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Masturbation / Exhibitionism - who's into it?

February 08 2014

Hey All, I would like to get your thoughts on a particular kink of mine - Masturbation and Exhibitionism. I've been on this site for many years, always been fun and nice group of people. However probably over the past year I have been less interested in sex and more interested in masturbation. I'll just be straight up and say - what I like to do is meet up with a lady, see her in some sexy clothes, and then perv on her and masturbate over her, in the flesh (instead of cam! haha). The setting will either be at my house or hers. I find something really sexy and arrousing about a lady watching me ejaculate. Often I can go many times in one sitting and prefer it over sex. I think what gets me is the kind of pervy stigma to the whole thing, i'm not after sex, I am looking to please myself by someones good looks. My question is: Do any other guys like this kinda thing? And do any ladies find this sexy or interesting themselves? I've found a few women over time who are willing to give it a go and it's always so much fun for me, and I think interesting for them!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You're a wanker... 😄😄😋😋 Mate someone here will love to help you I'm sure... You just need to find them... Maybe some of the ladies who you cam with might be a starting point. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

  • goldcoastcple69

    goldcoastcple69

    11 years ago

    Isnt that voyeurism ?? Im sure you'll find quite a few people on here with the same interest ..good luck !! I have similar interest but not so much with masturbation ..I love to watch others fuck in person..I would rather watch my wife fuck with others while I just watch rather than join in ..Something really hot about watching others ..Its like live porn I guess lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So while I sit their with my cup if tea, you will whip your dick out and masturbate until you come all over your feet. Actually I prefer if you come on your stomach actually. Mmmm. Can I bring my lover along? :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do you like to be submissive nighttime?

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    I like to watch... although I usually like it more when guys ejaculate on me while I'm sunbaking. HugsGazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love the concept of what your looking for nitetime85. Yet to find any women who are interested around my area.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sounds like it's just all about you, so what's in it for the women? Without knowing you or having some sort of a connection or part of a tease or foreplay...sorry to me that is just plain boring! But that's just me... maybe others would find it interesting! Good luck. SF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yup....what you said :) Yaasaawwwwwwwwwnnnn - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No no... That isn't the way you play the game. Have a little fun with it! ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I can only watch I feel left out .... can't help myself .... its all hands on for me! SF

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    For me, and I suspect for Meeks, it's all in the dialogue. Better than an afternoon at the comedy festival! Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's right Gazpacho. Say we were just hanging out and a fit muscular man asks if he can masturbate for us... Surely we can't turn him way. Just a little a performance for our benefit. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Never been a fan. Boy am I learning a whole heap about kinks though.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Love watching a man masturbate in front of me/for me, but like you SF, I also like being hands on and would need someone to play with. (I would defiantly be to hot and bothered after it was all done and dusted) So yes Meeka & Gaz, prefect sanario would be to watch this with a playmate, so that way you can "seal the deal" with each other.....so to speak.......💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have no problem watching a guy wank. I don't have to touch I can store it in my own wank bank and do a re play.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' So while I sit their with my cup if tea, you will whip your dick out and masturbate until you come all over your feet. Actually I prefer if you come on your stomach actually. Mmmm. Can I bring my lover along? :p Yes you can bring your lover along. I am either a sub or dom, depending on the situation lol. I like both. But yeh, i just like to jerk off infront of another girl, see her 'priceless' reaction, over and over hopefully.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Sounds like it's just all about you, so what's in it for the women? Without knowing you or having some sort of a connection or part of a tease or foreplay...sorry to me that is just plain boring! But that's just me... maybe others would find it interesting! Good luck. SF The whole idea is me 'praising' and blowing my load over your good looks. I think in the moment I will be in a vunerable position, you will get the feeling of sexual dominance (even though you didn't do anything).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have a few lady friends who watch me wank for them. We all enjoy it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    Yeah, that'd be ok... As long as he had an exotic British accent, and didn't mind the running commentary. Hugs Gazpacho

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    I agree with your sexual dominance comment. Seems lots of women underestimate the power they have with a dick in their mouth, for instance. Just one clench of her teeth and it's gone. A man couldn't be in a more vulnerable and exposed situation. And it's within her power to make him cum..... He is totally at her mercy, really. Same with tossing off in front of her. She has the capacity to make him cum with just a look and a smile. Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And we all know many women don't want to just jump into bed and have sex with a random. In this case/ fantasy - you aint having sex with anyone, there isn't even any touching if you don't want to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I agree also. I think there is potentially in it for a woman who can use her mind to enjoy it. I also don't see a problem with being a little hands on at the ladies request. She has the power. I'd certainly be aroused by a woman who masturbates at my teasing...it would be one hell of a fun game. Bring it on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes! I love my pussy being watched while I play with it. I like a little but if help though, like spreading it open and sticking a finger in here and there and playing with my asshole. So hot! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'fuck4hubby' Yes! I love my pussy being watched while I play with it. I like a little but if help though, like spreading it open and sticking a finger in here and there and playing with my asshole. So hot! - Posted from rhpmobile wow - almost an instant hard on reading that! I love the fantasy of spotting a girl in a cafe, shop, where ever - where she catches your eye and you can see how sexy she looks and she glances over see's you checking her out, she starts to walk off giving you that follow me look. You follow her to some secluded private location, you slowly peel off your clothes for her and she can see all of you and you just start slowly stroking, all the time she's looking at you teasing you with her smile, touching herself through her clothes. Afterwards you both go your separate ways. What an awesome thrill if you know she's into it, to me it's certainly a slight submissive thing to the woman knowing you're not going to actually have sex with her, but oh so much fun. And as miss fuck4hubby says above - there can obviously be a few variations to that. But yes, I'd love to try something like that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    it really excites me and gets me super horny knowing a woman can see me playing with my cock by just looking in my direction. i thought it was something that shoud be repressed but it feels so natural. i like to tempt fate in public places but i keep telling myself theres no chance any woman would enjoy seeing this

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'ausmtv' Quoting 'fuck4hubby' Yes! I love my pussy being watched while I play with it. I like a little but if help though, like spreading it open and sticking a finger in here and there and playing with my asshole. So hot! - Posted from rhpmobile wow - almost an instant hard on reading that! I love the fantasy of spotting a girl in a cafe, shop, where ever - where she catches your eye and you can see how sexy she looks and she glances over see's you checking her out, she starts to walk off giving you that follow me look. You follow her to some secluded private location, you slowly peel off your clothes for her and she can see all of you and you just start slowly stroking, all the time she's looking at you teasing you with her smile, touching herself through her clothes. Afterwards you both go your separate ways. What an awesome thrill if you know she's into it, to me it's certainly a slight submissive thing to the woman knowing you're not going to actually have sex with her, but oh so much fun. And as miss fuck4hubby says above - there can obviously be a few variations to that. But yes, I'd love to try something like that an old thread but I was reading your post, missed the word 'fantasy' and thought this had really happened to you, got all excited, I give that same look to guys all the time, they never follow though sigh fantasy of mine also

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    my wife loves to watch gets her hot

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    know what i love to do, jerk off until pre cum is oozing out , then get it on one finger and rub it slowly over her clit and up and down her slit then slowly into fanny,then repeat this process many times without me cumming ,but she can cum easily once sometimes twice,then me finish properly ,am pretty drained by then, ,with wild fuck ,is usually awesome .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I love watching ladies masturbate, in person or a sent video and even porn movies. Drives me crazy.I masturbate a lot, I would of course prefer the touch of a lady but it doesn't always work out that way.I have started to keep videos of me wanking, going off some of these comments and previous posts, some girls like it which is such a turn on and I like to share.10 years ago, I would have never even talk about having a wank.Better late than never.Great topic OP

  • seaadventure

    seaadventure

    9 years ago

    After being in a sexualy deprived relationship and not into cheating I have developed a love for experimenting on myself. Being watched while we both turn ourselves on even teaching each other about yourself is turning me on thinking about it . I'll often record my session or have the live feed in front of me like watching myself from across the room. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I too have a few lady friends who watch me wank for them,i love it when there is a raging thunderstorm looming,it makes me hot as hell and I run outside and masturbate wildly,for some reason ,I cum in huge loads,much more than normal,must be the electricity in the air or something,but the women love it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I enjoy wanking or fucking while people watch Dont mind watching either, lol