. You want No Strings Attatched but you come with strings. These sites are for people looking for all sorts of things, you will find women that are happy to meet you, just realise that NSA means different things to different people.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Wish you'd both take me by the hand and lead me away somewhere!!! Haha Meeks I have sex in parks with friends I have known quite some time and well.....sometimes you just have to go with the moment. It's not necessarily ideal but..... Um I don't DO strangers in the park, and don't give out on first dates either...(I did um twice....jeezus where's the confessional? But they were lovely men, one is still a friend. The other I never saw again and don't remember his name but who was I to say no to being given a headjob without any expectations to reciprocate in kind?) OP just try to be the sizzling seductive stunner you know that's in there. I'm not the fuck for the sake of fucking type TR mentions but there are some out there I'm lead to believe who may find you irresistable. Benefit of the Doubt.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'getwetonmyface' Well that's a touchy subject by the sounds of it ! Mischievous you have some good points there Whores yea well I'm not after any of them there is nothing fun about fake sex (wasn't emplying any one here was) I m not looking at a fuck in the park (well if that what turns you on well id help you)a drink some were a bit of fun and then back to a hotel (this has been achieved on other sites that I've been on (safety well every club scans your drivers licence these days so if any thing was to happen ) NSA usually means just that so what do you's clad as NSA should I put FIP(fuck in park:-) No, see, that's where you're wrong...as a few people have been trying to point out to you, there isn't one definition of 'NSA'. And your definition is obviously different to many others' (particularly women's). And anyway, like someone above said, if you're attached then you actually come with some very big strings attached, and most (not all) women don't want to get tangled up in those strings.Try to stop thinking about yourself and your dick for a few seconds, and see things from the other side. As an attached man, you don't have very much to offer to a woman, other than secretive, probably rushed sex. For single women in particular, this isn't at all appealing. So again, as others have said, if you must do the cheating thing (rather than addressing the issues in your relationship or ending it outright), your best bet is going to be women who are in the same situation that you are and who do have the same idea of NSA as you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your partner puts out only three times a year... Do you think she is getting it somewhere else? Probably huh? Wow SweetGem. I take it someone has cheated on you before based on such a strong response!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like strings :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
And Meeka, what about rope instead?
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RHP User
12 years ago
She probbabley is but i have more important things to worry about in life than that Well it's sertainley an interesting read about this topic and its interesting to see the comments from the first to the last once every one calmed down a bit :-) Put fuck in Perth in google and see what pops up I wasn't winging about people not contacting me .a few have I was just asking a question And it's interesting to see the replies from different people who have obviously lived different lives (in the grey area of life) Well keep em up
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RHP User
12 years ago
its not so much the 'cheats' that uspet either of us....they define themselves by their actions...I mean....just how attractive are people who lie, deceive and manipulate others.....for sex. the ones we take issue with are those who facilitate this 'cheating'....women or men who knowingly and deliberately entangle themselves with other peoples partners... really? are people so incredibly self absorbed ? responsible play....means not just wearing protection...it means 'no harm'...and fucking with someone elses relationship has to be the most irresponsible and potentially harmful thing anyone here can do.....
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sweetgem
12 years ago
No I haven't been cheated on before (touch wood that it would never happen in this life lol), but I got tricked by a couple of cheaters (on separate occasions) in my "young and dumb" age (20s) where I was lied to that they were single men, but the next thing I knew was their partners called and texted me to ask me to stay away from their men! I was lucky that those women who contacted me were civilised citizens and not from the Mafia!!! Those were scary experiences!!! Besides, I am a woman with very strong sense of morality, and I don't tolerate bully, abuse and torture emotionally, mentally and physically!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' Perhaps you only get Sex with your Partner 3 times a year because She is cheating on You . Perhaps she's on RHP . Perhaps that's not something you wish to consider ... GG♒Perhaps our OP only gets sex 3 times a year cos he's bad in bed!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe youre the reason she don't " put out" op.... You might just be a dud and she's getting her fun elsewhere .... Judging by what you have written and profile fair chance. To answer question is it ok to cheat based on number of times she chooses to fornicate with you, simple NO! It's never ok. If you're not happy, move on, end it, talk about it and sort, never deceive , reverse the situation... If it was your partner advertising here how would you feel? Man up, no relationship is that entwined it can't be broken, or is it simply that your too lazy to do so and don't have the balls to do so?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Married, to me, means you come with strings attached.Cheating is cheating is cheating but if you're not sure, as has been suggested a couple of times already, ask the Missus, it is only her opinion that really matters in your relatonship unless you're looking for validation... and I can't/won't help you with that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Should we cheat a cheater... After all to enter into the confidence of someone you know is cheating and then to sever responsibility (those bloody strings) is a bit low really. Two wrongs never make a right. We give a lot of trust to those we meet and despite the other's wrongs we must maintain what trust was given. Or am I wrong?I just don't want to know. If you cheat tell at the end game please.
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RHP User
12 years ago
what a load of pontificating self righteous judgemental shite gets repeated by the same self appointed moral police in here everytime some person sticks their head above the parapet and mentions they are in a relationship but seeks sex outside of it. yep, we know that there are ppl who play along with the whole do as your told by religion / society thing and you will burn in hell if you swap bodily fluids with someone else ........... but there does exist other ppl who only look to what is in their own backyard and deals with it in their way... and have sex their way as well.These ppl ,surprisingly to some, are not so quick to judge another based on their own 'morals" and get down to whatever they deem to be the sexual experience that they want to experience, what ever that maybe( Including fucking strangers in parks If we must be so vanilla) If you dont like it, by all means dont do it.... but get off your collective high horses and go and get what some of what ever gets your own juices running, as it hopefully will be a tad bit more entertaining than this same old same old recycled convo.I think a group vitual excursion to sites like Fetlife , collarme etc may be an eye opener to some of you kind ppl so you can see how peoples individual enjoyments and proclivities are not looked down upon and / or ridiculed , but are rather supported and enjoyed. Diversity is to be celebrated..and guess what , there are far more interesting things than fucking strangers in Parks Now , My rant is at an end ........ and as per usual I have had mysay and shall leave you all to do ya thing so please dont disappoint
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'getwetonmyface' She probbabley is but i have more important things to worry about in life than thatWell, this statement suggests that you don't particularly care about her at all, so why stay with her? Let her find someone who will treat her right and who does actually want to be with her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I haven't seen you on Fetlife?? Hmmm we are not all so dull and boring but clearly you are far too out there for little old us. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
The best thing to do if you are in a relationship you want to stay in is to ask your partner if she wants to explore with you. As a woman, I would much prefer to play with a couple than with someone who is not telling his partner
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Haven't you been reading the forums? Men will fuck a hole in the ground if it would let him. LMAO!! Actually I heard they would fuck a shoe nailed to a tree
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inspirit
12 years ago
I havent seen you on fetlife either.....wanna have gangy some time. How about a piss bukake??? mmmmmBWAHAHAHA Meeka ...AS IF!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well said.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mutefrog69'Maybe youre the reason she don't " put out" op.... You might just be a dud and she's getting her fun elsewhere .... Judging by what you have written and profile fair chance. To answer question is it ok to cheat based on number of times she chooses to fornicate with you, simple NO! It's never ok. If you're not happy, move on, end it, talk about it and sort, never deceive , reverse the situation... If it was your partner advertising here how would you feel? Man up, no relationship is that entwined it can't be broken, or is it simply that your too lazy to do so and don't have the balls to do so? said.
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RHP User
12 years ago
purple what? lol...that was funny... no ...really.... I piddled my pants reading it...lol
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BrightBubbly
12 years ago
GetWetOnMyFace has left the building...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' The ladies that have this need or fetish or whatever you call it are not looking for a life partner to introduce to the family. They are looking for a down and dirty fuck with a stranger. And yes there are men who kindly oblige them. Haven't you been reading the forums? Men will fuck a hole in the ground if it would let him. LMAO!! What do you mean "let" ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
ms Meeka....you raise a good point and may be I am , but whose to say , as you wont see too may moralistic rants on FL. Glad i could at least be of service on the entertainment front though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PurpleMarquis'what a load of pontificating self righteous judgemental shite gets repeated by the same self appointed moral police in here everytime some person sticks their head above the parapet and mentions they are in a relationship but seeks sex outside of it. Superintendent Devious.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Honesty! Without honesty and trust, you do not have a relationship - what is the point in being in one? I'm not going to answer whether it is wrong or right, what I am going to ask is, if your partner only wants to have sex 3 times a year, you must both realise there is something terribly wrong... Have you ever thought about taking the time to delve into the real issue? Maybe, instead of finding the NSA shag (bandaid fix) behind you partners back, you could think about fixing your current relationship and explore and find ways to win her back and vice versa. Surely there was a good reason why you fell in love with each other? Relationships do not work if you BOTH do not put the effort into making them work and unfortunately, that is an effort you BOTH need to continue for the longevity of the time you have together... It takes a committed and brave person to make the effort to re-explore a partner who has exited, mentally from a relationship - some people are worth it, other are not?!?. Just my 2 cents.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Spoken from the heart thanks Weel se how it pans out X And purple Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Grandeur' if your partner only wants to have sex 3 times a year, you must both realise there is something terribly wrong... Have you ever thought about taking the time to delve into the real issue? I was with my ex for eight years, of which the last 16 months were without any sex. His decision, not mine. Still doesn't mean I looked elsewhere though. Only after I ended our relationship did I start looking around.
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RHP User
12 years ago
getwet,you see young man\,you already have lots of strings and unless like me you are very,very good at macramé,you will get all in a tangle.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
If people want to cheat, it's their business, but what I don't agree is the "blaming" act!!! I don't care what happens behind their closed door, or whatever reasons that have led some people to cheating, blaming their other halves for their cheat is wrong!!! I believe beside the law system, our society was also created with morality and respect. I can't imagine how this society would have become if everyone chose to ignore these two elements!- Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
It's the term "cheating", that rings the bell for some in here that choose to insult you for the question. Cheating at one thing, will be taken that one would cheat at anything and people don't like to be cheated. It is a fair question for some answers you may seek, and some words have a prescribed reaction for their many meanings, and some meanings have many words that could be placed for them.I do not see where yourself has been applied within the questions, yet that word "cheat", has put you in the shit-list for some who are trying to be perceived, bright and shiny.Hope you find some answers, for the questions asked.Mado
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De0cypher
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' You're new.... so.... come in tight, brother, Im going to give you some advice. Please accept it in the spirit in which it is offered. These forums are probably a greater advertising tool in RHP, than your profile alone, in a sea of other profiles. My 2c...... guys who use this phrase have the mentality that sex isnt shared.... but that you "get" it.... through means fair or foul. If you're an interesting, attractive and seductive person.... women WANT sex with you and you dont need to manipulate circumstances or women to "get" it. Tidy your profile. Your grammar needs some work. Additionally, nobody cares that you love to give oral or use a vibrator... because if you read a few profiles of your "competition".... they all say the same thing, therefore, you dont stand out. There wouldnt be a member in this site who dislikes sex... so references to how much you like it etc etc... are boring, because everyone else, has been boring before you. No woman is going to "beg for your shaft"... if she is bored by you and therefore not interested in chatting or meeting with you first. And save for those rare circumstances, they WILL want to meet with you first, to determine if the person in front of them matches the person on the profile... before decidfing to take things further, or not... at any subsequent opportunity. Additionally, groin photos, do little to "sell" your personality virtues to the women of RHP. Doesnt work in the real world.... doesnt work in here. Make no mistake... these things DO matter to the women you're hoping to attract. Good luck. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well said sexy ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
she only gets dead drunk on her birthday, xmas day and new years
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The_lex
11 years ago
nice burn tuscan....took the words right outta my mouthlexi
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wow this topics still cranking yea well we did speak about it awesome idea ! Now all I have to do is see my beautiful kids once a month and hand over 3 houses awesom should've just kept living wondering what sex I was missing! I think some people need to have a good look at them selves fuck me do you go to work and talk about this site well if you do I'm not talking about you but those who don't your just hiding in the closet just like I was and fuck some say all us blokes think about is our dick most of us have more respect to women than you do to blokes Oh yea she doesn't drink :-)
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
@ Mr Getwet.I think, perhaps with all that you say is going on ion your life...... that focussing on the well-being of your kids, and focus on sorting out your life is energy better spent than trolling in RHP right now.And I say that with the utmost of respect, and hope for you and your family.DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its a slipper slope on RHP. Your married but sex is not like you thought it would be, your mates seem to be getting hot sex all over the place. You think your missing out, that the women of RHP blow guys when ever we see them, that we all fuck like porn stars we don't , were just as human as your wife we get sick of sex, we get tired we get cranky and what we liked yesterday we do not like today you could be married to a woman you are not having no sex, and she may be fucking her brains out because she is lonely for you to just hold her and say, hey its ok mother or my children, I get your not into sex at the moment. The grass is not greener, its just grass that's gets old and brown after time , just like life The great sexy goddess of RHP is a myth, guess what we are humans under all the sexy adverts I hope things work out for you, sounds like your in a whole world of pain at the moment. hugs Lady T
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Not_everydayman
11 years ago
That made me laugh!
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