M35
Maybe I just don't get this?
August 12 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
the UN bit?? If it's humour through your eyes; that's cool; but it's rather obscure and I didn't get it :/ I don't really believe though it's all profile..nor is it looks.....but without knowing how you message people I'm uncertain.... Feel free to message me how you would a potential and I'll take a look and maybe I'll be shed a more clearer light..... Obviously I'm no date doctor; but I don't seem to have issues with replies..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
9 years ago
Nice photos, body and photos... profile could have more positive comments rather than the negative UN !!
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RHP User
9 years ago
You and a thousand other guys. Just check out the Newbies and Profile advice topics to see how many have asked this question recently. My advice: Put your cock away in your private gallery and don't mention its size and girth in your profile. Don't swear or be negative or crass (I personally think some things you say in your profile are both.) Also, the fact it states you're 22 when you're 25 shows you're not really paying attention. Just my opinion of course. Good luck x
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RHP User
9 years ago
Care to give us some example of recent messages you have sent?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sounds to me you are into gang bangs not group play which some women may find off putting. I agree with the UN comment makes you sound a little arrogant and what makes you think you will find smart people here?
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
One thing which peeves me is when a profile is not updated.... you wrote it three years ago I believe. When you were 22? Well you are now 25; so either remove the age reference in the profile or update it! Also.... A smile - I'd kill to see a smile or two in your pic gallery! One of these things...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Could write your profile for you,but then it wouldn't be you ,would it?...if I was in your target group and I read your profile,I would be wondering what other general knowledge questions I would have to answer..I hate tests ...but it's always a good thing when people put their thoughts out there,helps in the selection process..And to answer her question,everywhere 😁xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
Keep in mind that your "about me" part of your profile is the first verbal introduction to a new lady. If you met someone at a club, would your first words to her be bragging about loving group sex and having sex with couples? That could possibly be off putting for some young girls to read first up.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
UN comment makes you sound like a smart arse. Not everyone is up to speed with world affairs and lots of people are just happy in their own small part of the world. Doesnt mean they are not fun and loving but would be put off with your attitude. My thoughts.
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RHP User
9 years ago
i like the photo on rocks, a smiling guy is cuter than a guy trying to do a Kim Kardashian selfie. The written part on profile is all about your wants. The un part I don't really get. My 2c s - Posted from rhpmobile
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NawtyNNice777
9 years ago
with what's already been said. The about me part of your profile sounds arrogant and off putting. If you were in my target group I'd be intimidated. Nothing wrong with being smart or loving group sex, but perhaps you haven't put your best foot forward there. Leave something up to imagination. Personally I enjoy reading profiles that make me want to ask more, find out more about the person. A little light banter, nothing too serious first up. And mentioning single ladies as a one liner at the end makes it seem like they're just filling a gap if you can't play with a couple or group. As for your pics, I like that your very first one is trying to be a little different to your average chest/crotch/ass shot. It's the rest of them that let you down. Both angle, pose and facial expressions look quite aloof/dominant/arrogant. Again nothing wrong with that per se but doesn't make me want to get to know you more. And finally, what kind of messages are you sending? I've read great profiles, but the first message or two I received were a massive let down which just sends me running for the hills. Just my personal view 😉 NN xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
to the topic author...... You've used pretty much every profile and message cliche in the history of RHP...... so my constructive criticism would be.... if as you say, you do fine with girls you're age in the world beyond this site..... go use that to "push boundaries" (cliche) with them!!! Because people are people whether in here, or out there, and if you've already got it going on out there..... try stepping up to the plate out there!!! Pretty logical answer huh!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Reeks of arrogance. I wouldn't go near you for fear of seeming dumb if I didn't pass your tests. Also you mention fit quite a few times. I would assume I am not up to your standards. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing in your profile is a massive red flag for me so, as has been already said, it'd be all about how your first message went. If it had the tone I like, I'd reply, if not (and for me that's too graphically sexual) I wouldn't. I used to reply to everyone who messaged me, mostly to give them polite declines and wish them well. I've stopped doing that now because the lovely Gentleman of RHP have taught me how to treat them; Any reply will be seen as an engagement in conversation and just encourage more pressure to meet/fuck/whatever. Don't be too put off by a lack of reply, it's a numbers game, just move on. So same offer, send me or post up an example of how you introduce yourself to someone in a first message and I can critically analyse it for you BUT bear in mind I am not the typical example of women here, I'm looking for something quite specific and particular so take my advice in that context.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had to see what this "UN" stuff was... I have to agree with you, a girl asking that would be a huge turn-off in terms of anything long term... but you could've looked at it as a challenge not a negative "can you get something into her mouth before the next daft question?" ;) I thought it was funny... like the Miss Teen USA South Carolina who laments the fact that most US Americans do not have maps. Maybe if you told the story differently and included it in the "what you're looking for" section e.g. "I don't need PhDs or Professors, but someone who knows the UN isn't a country (and wasn't surprised by the iceberg in the movie "Titanic") would be great"
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I dont judge people by what they may or not know. I dont judge people by comparing them to my likes and dislikes. I judge people by how they accept and interact with others around them. I've judged you by how you have pre-judged those you have yet to meet..........
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Included in my friends in everyday life are doctors, lawyers, scientists, hairdressers, beauticians, housewifes, ex drug addicts and shop assistants. I dont rate any above the other as far a worthy people go. Some i am closer to than others. But one thing i know is some of the least educated people would make just as good long term partner as any other. Annie As you can tell i'm shocked at this form of prejudice.
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Take a little on board of what everyone on here has said, update your profile, tweak it a little, move your photos around, pop in here on the forums a little more, read what the girls and guys are saying, express your opinion and I think you'll be fine. Personally I didn't think your profile was that bad, yes maybe a little arrogant but that's easily fixed......good luck 💋
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
Now did that grab your attention? How did it feel to read? A bit instructional, demanding maybe, arrogant or rude? It's your first word.....bet you didn't start your fist sentence with LOOK when first chatting to the girls you say you've met?...................>>>>>>>>>. Other than that mate take out the reference to wanting hard Anal sex from the second paragraph😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Excuse me, excuse me everyone. Sure he sounds cock sure and a little arrogant. But that is what a 20 something year old is supposed to sound like. It's part of their charm!! zac, I really like your main profile pic. The other pics are good too but as someone has already said smiling photos are the best.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Has anyone explained the UN comment to Stir yet? :p
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I should have been clear who my posts were too. Wasnt the Op. S.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Good to see some replies haha! Bombarded.Like I said constructive comments welcome. And they all make perfect sense to me. The infamous "UN THING" Was supposed to be some light humour, But alas it must be off putting when worded like that. I will find another way to lighten the mood.Secondly the photo's everybody is right by that, I will update those seeming a little happier and showing who I am rather then just my cock. I am confident for sure, Arrogant not too much so I do not want to come across like that. I will have a play with everything and see what I can come up with. xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
OP, you've proven some critics wrong by hearing the advice given and using it to your advantage. I much prefer your current profile and pics. Great smile! Two last tips from me: Be a bit more precise about which women and couples you are looking for. What do you like in people? What do you find attractive in someone? Right it sounds like you'd have sex with everyone (also: 18-99? Only say that if you mean it.) Being discerning is not a bad thing. And the pie joke I found funny became less so when you explained it. I think we all got it. Good luck x
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RHP User
9 years ago
To what Meander said. Also, you could simply move your words from "As for what I am searching for?" onwards, to under the 'I am Looking For' section Oh... also, if you're looking for couples, you might just want to select that tick box - under Manage Account/Profile. Nice work. Have fun
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
I think this is the first time I have seen an OP actually make some changes to their profile based feedback. Good job Zac; it reads well, and the pics are much better!
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Well played, Zac. Makes my earlier post look rather narky now youve mad the positive changes. Good to see ego didnt get in the way of feedback and progress.... as it does for so many NExt.... effective messaging (and learning to screen out the faux-profiles)
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Seachange
9 years ago
+3 here. coming in late and read the post replies. sorry did not read the previous profile but it seems fine now and 'Engaging'. Well done. Nice pics. smiling pics are great and sexy! Your main profile pic is even more interesting and no cock pic shoved in my face. Now I see you more as a person than just an angry cock. Lol. Well written profile, honest and shows you are smart and funny. An interesting guy. Now that you have taken the wise posters' advice and kudos to you. Now. as another advice: go to the Perth Meet and Greets. Or any meet and greets in the area. They are a great place to meet people without the pressure of having sex with them that night if you dont want to. Purely social occasion, a drink or two, dance, chat to people (sexy women and couples abound as they are what you are after) that may catch your fancy and exchange numbers if you want to pursue things further. Up to you but the opportunities exists for you to check out people in the flesh (as opposed to hiding behind pics) to convert the leads to something that may be mutually beneficial to all parties. Have fun. Good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
hello sailor Swoons with guy in uniform... 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha Well thank you for all the coaching.I think the main photo is the best moment of posing I have ever managed to pull off in a crowded place.It was taken by a photographer and an event and I Just caught him pointing my way before he snapped haha! Thanks guys!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep. Verrrrryyy nice photos. Good luck Zac. Hope you find many lovely ladies.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is a huge Perth meet and greet night planned for a months time or something like that. SOunds like lots of people will go and I can tell you there will probably be quite a number of single women and couples there. you should go if you are available. It think you should be able to find the details on the Events page. I personally have found the best way of meeting other kinky people and getting up to shenanigans is through the Events.
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