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Married women want single guys.

July 17 2018

A dear, platonic friend of mine is a married woman and is looking for FWB's. She most definitely prefers single guys over married men. I asked her why and she tells me they are more available and much less hassle. OK fair enough,her choice is just that, her choice. Just recently my profile has been visited by a married woman who also states she only wants unattached men. Her choice and her right, she ticks a fair few of MY boxes, and I think vice versa, sigh. So close but so far, it's interesting to note that I recognised her profile as being one that visited mine some time ago. I didn't message her because I knew I didn't match her criteria, sigh. Maybe next time I might get in touch and see if she would like a free, no obligations, pussy tingling ride on the back of a Harley... I wonder just how negotiable or non negotiable prefences are? I ask this because some posts here are quite scathing of those who would try to negotiate profile preferences.

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RHP User

6 years ago

I guess, for some, there are exceptions to their rules.I made exceptions in the past too.Sometimes, I was sorry I had but on other occasions I was glad I'd made the exception.If certain "requirements" could be negotiable, it would be helpful if people state that in their profiles.On the other hand, people are very quick to state "no deal" if they won't budge.We're all entitled to be flexible or inflexible as the case may be.

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Freaky_Fun

6 years ago

Unattached. I don't care if you're male or female. I don't need to know the person you're attached to, to have respect for them. Like seriously is it that hard.

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The_Antichrist

6 years ago

I just find it hypocritical at best that married/partnered people in general seek out people with the expectation of them being single.... The justification that they’re more readily available screams “stroke my ego” because it’s not a two way street at all....one party needs to be available while fitting in with the partnered persons agenda....which is exactly what the partnered persons grievance seems to be with seeking out another partnered person in the first place.... Lol and if it were negotiable, why even dictate singles only ?? Granted it could be a filtering mechanism, and perhaps they wish not to receive the messages, and/or justify their rejection but I’m a big believer in just ignoring those that don’t compel me to reply or are disrespectful.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

6 years ago

I'm in an open marriage and we play together and solo. But as stated in my profile i prefer Married or Attached men to play with. I dont care if they have permission or not, that's their issue not mine. I rarely negotiate on this aspect and when i have I have regretted it. From my personal experiences, the married playmates are easier to relax and chat and let yourself go with and have alot more respect for my marriage and family than the singles. - Posted from rhpmobile

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The_Phoenix

6 years ago

Purely based on being inquisitive. Hell, I’ve done plenty of that 😜 And cheers to all the lads who make up 70% of mine. I’d say if she wanted to get in touch she would do so. Never hurts to ask. As for the answer, well 🤷‍♂️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

Hi there fuck anything - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

I've found from being on here that plenty of profiles make statements about preferences for all sorts of things that in real life they make exceptions for, from attached / unattached, looking for men to "NO SINGLE MEN", sexual "interests", level of safe sex. The way I view it, this is their primary preference and it's not up to me "convince them otherwise that I'm superman and they should make an exception because xyz..." - it's their public statement, respect it. I never message someone asking for something that's not what they're looking for even if they make their own exceptions - exceptions are their own prerogative. If they approach you, then fine, start having a conversation. Also, the reverse is true in that they might have "interests" on their profile, but that doesn't mean that they want to explore that with you either. I don't look at it at hypocritical in the slightest, and get why they have these preferences to begin with. Now I realise some might disagree with me, and that's fine, but that's just how I approach it.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Hey AC, just read through the thread again, wasn't trying to be pointed or single you out with my hypocritical statement - I get where you're coming from. Cheers

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RHP User

6 years ago

There's essential, desirable and don't forget about the preferred applicant.😈

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RHP User

6 years ago

How does your friend feel about young guys? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

She's in her fifties and prefers men close to her own age. FWIW she bloody hates pony tails and twat knots.

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RHP User

6 years ago

I don't mind if a guy is single or married, if I'm into him & he's into me, that's all that matters to me! ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile

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0z_boy

6 years ago

Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Maybe next time I might get in touch and see if she would like a free, no obligations, pussy tingling ride on the back of a Harley... Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Tip: Strategically placing a golf ball under the upholstery of the pillion seat works a charm. Two laps around the block on the back of my Ducati negates the need to get the ladies off with an egg lifter.

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