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Mates Advice

March 30 2023

My wife and I recently started sharing her with other guys about 12 months ago, being as this was a big fetish for me. We have found that this has bought us a lot closer again, intimately in the bedroom at home on our own as well. I have a close friend that I have shared this with, and he was a bit shocked, although intrigued as well. He thinks I should put a stop to it, but doesn't understand how much it arouses me watching her. I try to explain how , it is like an addiction for me. The more we play, the more I want to see her with. Surely I'm not the only guy who feels like this. My mate thinks she will start cheating on me behind my back, but that's not how it is. She is enjoying herself, but now I feel bad for asking my mates opinion. We are both having fun, and after 27 yrs of marriage, enjoying our new found vigour.

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FeistyFatty

2 years ago

Is there an actual question?

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realcpl4funBris

2 years ago

Nothing wrong with that at all & some people will never understand so I guess you can't share that with everyone. We love the Hotwife & MFM play but none of our vanilla life friends know that.

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MrMasage

2 years ago

Maybe your mate does not agree with sharing her with others but offer him a date or night with her and see what his reaction is........maybe that is what he inwardly desires.

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MFMHotWife

2 years ago

Most of my mates know what we get up to, that are always intrigued. We embrace our lifestyle so dont have a problem with who knows about it! Have fun!

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Sawadee

2 years ago

No ' its not unusual at all ... l read the other day where adult sites reported hotwife sex came in second as the most frequently watched ... If you and your wife are on the same page and it works for you ' l dont see a problem. Obviously ' theres no insecurities in your relationship which is the main ingredient of sharing .. Watching your wife enjoy herself is quite a amazing experience providing theres no jealousy and you enjoy it for what it is.. I dont know about involving friends but .. If it were me ' they ( friends ) wouldnt be considered as you never know where it leads. Not a good idea...

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madotara69

2 years ago

Fuck all friends if they want, friends lose each other over betrayal, a bloke told me he couldn’t get his head around, two guys in the same room, no way could he watch another guy fuck his missus better than he can, then to tell me it’s wrong, never fuck a mates missus it’s the rule over all rule’s (face all scrunched up like he’s ready to go to war over a broken rule of brothers pact. Yet having two girls because bi curious girls could explore each other and of course only fair the guy fucks either of them helping them and never mentioned a single girl rule, of course not, bi curious women can be married but not really cheating because they are only seeing if they like it or not, it’s only cheating if they like and go back for more and make it a secret. Also for him his missus has to be hot, I quizzed to his missus had awesome values, sharp and smart, and others that must matter more ? Nope, has to be hot. Broke up since. Reckoned his missus was so not into chicks she was the most anti gay chick and hottest only he will ever fuck her, she knows the rule ! Of course they broke up because she talked shit about him to all his mates and he to had a memorised memories of all the times he had facts backing facts, this then that they them her the slut, all he ever wanted was her being happy, even tried a pathetic attempt to win my call of it all, “She was my best mate, I lost my best mate and wanted everyone to think I’m a monster’ I said to him. Maybe you are a monster and you don’t know it “go get some help, there is help, you have to because you aren’t well, you are I’ll, ask to have a heavy metals test in specific ‘lead’ in case the preferred samples had everything more in the range of the spectrum lead was not for the greater good of wellness and all the benefits of so many heavy metals clear safe medical advances, backed by the data, clearly the results of drug epidemics crime and elevated voilence mostly teenage to ‘25’ (fully developed brain) to adultlecant males into mid thirties. Him being one in the symptoms of lead poisoning in particular. Mado Mado Tara xx

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twomagichands4u

2 years ago

Well done. Relationships are about dynamics between people. Ebbe and flow, give and take, sharing etc. It doesn't sound like there is any damage arising from your choices. Listen to your head and heart, your partners feelings, and screw your mates ... advice. Also, doesn't mean your mate's wrong either as he was asked his opinion. He just doesn't understand your relationship - that aside he must be a good mate for you to confide in - move forward but choose the focus of your discussions ... my 2c.

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happydays19

2 years ago

What an awesome adventure to live with your wife. I have long wanted the same dynamic but find that outsider judgment and community standards has made that difficult for my wife to embrace. Happy for you guys...

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share_me_now_69

2 years ago

we do it ,we love it, its always adult fun , we have met some really cool guys,

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MsSuperFoxy

2 years ago

The best kept secret is never shared. Don't tell your vanilla mates. Keep it separate. Loose lips sink ships. (Pun intended) Ms Foxy

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SAM_ANISSA

2 years ago

Who cares what your mate thinks !

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The_Antichrist

2 years ago

The shame you feel isn’t at all weird. What you find acceptable some people just won’t be able to comprehend, and for whatever the reason let it be theirs. I had this fantasy myself. I wanted to watch a partner get fucked by another male, the thought of that was amazing. There’s a level of humiliation but there’s a whole other dimension that puts us as an outsider looking in at our partner enjoying themselves and being able to see what they look like when WE are the ones fucking them. I hope you achieve what you’re setting out to.

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