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Masturbation. Does it effect you going the distance?
September 21 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well that is true.. I can make myself come in under two minutes usually... and probably 2-3 times in 5 minutes when I am in the mood. Is that a bad thing? Although when I am masturbating in front of other people or in group situations it takes alot longer I think. Maybe I am too easily distracted? xx Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't worry half as much about performance as I would about technique....unless of course you are ducking into the toilet to toss one off whilst your partner is laying there waiting for you. | That's why I was really trying to take the piss out of that thread that went away about women who need a sex coach. The gate swings both ways, and you have to wonder if we all spent a little less time taking things into our own hands... | ...if we wouldn't enjoy sharing more.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Did you ever consider deliberately prolonging your masturbation session by delaying ejaculation??? That could ensure you don't blow prematurely when partnered I have in fact... also read about doing that with a partner, but when with a partner it usually takes a lot longer hence prob not as important. I guess I was just told that when going with the single life try not to overindulge. Which would be very disappointing as it helps me get up in the morning :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I wouldn't worry half as much about performance as I would about technique....unless of course you are ducking into the toilet to toss one off whilst your partner is laying there waiting for you. | That's why I was really trying to take the piss out of that thread that went away about women who need a sex coach. The gate swings both ways, and you have to wonder if we all spent a little less time taking things into our own hands... | ...if we wouldn't enjoy sharing more. Biiiiiiiiiite meeeeeeeeeeeee!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I only had a minute to read it but it seemed to makes sense....something that flashed across this morning on the BBC. Well you know how those things have little motors and use electricity and pulse quite unnaturally, right? | Well according to this news feed and and in-depth research, it seems even the best of those things emit small magnetic fields, a bit of an electric aura and just the buzzing and mechanical pounding away may be hazardous to your sex life...and actually make it more difficult to achieve a more normal unassisted climax. | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'Biiiiiiiiiite meeeeeeeeeeeee! | Let me guess...you stand close to your microwave oven and haven't had it checked for radiation leaks in a while either? | Don't worry about it...stress gives you wrinkles.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Points to the opposite to what you have been told. Now I love a good research topic and over the years have researched any and everything that interests me almost to the nth degree. I know that when a man has been on his own for a while he tends to cum rather quickly when with a woman yes. When you (or I or anyone lese for that matter) maturbates, we know exactly when to do what, how much pressure to put on a certain spot, how hard, how fast. We know exactly what to do to bring things to an ultimate conclusion. When someone else does it, it does not feel the same at all. If you get used to lending yourself a hand then anything different is just that....different from what you are used to feeling. Dont listen to what others say anyway. You are used to having that release of orgasm nearly every day and it is what your body still wants and at 22 you will be wanting it that often for a good many more years yet before your body starts to slow a little. Maturbation does not really make you go blind....now where did I put my glasses. Damn cant see a thing without the bottoms of those coke bottles.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' if we all spent a little less time taking things into our own hands... | ...if we wouldn't enjoy sharing more. The one thing I miss about being in a relationship is the frequency of sex. Living alone there is no one there when I wake up horny at two in the morning, or six or any other hour for that matter. We all like to share and that is why we are here. These are the times when a girl does what a girl has to do. l You really werent taking the piss, you were just admiting your limitations, we all know that now.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A couple of weeks ago I was sitting in my physiotherapists waiting room, reading Good Health Magazine ....... and GHM told me that a person who has a minimum of 200 orgasms a year feels around 6 years younger than their low orgasmic counterparts, and lives longer too. Or something like that.So unless you are lucky enough to have a talented lover providing you with 3 to 4 orgasms a week, go ahead and masturbate yourself into a ripe old age(I take no responsibility for getting this quote completely wrong)
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I know I'm in..... I knock the top off in the morning as I'm hyper about the whole situation.....goo everywhere..... That usually brings an holistic "calm" to me and allows me to feel strong and engaged for the encounter in the day or evening.... That way it doesn't " fuck up" so to speak my first performance and gives me time to gather everything for my next with her....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well that article in Good Housekeeping does seem to make some sense for men at least... | Quoting 'irresponsibility'A couple of weeks ago I was sitting in my physiotherapists waiting room, reading Good Health Magazine ....... and GHM told me that a person who has a minimum of 200 orgasms a year feels around 6 years younger than their low orgasmic counterparts, and lives longer too. Or something like that.So unless you are lucky enough to have a talented lover providing you with 3 to 4 orgasms a week, go ahead and masturbate yourself into a ripe old age(I take no responsibility for getting this quote completely wrong)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I will defer that statement in light of a very strange *hiccup* in the server... | Very strange.....and have no idea what caused it. | Oh well....that article in Good Housekeeping Magazine did say that men should change hand frequently to maintain balance and not to try to type with your off side hand. Damn...that means there is a 87.65% chance that I might have hit the wrong key... | ...but I didn't miss a beat. Irresponsibility....why were you doing "that" in your physio's waiting room? If that's what they prescribe as therapy, can you please send me his/her contact details?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Irresponsibility....why were you doing "that" in your physio's waiting room? If that's what they prescribe as therapy, can you please send me his/her contact details? You need glasses CM. I wrote I was reading a magazine, not masturbating with a magazine. Not my fault my physio has MA magazines and PG clientele.
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
I know if I masturbate to orgasm once earlier in the day it's harder for me to orgasm with a partner in the evening. I put this down to the first orgasm always being the easiest for me to achieve. The second one is always better but harder to get. 3rd and 4th are easier but not as good as the first or second, 5th and successive are a little harder to get and a little less good as things continue. I only know this by years of close study, and it only applies to me. My advice to you: Know thyself, please thy partner. The rest is subjective.xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
....was more suggesting that what you were reading inspired it, not that you were doing "that" with the magazine for heavens sake. | Hey....this physio? Do they have two of those magazines in the waiting room? | Doing "that" is a bit different for us guys you know. | | Wanna share secrets about our dentists? Oh the fun you can have there too!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was just throwing a few statistics into the mix. The upside of the downside, so to speak
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Insomnian
13 years ago
I believe that self serving as it has been labelled a few times is like martial arts, calligraphy writing etc etc etc. At the end of the day, one can train oneself for either distance / length / time etc, to knowing their own bodies limitations or downfalls. I don't believe it harms you in anyway, or helps you in going blind as we are always told by our parents :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
meeka100,i am the same,lol Don't know what it is, maybe i know my bod better than others,COURSE I DO!! When there are others around there is more than just me to plz though!! xoxo
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RHP User
13 years ago
...as a point of interest. There is a right way and totally irresponsible way to approach one's Boerewors on the bar-b-que....right? | If you can't cook, stay out of the kitchen?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility'A couple of weeks ago I was sitting in my physiotherapists waiting room, reading Good Health Magazine ....... and GHM told me that a person who has a minimum of 200 orgasms a year feels around 6 years younger than their low orgasmic counterparts, and lives longer too. Or something like that.So unless you are lucky enough to have a talented lover providing you with 3 to 4 orgasms a week, go ahead and masturbate yourself into a ripe old age(I take no responsibility for getting this quote completely wrong)omg...will I live to be a hundred then? as we get older, we seem to be having sex much more frequently...lol...sometimes i feel greedy...lol..........no....i dont...just lucky... (just finishing 4 weeks of holidays....is sex 2 and 3 times a day too often?)
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missangelina
13 years ago
Hi,Orgasms are indeed great for physical, emotional and mental health and do keep you young. Plenty of scientific evidence to support this and the link with longevity.My ex used to come 8-10 times a day which was pretty incredible and I kept up with him by coming once to every 2-3 of his orgasms. However he was unusual. I think if you dont masturbate it is not good for your health so i would say keep it up between partners and during dry spells. Ecstasy can only be good for you whether it is self-induced or with a partner.Angel
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm between contracts at present so home doing catch up stuff. I've found a very strong need to masturbate continuously. I do the usual wake up one, then the log on the PC one, then the morning coffee one, then the post lunch one, followed by 2-3 at night. I got concerned I was doing it so much so I took a challenge to use it for good. I can now delay things all I like but the real good one is I can now ejaculate without orgasm. I can now ejaculate 2-3 times in ten minutes or however long I masturbate, saving the final cum for an intensity I have never ever had in my life. recently I used this when catching up with a former colleague - I ejaculated in her four times (she loved having cum in her) before she begged me to cum for which I can say I never ever enjoyed sex so much. I say enjoy but set yourself some challenges to improve.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i find it definately effected my performance, i went from lasting long to being mr speedy after 6 months of being single and only random one nighters here and there, and having nothing but the hand.. a big buzzkill when you do get it in, id recomend definately not doing it multiple times a day and days in a rom. just from experience. Defs need a good cure to get back to my endurance everlasting self
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